My freinds and my family think i am much prettier then other girls in my school!! Im gonna be a freshman this year and i dont think i will find anyone for homecoming!! I dont think im ugly and yet no one asked me out in 8th grade!! A lot of guys flirt with me but no one ever asks me out!!! What's wrong with me?Will I find someone for homecoming! Guys please gimme the advice!?
there's nothing wrong with them, when I was in the eighth grade I did flirt a little but just as a joke, it wasn't serious, some girls liked pretending to flirt. Anyway, as all guys are at that age, they are shy, compassionate, nervous, sweaty human beings who are changing and discovering new things as becoming a teenager. I would just relax and wait, homecoming isn't till october unless its early at your school. Is homecoming a dance or for football because home coming at my high school was for football and you got all year to find someone. If its a dance then wait patiencely for a guy to ask, even if nobody asks u out, go to it becasue I didn't go to my high school dances and I would get all depressed and stuff by not going but on the bright side I've found the right person before graduating college so u have all your life to find a nice guy who will take of you, love you, have kids, etc... I guess I'm saying ';all good things come to those who wait'; Alright, take it easy and try to get good grades for college, alright see ya, byeWill I find someone for homecoming! Guys please gimme the advice!?
Its not whats wrong with you, 8th grade guys for the most part don't have the confidence to ask a girl out. If homecoming is months away, you're just anxious. Why don't you talk about it with a couple of guys you like? I'd wait 'till about a month beforehand to start asking.
You could just ask the one guy you would love to go with most. Better yet, ask him if he'd like to take you out on a date to see if you really do want to go to homecoming with him.
If you don't want to do any pursuing (some guys never will), you can give out a couple of compliments and try to get a guy to start talking about himself (the one thing anyone loves to to most is talk about themselves). He'll enjoy having you listen, and then you'll be asked out.
well homecoming id very important for female and ... reading ur discreapsion i guest ur very popular in school and boys might ask u soon mybe just wait later longer and if they've not aske u yet i might think the boys might be jelous but that coplecated to anderstand for a boy and if they not aske u like forever yet it might be ur action making them late to ask u n about a week boys not asked u yet u should do ur move asked them instead of asking you ^_^ that all i can say lovey and have fun xxx
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Advice...from a guys point of view please?
So my guy friend can pretty much get any girl he wants, but when he tried to get me to like him, it didn't happen. I rejected him sooo many times. He told me that when other girls rejected him, he'd get bored and move on, but with me it's different.
A few months later, i started having little feelings for him. He was happy I did, but he wanted me to like him more. A few months later, he told me that he's starting to love me. His exact words were
';I love you. Slightly more than a friend.';
%26amp; now I'm starting to have deep feelings for him, I really like him. My question is, do you think if I told him this, he'd lose interest because he got what he wanted?
Like you know how people always want what they can't have...then when they know they can have it they don't want it anymore..Advice...from a guys point of view please?
uh...
he just wants some
trust me
and its working
dont let him get in your head
or in your pants for that matterAdvice...from a guys point of view please?
i would stay friends a little longer. then if anything happens then go for it.
keep him on his toes and keep him wondering
he wont lose intrest in u
it depends on how good you are for each others.. i mean this theory is somethimes right but doesnt work with someone you love.. it works with someone you like .. when you got him . you might stop feel you like him..but when it comes to love .. i dont think this is true..what you can do now is to show him you love him .. without tellng him that .. show him and let him feel your love in your way .. without admitting it...this way he will always be exciting .. until you reach a point when you are sure he loves you deeply..and at this point i think you will be in the safe side when confessing your love..
A few months later, i started having little feelings for him. He was happy I did, but he wanted me to like him more. A few months later, he told me that he's starting to love me. His exact words were
';I love you. Slightly more than a friend.';
%26amp; now I'm starting to have deep feelings for him, I really like him. My question is, do you think if I told him this, he'd lose interest because he got what he wanted?
Like you know how people always want what they can't have...then when they know they can have it they don't want it anymore..Advice...from a guys point of view please?
uh...
he just wants some
trust me
and its working
dont let him get in your head
or in your pants for that matterAdvice...from a guys point of view please?
i would stay friends a little longer. then if anything happens then go for it.
keep him on his toes and keep him wondering
he wont lose intrest in u
it depends on how good you are for each others.. i mean this theory is somethimes right but doesnt work with someone you love.. it works with someone you like .. when you got him . you might stop feel you like him..but when it comes to love .. i dont think this is true..what you can do now is to show him you love him .. without tellng him that .. show him and let him feel your love in your way .. without admitting it...this way he will always be exciting .. until you reach a point when you are sure he loves you deeply..and at this point i think you will be in the safe side when confessing your love..
I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
ok so ive got this problem where ive been dating this guy for 7 months %26amp;%26amp; i rele do love him but lately i feel like my feelings for him have changed a bit but ive tried to work things out %26amp;%26amp; so i have a best friend neil he has like totally taken my mind off of my bf Jared %26amp; i rele like neil like soo much i care for him and so this is my senior year and idk if i should stay with jared for as long as it will last or move onto neil since its my last year, and the other day me n kayla went to our friends goin away party %26amp;%26amp; neil was there n i was soo tempted when he leaned in and kissed me so i did cheat on jared but i feel horrible n i kno that if i break up with jared it will literally kill him cuz he's gave me a ring and everything, i still have feelings for jared but neil is more than i imagined and ppl tell me to listen to my heart and i rele dont kno wat my heart is telling me b/c i am soo far confused...plzz help me!!I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
This guy Neil sounds like he's taking advantage of a bad situation. Don't let him lead you astray. But on the other hand, if you have different feelings about this current guy, take some time off to realize who you are as a person. You're young so you might feel that your heart says one thing, but all of the hormones in your body tell you another. Don't get confused between love and infatuation.I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
You should break up with Jared, for his benefit because you obviously don't want to be with him and it's unfair to him.
If this is your senior year then enjoy the experience, because when you go off to college next year you'll meet someone else and forget all about both of them.
Whatever you are doing, stop messing with Neil until you are absolutely done with Jared. Your feelings for Jared might have changed because at first you thought he was perfect or ';the one';, and then 7 months into the relationship you think he has many flaws. You ';love'; him? You are moving too fast considering the fact that this has only been 7 months. You probably like Neil more because you feel more trust and communication going on with him than Jared, as if you know Neil a lot better than Jared. Break up with Jared and then make it official with Neil.
Neil is takin' your heart, you don't know if Neil is planning to marry you or not or maybe he maybe want to use you, who knows.
My advise is to stick with the man who loves you so much and who wants to be with you like forever not for just one night, Think about it and in these cases, listen to your mind not your heart.
This guy Neil sounds like he's taking advantage of a bad situation. Don't let him lead you astray. But on the other hand, if you have different feelings about this current guy, take some time off to realize who you are as a person. You're young so you might feel that your heart says one thing, but all of the hormones in your body tell you another. Don't get confused between love and infatuation.I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
You should break up with Jared, for his benefit because you obviously don't want to be with him and it's unfair to him.
If this is your senior year then enjoy the experience, because when you go off to college next year you'll meet someone else and forget all about both of them.
Whatever you are doing, stop messing with Neil until you are absolutely done with Jared. Your feelings for Jared might have changed because at first you thought he was perfect or ';the one';, and then 7 months into the relationship you think he has many flaws. You ';love'; him? You are moving too fast considering the fact that this has only been 7 months. You probably like Neil more because you feel more trust and communication going on with him than Jared, as if you know Neil a lot better than Jared. Break up with Jared and then make it official with Neil.
Neil is takin' your heart, you don't know if Neil is planning to marry you or not or maybe he maybe want to use you, who knows.
My advise is to stick with the man who loves you so much and who wants to be with you like forever not for just one night, Think about it and in these cases, listen to your mind not your heart.
Needing some advice from you guys?
Today makes 13 days since my boyfriend broke up with me. His reason was our pointless arguing. We were together for 3 1/2 years, and we are both 18. We were really close and the break up happend so fast, when he broke up with me he told me he just snapped and can't take it anymore. I love him so much and I'm so confused. We live close to each other like maybe half a mile, so its hard not to accidentally run into each other leaving the neighborhood etc..Lately he has had a different guy friend over each weekend night, I recognize each car because they are mutual guy friends..before we broke up 2 weeks ago, he never had anyone over..its not like him to have guy friends over. Does he have them over to help take his mind off me or distract him for awhile and help take his mind off things? I know we are both going through a really tough time right now, but I wish I could tell him in some way that I am still here for him if he ever needs someone to talk to. But I don't know if I should wait until he contacts me since he is the one that broke up with me..Sorry this is alot to take in, any advice is very much appreciated, thanks everyone.Needing some advice from you guys?
your young best thing I can say is to move on ur young I'm 53 years old and Still unsettled Life is what u make u make of it! If someone is is taking u down move on %26amp; don't look back!!!!!!
sherry19124Needing some advice from you guys?
Move on, he has. Just because he has a friend over does
not mean he's having a tough time with the breakup-that's more of a girl thing.
Coming from a guy, move on. Women always beat their chests about being so strong well why don't you act like one and move on. Drama should be a crime. Keep things simple.
your young best thing I can say is to move on ur young I'm 53 years old and Still unsettled Life is what u make u make of it! If someone is is taking u down move on %26amp; don't look back!!!!!!
sherry19124Needing some advice from you guys?
Move on, he has. Just because he has a friend over does
not mean he's having a tough time with the breakup-that's more of a girl thing.
Coming from a guy, move on. Women always beat their chests about being so strong well why don't you act like one and move on. Drama should be a crime. Keep things simple.
Need some advice from the guys. I recently reconnect with one of my ex bf from the past. After a short time we?
ran off and got married. Currently we live 1800 miles apart but are working at me moving over to where he lives. I get to see him about every 2 weeks and usually we have a great time. Until lately. This time and the time before when we have sex he finishes before me. He says its because hes just really sensitive. One time he did everything he could to make it better but sometimes this can ruin the mood. This has even happened on the day he was leaving the last 2 times. So that's how he leaves me. Im just not sure if it is that really he is extremely sensitive or if he just doesn't really care and wants to get his. I would never want to think of him that way but where is the self control and why does this start after we are married. I test drove the car and it ran great now its puttering.
Please only advice no rude comments.Need some advice from the guys. I recently reconnect with one of my ex bf from the past. After a short time we?
Lots of guys suffer from premature ejaculation as i'm sure you know. One way to confront this is to get some viagra. Suggest it to him, not in a mean way, but in sort of an experimental way. Tell him your friends have tried it and told you it's great, and that you want to try it with him. He should have no problem with this and that way you would both be pleased! Hope i helped.
Please only advice no rude comments.Need some advice from the guys. I recently reconnect with one of my ex bf from the past. After a short time we?
Lots of guys suffer from premature ejaculation as i'm sure you know. One way to confront this is to get some viagra. Suggest it to him, not in a mean way, but in sort of an experimental way. Tell him your friends have tried it and told you it's great, and that you want to try it with him. He should have no problem with this and that way you would both be pleased! Hope i helped.
Hey guys I really need advice.?
So I'm getting invisalign but before that they have to remove my 3rd molars. I'm 15 so it still hasn't shown up yet it's still inside. I'm getting a surgery tom. And I know the surgery won't hurt that much. But I want to know what are the after effects. Like will my face be really swelling? What kinds of food would I be able to eat. By the way I'm getting all my 4 molars out so that's all sides.Hey guys I really need advice.?
There will be a little swelling a few days after the surgery, but that should go down fairly quickly. Also for the first few days you will be limited in what you can eat, but this should only be for a week or two. If you have any more questions then you should ask your dentist.lips
There will be a little swelling a few days after the surgery, but that should go down fairly quickly. Also for the first few days you will be limited in what you can eat, but this should only be for a week or two. If you have any more questions then you should ask your dentist.
I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
Okay I go to school in miami but Im from a different city. Back in November i met this awesome guy and we started talking for about 3 weeks and during that period of time we saw each other every other day. Well I had to leave n december and go back home for winter break. Which was 3 weeks. During that time the man called me twice and we would causually text each other. I just got back in miami yesterday so i figured would let him know i was back. Well i sent him a text dat said hey yesteday and he has yet to respond. He has two cellphones. So should I call him , send him another text saying that im in town, or should i just brush him off. I really dont wont to chase after him.I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
I think that you should try to call to see if he is using the number on which you sent the text. If it is off, try on the other cellphone. If not, then don't make any further step.. It's his turn now..I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
dont chase after him but maybe u could call him at a time that u two would normally chill.... if he answers just say hey, how was ur break, blah blah... maybe we could chill soon or now or whatever u feel comfortable saying. if u get his voicemail, leave a message. if u dont and he doesnt return ur call it will just drive u nuts. leave a message in u very chill voice just sayin that ur back in town, just wanted to see what he was up to, maybe grab a drink or somethin. tell him to hit u up when he gets a chance. after that, forget about him until he calls u back.
well if he's not replying then just let it go
call him once. if he does not respond move on
if u really like him then kall him and if he answers casually say that ur in town and wait and c if he gets tha hint that u want 2 meet up,it doesnt sound like he thinks u 2 r serious or anything and that he sees u as a friend for now,if he doesnt answer ur kall or kall bak den jus 4get about him
I think that you should try to call to see if he is using the number on which you sent the text. If it is off, try on the other cellphone. If not, then don't make any further step.. It's his turn now..I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
dont chase after him but maybe u could call him at a time that u two would normally chill.... if he answers just say hey, how was ur break, blah blah... maybe we could chill soon or now or whatever u feel comfortable saying. if u get his voicemail, leave a message. if u dont and he doesnt return ur call it will just drive u nuts. leave a message in u very chill voice just sayin that ur back in town, just wanted to see what he was up to, maybe grab a drink or somethin. tell him to hit u up when he gets a chance. after that, forget about him until he calls u back.
well if he's not replying then just let it go
call him once. if he does not respond move on
if u really like him then kall him and if he answers casually say that ur in town and wait and c if he gets tha hint that u want 2 meet up,it doesnt sound like he thinks u 2 r serious or anything and that he sees u as a friend for now,if he doesnt answer ur kall or kall bak den jus 4get about him
I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
So there's this guy in one of my college classes, and I think he's kinda cute. He sits on the TOTAL opposite side of the classroom from me. But when his seat is taken, he'll come sit by me. We've made eye contact ALOT! I'll be looking at him, then he looks at me, or I turn to look at him, and he's already looking at me. We haven't said two words to each other yet. I said thank you once when he held the door open for me, and he said thank you once when i moved my stuff so he could sit in the seat behind me. But other than that, we've said nothing. I kinda wanna get to know him, but I don't know how to. He sits far from me, so i can't do small chit chat. And I can't talk to him after class, because I don't want to make it seem obvious that I'm kinda into him. And I don't even know if he knows i exist. He hasn't done anything to show interest in me besides looking at me and sitting by me when his seats not available, but that can all just be luck. He might not have any interest in me at all what so ever. How can I know? I'm not drop dead gorgeous and skinny. Im just average...and curvaceous. So I don't know what to do. Girls, how would you handle this situation without making it seem obvious. And guys, how would to want a girl to handle this without it seeming weird or anything like that? Any other comments or advice by anyone would be great! Thanks! =)I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
Just be nice, say hi more often, ask him if he will go to lunch with you or such. Again, talk to him more, he could be shy and thats probably why he avoids talking.I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
well from my perspective as being a guy my whole life, guys dont want to just go up to a girl unless theres some reason or if she hints that she wants to talk like if you did something that would strike up a conversation with him then he should take advantage of that then boom relationship right there for you
do you know his name???
next time he sits next to you, just ask a few simple questions, like 'Hi, i'm blah blah' or 'nice weather. eh?'. then get into the conversation. try to make him feel welcome to sit next to you regularly. then just ease into things. the key is to be friendly.
hope this helps. :)
Just say hi to him,talk abot class, make convo, tell him you think he is cute and offer to have a bite to eat with him.
ask him if you could borrow a pen or something..or after a test ask him how he tought it went...or ask him before a test if he studied and say good luck right before you write it..its not that tough...most guys don't like shy girls..so just try to make convo
Maybe when he sit's next to you ask him for some help with maths
Well, get to know him by communicating but remember that a lot of communication is through body language!! Look confident but not too confident so don't slouch keep your shoulders upright but make sure it is comfortable. Make sure you choose the right moment or there it could be very awkward. Do attempt not to blush and if you feel embarrassed then end the conversation subtly. Next time you get the chance simply tell him your name ie. when he says thank you for something.
Best of luck
LG x
there really isn't a weird way to handle this. you're just psyching yourself out thinking too much about it. if i was in his position, it would be best if she just said hey and introduced herself (best time would be when he comes back to sit by you) but either way, an introduction would be a great first step. it doesn't seem obvious that you're into him that way and he won't be weirded out bc you're only introducing yourself. anything could happen afterwords. maybe he'll end up asking you if you want to grab lunch or if not, you could always make the move (never a bad thing, some guys are just shy, i would know, it happens lol) i hope this helped
my suggestion would be to be yourself. maybe you can try starting up a conversation with him on those days he sits by you or try to just be around him more so you can strike up a conversation. just introduce yourself and make small talk about the class sometime before or after class. i wouldn't just go over to him to just start talking to him but maybe walk near him and start talking or ask for help with the homework or what the assignment was or something like that then you can start talking more and more. This is a hard situation many peole are in. Do you have any friends that know him or anyother way of getting closer to him. just don't seem to anxious or to scared. be yourself.
Just be nice, say hi more often, ask him if he will go to lunch with you or such. Again, talk to him more, he could be shy and thats probably why he avoids talking.I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
well from my perspective as being a guy my whole life, guys dont want to just go up to a girl unless theres some reason or if she hints that she wants to talk like if you did something that would strike up a conversation with him then he should take advantage of that then boom relationship right there for you
do you know his name???
next time he sits next to you, just ask a few simple questions, like 'Hi, i'm blah blah' or 'nice weather. eh?'. then get into the conversation. try to make him feel welcome to sit next to you regularly. then just ease into things. the key is to be friendly.
hope this helps. :)
Just say hi to him,talk abot class, make convo, tell him you think he is cute and offer to have a bite to eat with him.
ask him if you could borrow a pen or something..or after a test ask him how he tought it went...or ask him before a test if he studied and say good luck right before you write it..its not that tough...most guys don't like shy girls..so just try to make convo
Maybe when he sit's next to you ask him for some help with maths
Well, get to know him by communicating but remember that a lot of communication is through body language!! Look confident but not too confident so don't slouch keep your shoulders upright but make sure it is comfortable. Make sure you choose the right moment or there it could be very awkward. Do attempt not to blush and if you feel embarrassed then end the conversation subtly. Next time you get the chance simply tell him your name ie. when he says thank you for something.
Best of luck
LG x
there really isn't a weird way to handle this. you're just psyching yourself out thinking too much about it. if i was in his position, it would be best if she just said hey and introduced herself (best time would be when he comes back to sit by you) but either way, an introduction would be a great first step. it doesn't seem obvious that you're into him that way and he won't be weirded out bc you're only introducing yourself. anything could happen afterwords. maybe he'll end up asking you if you want to grab lunch or if not, you could always make the move (never a bad thing, some guys are just shy, i would know, it happens lol) i hope this helped
my suggestion would be to be yourself. maybe you can try starting up a conversation with him on those days he sits by you or try to just be around him more so you can strike up a conversation. just introduce yourself and make small talk about the class sometime before or after class. i wouldn't just go over to him to just start talking to him but maybe walk near him and start talking or ask for help with the homework or what the assignment was or something like that then you can start talking more and more. This is a hard situation many peole are in. Do you have any friends that know him or anyother way of getting closer to him. just don't seem to anxious or to scared. be yourself.
Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
so, I was searching , then I found one , is not very far from my place , so
what will you advice me about Tai CHi ???
can I get high jumps with it ???
please help
thx for everyone asnwring to me,,.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi under a good instructor is a great style,
it is not something you learn overnight, and takes time to understand and use it,
there are several styles of tai chi with out knowing which one it is difficult to say what to expect.
traditionally high jumps were only used to take people on horse back or on higher ground.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi isn't very fast nor jumpy art. matter in fact you'll notice that it's more of a meditation than your average martial art. and to make things worse if you find a wrong master you'll be only training for health. if you find a right person you'll learn a lot of complex ideas, but it'll be hard to understand most of it without fighting experience.
for high jumps and flashy attacks try other kung fu (shaolin) or TKD.
AVOID
what will you advice me about Tai CHi ???
can I get high jumps with it ???
please help
thx for everyone asnwring to me,,.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi under a good instructor is a great style,
it is not something you learn overnight, and takes time to understand and use it,
there are several styles of tai chi with out knowing which one it is difficult to say what to expect.
traditionally high jumps were only used to take people on horse back or on higher ground.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi isn't very fast nor jumpy art. matter in fact you'll notice that it's more of a meditation than your average martial art. and to make things worse if you find a wrong master you'll be only training for health. if you find a right person you'll learn a lot of complex ideas, but it'll be hard to understand most of it without fighting experience.
for high jumps and flashy attacks try other kung fu (shaolin) or TKD.
AVOID
Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
Go up to a guy your interested in, start a conversation find out his interests. then say you enjoyed talking to him and ask for his number or you give him yours.Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
Be yourself, and don't think of it as ';picking up guys';. You'll attract the wrong type of guy.
The best thing to do before you start to date is sit down and make up a mental list of what it is your looking for.
Just be happy with yourself, be confident and healthy, and eventually a guy will come along that fits your list :)Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
I agree - just be yourself. Getting guys to like you can be really easy if you know what they're attracted to. There's a book called ';Catch Him and Keep Him'; about the psychology of what attracts men that you should check out. It's full off specific ways to communicate with a man that will instantly amplify the attraction he feels for you and help move things quickly and smoothly...
Here's the link: http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/453/CD2043/%26amp;dp=26226
Good luck with your pick up success!
James
Go to parties and dances, other things like that (clubs if you are old enough).
Make sure you talk to a lot of guys and dance with a lot of guys.
you should just be yourself,do not try to act like somebody else.just hang out with some guys and let them come to you.
Be yourself, and don't think of it as ';picking up guys';. You'll attract the wrong type of guy.
The best thing to do before you start to date is sit down and make up a mental list of what it is your looking for.
Just be happy with yourself, be confident and healthy, and eventually a guy will come along that fits your list :)Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
I agree - just be yourself. Getting guys to like you can be really easy if you know what they're attracted to. There's a book called ';Catch Him and Keep Him'; about the psychology of what attracts men that you should check out. It's full off specific ways to communicate with a man that will instantly amplify the attraction he feels for you and help move things quickly and smoothly...
Here's the link: http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/453/CD2043/%26amp;dp=26226
Good luck with your pick up success!
James
Go to parties and dances, other things like that (clubs if you are old enough).
Make sure you talk to a lot of guys and dance with a lot of guys.
you should just be yourself,do not try to act like somebody else.just hang out with some guys and let them come to you.
Helppp! Any advice from teen guys?
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been fighting about the more random sh*t on earth. The only thing I ask of him is to be there for me when I need someone. And everytime i need him he always says whatever. Like what the eff?I have gotten to the point to where it bugs me so much I can only be kinda a b*tch. Cause when he needs me, I am there for him. Like I go to his baseball games and get him late at night to be together and get him when he is in trouble. And when I just need someone to talk to he is never there... What do I do? I don't want to end it with him cause I love him more then anything in the world. Any ideas?
Thanks..Helppp! Any advice from teen guys?
im not a guy. but i think you should talk to him about itHelppp! Any advice from teen guys?
Poking small children with sticks solves every problem.
Thanks..Helppp! Any advice from teen guys?
im not a guy. but i think you should talk to him about itHelppp! Any advice from teen guys?
Poking small children with sticks solves every problem.
I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
Im 14 and havent had a real relationship, is that awkward/weird/a turnoff for guys who have been in many relationships and/or are older [for me a datable guy is between 14-16 maybe 17 idk my schools pretty laid back about ages]
[if it helps a lot of people are shocked when i tell them that ive never had a real boyfriend because of my personality/looks/etc.]
[i would also consider myself to be attractive...im not being vain here..just honest]I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
Hun that's not a turn-off at all!
I'm 18 and have never had a real relationship, yet I was asked out five times in the past few months. I turned them all down for various reasons (the guy I liked most turned out to be a player, another is the only guy in school who I can honestly say I hate for his over-confidence, and three others whom I just CAN'T think of as anything more than a friend).I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
No its not a turn off to all guys. Most guys older than you it will be a turn off simply b/c they dont want to be your ';first love'; and have you all clingy to them. others may not care and just want to take advantage of you. you need to be on the look out and not so trusting when it comes to dating older guys. Although, every once in awhile there will be someone who wont mind a girl inexperienced in relationships. and he wont want to take advantage of you either :) i hope you find him soon :)
dating is a pain, it is strenuous, and a lot of work. but dont rush things, take your time getting to know the person, you will date a lot of ppl, i know that you have heard it before, but it is true, i have dated numerous people, and looking back after all the heartbreak and all the pain i would have it no other way because i wouldnt be the person i am today, i am not that much older then you, but when you start dating people i have found only one thing that is a constant, ';dont date a person more then once'; because if it doesnt work the first time then it wont work the second time,
i will leave you with one saying that i think is very true
it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all
to some guys maybe but for most i doubt it is. and not too many 14 your old have relationships those usually start happening around the age of 16, but no its really not a turn off guys like girls that didnt go with the whole class...(just being honest) but i wouldnt rush a relationship becasue of your peers, a relationship will happen when it does, dont go looking for one just to ';fit in';.
I didn't get a boyfriend until I turned 15 [my current age] and he's turning 19 next week. So being inexperienced in relationships isn't really a factor. I don't think anyone would assume that someone without relationship experience would be a bad person to be in a relationship with. In fact, I'd think that most would agree that it's better that way. A clean slate, if you will.
I didn't get kissed until I was 14 and didn't have a relationship till I was about 15/16. My first bf I was a sophomore in high school. Not a turn off not anything bad or unusual. I think people that are younger think that a relationship at 14 is like cool or something just have one when you are more mature and have grown up you got plenty of time before drama starts to kick in and everything else.
omg 14 is not weird to have never had a real relationship. youre only young! dont worry about it, the right guy will come along when its time. you have plenty of time for that to happen. just take it easy and have fun. there are heaps of girls that havent had a relationship at 14 and a seriously doubt its a turn off. if anything, it will probably make guys want you more because they could see u as hard to get. and people dont know that if you dont tell them, so theres no need to think that guys know that about you when they see you. dont worry
Hey Audi.....the way i see it is, is that you are only 14 years old, you dont need to have a boyfriend.....and whoever is shocked is pretty stupid... you are still a young...wait some more....the time will come trust me i know.......didnt have a bf till i was 17.....and now im 18 and still going out with the F#!% Head. The point is....is that you have forever to get a bf....the key is to let them chase you....%26amp; keep them guessing! hope i helped if not sorry
I cannot understand why anyone would be shocked to learn that you've never had a real boyfriend, even tho you may be attractive and have personality. 14 yrs. old is still very young. Don't bring up the subject, and if someone ask, just shrug your pretty little shoulders 'n tell them that ';Prince Charmin' is searchin' for his boots.... or his horse. Whatever....';
It should be pretty normalfor a 14 year old to not have had a real relationship. It should'nt turn anyone off for anyone. A lot of guys would probably enjoy being the first person you get close to. but I'm only speaking for myself, I don't know how other guys would feel about it.
well... ive never had a bf either... T_T
but i think it has nothin o do with our looks or anything... sometimes i turn off guys when they start to confess to me, i laugh, i LAUGH... haha... then i run...
haha
uhm.. you can start if you have friends that are boys? ask them to introduce you?
im also 14 and never had a real relationship, and i think it wouldnt matter. if you like each other why would past experience matter? if your a nice person and people find you attractive you should'nt have any trouble getting into one
okayy im the same way
only im 15, but never had a real relationship or first kiss, all that
but when i tell people, they dont believe me
but idk i think some guys think its like cute? like that they get to be first. idk but they dont seem to care
being inexperienced isn't a turnoff, usually it's quite the opposite. boys your age only want one thing and they usually love a conquest. if i were you, i'd stay within my age range and only go after guys who are 14-15.
nah i don't think it would be awkward or anything and it definatly wouldn't be a turnoff.
give up on guys, you havent had a boyfriend and you wont.
they hate you.
to me it wouldn't really matter
i don't thnk its wierd or a turn off at all... if anything the oppositelips
[if it helps a lot of people are shocked when i tell them that ive never had a real boyfriend because of my personality/looks/etc.]
[i would also consider myself to be attractive...im not being vain here..just honest]I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
Hun that's not a turn-off at all!
I'm 18 and have never had a real relationship, yet I was asked out five times in the past few months. I turned them all down for various reasons (the guy I liked most turned out to be a player, another is the only guy in school who I can honestly say I hate for his over-confidence, and three others whom I just CAN'T think of as anything more than a friend).I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
No its not a turn off to all guys. Most guys older than you it will be a turn off simply b/c they dont want to be your ';first love'; and have you all clingy to them. others may not care and just want to take advantage of you. you need to be on the look out and not so trusting when it comes to dating older guys. Although, every once in awhile there will be someone who wont mind a girl inexperienced in relationships. and he wont want to take advantage of you either :) i hope you find him soon :)
dating is a pain, it is strenuous, and a lot of work. but dont rush things, take your time getting to know the person, you will date a lot of ppl, i know that you have heard it before, but it is true, i have dated numerous people, and looking back after all the heartbreak and all the pain i would have it no other way because i wouldnt be the person i am today, i am not that much older then you, but when you start dating people i have found only one thing that is a constant, ';dont date a person more then once'; because if it doesnt work the first time then it wont work the second time,
i will leave you with one saying that i think is very true
it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all
to some guys maybe but for most i doubt it is. and not too many 14 your old have relationships those usually start happening around the age of 16, but no its really not a turn off guys like girls that didnt go with the whole class...(just being honest) but i wouldnt rush a relationship becasue of your peers, a relationship will happen when it does, dont go looking for one just to ';fit in';.
I didn't get a boyfriend until I turned 15 [my current age] and he's turning 19 next week. So being inexperienced in relationships isn't really a factor. I don't think anyone would assume that someone without relationship experience would be a bad person to be in a relationship with. In fact, I'd think that most would agree that it's better that way. A clean slate, if you will.
I didn't get kissed until I was 14 and didn't have a relationship till I was about 15/16. My first bf I was a sophomore in high school. Not a turn off not anything bad or unusual. I think people that are younger think that a relationship at 14 is like cool or something just have one when you are more mature and have grown up you got plenty of time before drama starts to kick in and everything else.
omg 14 is not weird to have never had a real relationship. youre only young! dont worry about it, the right guy will come along when its time. you have plenty of time for that to happen. just take it easy and have fun. there are heaps of girls that havent had a relationship at 14 and a seriously doubt its a turn off. if anything, it will probably make guys want you more because they could see u as hard to get. and people dont know that if you dont tell them, so theres no need to think that guys know that about you when they see you. dont worry
Hey Audi.....the way i see it is, is that you are only 14 years old, you dont need to have a boyfriend.....and whoever is shocked is pretty stupid... you are still a young...wait some more....the time will come trust me i know.......didnt have a bf till i was 17.....and now im 18 and still going out with the F#!% Head. The point is....is that you have forever to get a bf....the key is to let them chase you....%26amp; keep them guessing! hope i helped if not sorry
I cannot understand why anyone would be shocked to learn that you've never had a real boyfriend, even tho you may be attractive and have personality. 14 yrs. old is still very young. Don't bring up the subject, and if someone ask, just shrug your pretty little shoulders 'n tell them that ';Prince Charmin' is searchin' for his boots.... or his horse. Whatever....';
It should be pretty normalfor a 14 year old to not have had a real relationship. It should'nt turn anyone off for anyone. A lot of guys would probably enjoy being the first person you get close to. but I'm only speaking for myself, I don't know how other guys would feel about it.
well... ive never had a bf either... T_T
but i think it has nothin o do with our looks or anything... sometimes i turn off guys when they start to confess to me, i laugh, i LAUGH... haha... then i run...
haha
uhm.. you can start if you have friends that are boys? ask them to introduce you?
im also 14 and never had a real relationship, and i think it wouldnt matter. if you like each other why would past experience matter? if your a nice person and people find you attractive you should'nt have any trouble getting into one
okayy im the same way
only im 15, but never had a real relationship or first kiss, all that
but when i tell people, they dont believe me
but idk i think some guys think its like cute? like that they get to be first. idk but they dont seem to care
being inexperienced isn't a turnoff, usually it's quite the opposite. boys your age only want one thing and they usually love a conquest. if i were you, i'd stay within my age range and only go after guys who are 14-15.
nah i don't think it would be awkward or anything and it definatly wouldn't be a turnoff.
give up on guys, you havent had a boyfriend and you wont.
they hate you.
to me it wouldn't really matter
i don't thnk its wierd or a turn off at all... if anything the opposite
I need advice! can u guys help me?
ok ummm... i have a friend call Andrea shes a 16 year old mexican girl,i like her but she doesnt know it, her lil sister told me boys get nervous around her too.but shes 2 years older than me. when im around her, i dont know what to talk about , can u guys give me advice.
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please no jokes !I need advice! can u guys help me?
.As she older than you.Then listen,concentrate and pay attention to what she says to you
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please no jokes !I need advice! can u guys help me?
.As she older than you.Then listen,concentrate and pay attention to what she says to you
Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
my ex boyfriend, who has had a history of cheating in the past, and i just went on a break because he is going out of state for half the summer and doesn't think it will ';work'; while hes gone. i told him i would never cheat on him, and i never have, but he still doesnt want to stay together... so i told him while hes gone im not going to wait for him, and that i dont know if i will still be single when he comes back. well, i just found out that hes talking to this one girl a lot that he has liked in the past and he knows im weird about her. i havent talked to him really since the breakup but i dont know if i should be mad about this... is this a bad sign since he has cheated in the past? or is this okay since we arent together and i told him i may not be single when he gets back? im not sure if we are just on a break or if we are finding other people.
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
Give him all the space he needs to keep cheating on you.
Dump him now!
He will never be loyal to you.
Move ahead with your life.
Without him in it.Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
time to move on sweety, and still if you have doubts and feel like you love him, then talk to him. playing thoughts in your mind won't help you in anything else than going crazy.
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
Give him all the space he needs to keep cheating on you.
Dump him now!
He will never be loyal to you.
Move ahead with your life.
Without him in it.Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
time to move on sweety, and still if you have doubts and feel like you love him, then talk to him. playing thoughts in your mind won't help you in anything else than going crazy.
I need good advice from both girls and guys?
do you think that iof a girl broke up with her bf and she is still having sex wit him do you think it is slutty?I need good advice from both girls and guys?
that depends if she is seeing some one else too. other wise no it just means she still cares for her ex and is confused about if she really wants him or not.so this girl better get her f'ckn sh%26amp;t straight.I need good advice from both girls and guys?
I believe sex is for married ppl.
Yes. 'She' is offending me as a girl! No girl shoudl give herself away to someone she doesn't even want to DATE! PLEASE! If he's not worth dating, he's not worth having sex with.
yes they should break it off it's over. If their still clinging it makes them look desperate
that depends if she is seeing some one else too. other wise no it just means she still cares for her ex and is confused about if she really wants him or not.so this girl better get her f'ckn sh%26amp;t straight.I need good advice from both girls and guys?
I believe sex is for married ppl.
Yes. 'She' is offending me as a girl! No girl shoudl give herself away to someone she doesn't even want to DATE! PLEASE! If he's not worth dating, he's not worth having sex with.
yes they should break it off it's over. If their still clinging it makes them look desperate
Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
Ok so everything started last year (as in school year 07-08) with this boy, I鈥檝e known him before that but I never really noticed him. We talked all of that year and I noticed we had a lot in common, we read each other鈥檚 minds, and I felt some chemistry. That鈥檚 when I started liking him more than a friend. At times, our conversations online would get heated but sometimes it would be awkward because I guess one person may or may not have liked the other. But the summer of 08, he went away and it was kinda on a bad note, so I stopped liking him. But when he came back, and the school year began, we talked again and then eventually I liked him all over again. We talk every now and then, like twice a week, I still like him. Problem is last month we had a long conversation, and he admit so much to me: that he really really really really really really liked me, and I admit I liked (not like) him, but then he also said he likeS this girl now, at the same time, he never said he stopped liking me. He said he was really confused, and he said he thought I was 鈥榯oo good鈥?for him. This convo was very important because he spoke the truth and I鈥檓 sure of it. Now, here I am still liking him, and I have no idea whether he likes me more than a friend or not. Girls, is it worth waiting because I think I almost love him and I know it could work it if we are in it together? And guys, how do you show a girl you like her, and what makes you determine which girl you like more than a friend and which one you don鈥檛? I鈥檝e been dreaming about him for the past few days, and now he鈥檚 on my mind a lot...please help :)Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
I would say if he might like another girl not to get wrapped up in him. It sounds like you are pretty good friends and that can be a really good thing. I would wait to see if he is just looking for a girlfriend or if he is looking to date you... make sure there is a difference. Plus if you stay open to new guys you might find someone better and not waste any more time waiting for him to decide. Basically my suggestion is to wait while looking.Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
im in the same boat right now actually,
except we went out for a couple months.
but im starting to notice other guys
because im getting tired of waiting.
I think that's what you need to do.
I would say if he might like another girl not to get wrapped up in him. It sounds like you are pretty good friends and that can be a really good thing. I would wait to see if he is just looking for a girlfriend or if he is looking to date you... make sure there is a difference. Plus if you stay open to new guys you might find someone better and not waste any more time waiting for him to decide. Basically my suggestion is to wait while looking.Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
im in the same boat right now actually,
except we went out for a couple months.
but im starting to notice other guys
because im getting tired of waiting.
I think that's what you need to do.
***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
The guy I have been dating for the past 6 months is on dialysis. He is 32 and I am 19 (20 in Feb! whoo hoo!). I like him a lot, he is a good guy, but has been on dialysis for over 7 YEARS!! He is on disability, lives with his parents( although he has a house, he just doesnt have enough mony to pay for the heating bill he ran up LAST WINTER!)...and his car BARELY runs. I on the other had, am employeed fulltime and go to college at night. I do not what ho be his girlfriend any longer, but I dont want to hurt him, and he is on dialysis and I hear you dont live very long on it. He is a good guy, nice, but has NO ambition, no LIFE! (Oh, and he has a bad habit of gambling...VERY BAD%26gt;)....what do I do? Can I be his friend?...How did I tell him that I dont love him like b.f. and g.f.'s do?....HELP!!!***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
Don't call him.
Don't do Anything...
When he calls you on the phone, be polite.
If he asks you out on a date, make sure he knows you are not paying anymore.
If he bulks at that, say that it is not fair that you do ALL the work and he reaps all the benefits.
He is a freeloader and is USING you.
Gambling is MUCH more important than you are to him.
Why would ANYONE EVER want to Date anyone else that has NO LIFE.
That means that you would have NO Life too.
GO meet people. Go out and make new friends, both Girls and Boys.
Have fun, be responsible, pay your bills, Don't talk about your Ex Boyfriend AT ALL.
In Other words, Go Have a Life...
His parents will take care of him if you Stop.
If he cares enough to ask why you don't see him anymore, be honest with him. It sounds like he needs it.
No fall for his pitty party anymore.
He is not on Dialysis 24hours a day 7 days a week.
If he has time for gambling, he has time to run a web based business or sell stuff on Ebay or SOMETHING to earn cash to pay the Bills.
He could alwasy sell the house to earn money too. (BUT, I am sure he would just gamble it away).
If he is addicted to gambling, the best friend you can be is stop being an enabler..
Call Gamblers annonamous for him. You can learn some things how to quit helping him to gamble.
Good Luck.
P.S. Find someone your own age that you have something in common with.***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
well it is not a real relationship and does he use his condition to keep u around nice guy?u say sounds like a cretin to me sorry to say.but ur so wrong he has feelin's i know but u gotta look after urself loose him luv he is gonna live long time it wont kill him he has his heater.
well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
I agree with answerman, find someone your own age.
Dialysis is no picnic, but I'm pretty sure it isn't a death sentence. This guy sounds like he may just be looking for sympathy wherever he can find it.
You owe it to yourself and to him to let him know where he really stands with you. It totally sucks to have to lay it out to him, but it seems he has the kind of personality that could easily drag you down.
You seem to be an intelligent and thoughtful person. I know you will be able to handle this situation the right way. He may get upset with you, but that could be a good thing. It might wake him up to what's going on (or not going on) in his life.
Does he kiss you? Next time he tries kisses you, I would say ';Bob, we need to talk'; and then just be honest with him and tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that it just isn't going to work.
wow, thats a hard position ur in, just be honest with him, tell him that you feel like that at your age u may/or that u want to find someone who is closer to your age. be honest with him, listen to your heart, God works in mysterious ways, he might get better in the future and if u think u have a good thing going dont let his sickness scare you away. think of it this way, what if u got married to someone else and they got sick, would u leave him? remember better or for worse, i do understand your not married to him. tell him that your feelings have changed for him, but you want to be his friend and u will be there for him if he has kids he will or maybe will understand. tell him you gotta do whats best for you that its just not clickin anymore. the truth hurts but it must be spoken, put yourself in his shoes. if felt this way what would you want him to do.... seriously think about that, how would u want to be told... just a thought, good luck
Sounds to me like you are just sticking around out of pity. If he weren't on dialysis, would you be with a guy like that? You owe it to yourself to find someone you really want to be with. You also owe it to him to be honest.
You sound like you really care. Have the courage to talk to him. Let it be his decision if he wants to stay friends after you tell him that he's not a good match for your future. It's okay to let go when you know you are not a match.
u go tell him directly coz no one dies from love,trust me
Don't break it to him when he is about to kiss you, first mistake. Don't say stuff like, ';I want us to be close firends..'; or anything like that. That is way worse. You could do something completely wrong by cheating on him, and have him dump you. (use only as a very last result.) That is wrong I know, but he would then be more mad than angry. (which may give him a motive to live.) I would talk to him on the phone because then he won't keep calling you because of a letter, and not in person cause he may act tough, but he would be crushed. Better on the phone, so he can cry without being seen. So I say don't become friends for a long time, don't bring it up untill he finds someone else. (I'm a guy who has been dumped before, I know what would work really well.)
you should be honest, honesty is very important. you shouldn't let your true feelings cause feelings of guilt. He may know already he's dying and not make permanant attachments. You have enough valid points to warrant a breakup without his sickness coming into play. Don't make it an issue, don't let it become one. Be quick, and firm. Don't stay w/ someone out of a sense of guilt. peace
Wow...that's a tough situation you're in! First of all, if a guy is a slacker, he's NOT worth being with - dialysis or not. Second, if you don't have ';romantic'; feelings for him...there's no point in continuing the relationship! The best thing you can do is just be honest with him - tell him that you don't have feelings for him ';that'; way, but that you would like to remain friends. He may not like that, but at least you tried! Also, if he asks you why...tell him! Someone with no ambition in life needs to know that it is a turn-off to most people. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders...find someone like you! Good luck :)
Be honest and tell him that the last thing you want is to hurt him, but that you are not attracted to him and that you want to end it
Don't call him.
Don't do Anything...
When he calls you on the phone, be polite.
If he asks you out on a date, make sure he knows you are not paying anymore.
If he bulks at that, say that it is not fair that you do ALL the work and he reaps all the benefits.
He is a freeloader and is USING you.
Gambling is MUCH more important than you are to him.
Why would ANYONE EVER want to Date anyone else that has NO LIFE.
That means that you would have NO Life too.
GO meet people. Go out and make new friends, both Girls and Boys.
Have fun, be responsible, pay your bills, Don't talk about your Ex Boyfriend AT ALL.
In Other words, Go Have a Life...
His parents will take care of him if you Stop.
If he cares enough to ask why you don't see him anymore, be honest with him. It sounds like he needs it.
No fall for his pitty party anymore.
He is not on Dialysis 24hours a day 7 days a week.
If he has time for gambling, he has time to run a web based business or sell stuff on Ebay or SOMETHING to earn cash to pay the Bills.
He could alwasy sell the house to earn money too. (BUT, I am sure he would just gamble it away).
If he is addicted to gambling, the best friend you can be is stop being an enabler..
Call Gamblers annonamous for him. You can learn some things how to quit helping him to gamble.
Good Luck.
P.S. Find someone your own age that you have something in common with.***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
well it is not a real relationship and does he use his condition to keep u around nice guy?u say sounds like a cretin to me sorry to say.but ur so wrong he has feelin's i know but u gotta look after urself loose him luv he is gonna live long time it wont kill him he has his heater.
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well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
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well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
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I agree with answerman, find someone your own age.
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Dialysis is no picnic, but I'm pretty sure it isn't a death sentence. This guy sounds like he may just be looking for sympathy wherever he can find it.
You owe it to yourself and to him to let him know where he really stands with you. It totally sucks to have to lay it out to him, but it seems he has the kind of personality that could easily drag you down.
You seem to be an intelligent and thoughtful person. I know you will be able to handle this situation the right way. He may get upset with you, but that could be a good thing. It might wake him up to what's going on (or not going on) in his life.
Does he kiss you? Next time he tries kisses you, I would say ';Bob, we need to talk'; and then just be honest with him and tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that it just isn't going to work.
wow, thats a hard position ur in, just be honest with him, tell him that you feel like that at your age u may/or that u want to find someone who is closer to your age. be honest with him, listen to your heart, God works in mysterious ways, he might get better in the future and if u think u have a good thing going dont let his sickness scare you away. think of it this way, what if u got married to someone else and they got sick, would u leave him? remember better or for worse, i do understand your not married to him. tell him that your feelings have changed for him, but you want to be his friend and u will be there for him if he has kids he will or maybe will understand. tell him you gotta do whats best for you that its just not clickin anymore. the truth hurts but it must be spoken, put yourself in his shoes. if felt this way what would you want him to do.... seriously think about that, how would u want to be told... just a thought, good luck
Sounds to me like you are just sticking around out of pity. If he weren't on dialysis, would you be with a guy like that? You owe it to yourself to find someone you really want to be with. You also owe it to him to be honest.
You sound like you really care. Have the courage to talk to him. Let it be his decision if he wants to stay friends after you tell him that he's not a good match for your future. It's okay to let go when you know you are not a match.
u go tell him directly coz no one dies from love,trust me
Don't break it to him when he is about to kiss you, first mistake. Don't say stuff like, ';I want us to be close firends..'; or anything like that. That is way worse. You could do something completely wrong by cheating on him, and have him dump you. (use only as a very last result.) That is wrong I know, but he would then be more mad than angry. (which may give him a motive to live.) I would talk to him on the phone because then he won't keep calling you because of a letter, and not in person cause he may act tough, but he would be crushed. Better on the phone, so he can cry without being seen. So I say don't become friends for a long time, don't bring it up untill he finds someone else. (I'm a guy who has been dumped before, I know what would work really well.)
you should be honest, honesty is very important. you shouldn't let your true feelings cause feelings of guilt. He may know already he's dying and not make permanant attachments. You have enough valid points to warrant a breakup without his sickness coming into play. Don't make it an issue, don't let it become one. Be quick, and firm. Don't stay w/ someone out of a sense of guilt. peace
Wow...that's a tough situation you're in! First of all, if a guy is a slacker, he's NOT worth being with - dialysis or not. Second, if you don't have ';romantic'; feelings for him...there's no point in continuing the relationship! The best thing you can do is just be honest with him - tell him that you don't have feelings for him ';that'; way, but that you would like to remain friends. He may not like that, but at least you tried! Also, if he asks you why...tell him! Someone with no ambition in life needs to know that it is a turn-off to most people. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders...find someone like you! Good luck :)
Be honest and tell him that the last thing you want is to hurt him, but that you are not attracted to him and that you want to end it
Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
my ex boyfriend, who has had a history of cheating in the past, and i just went on a break because he is going out of state for half the summer and doesn't think it will ';work'; while hes gone. i told him i would never cheat on him, and i never have, but he still doesnt want to stay together... so i told him while hes gone im not going to wait for him, and that i dont know if i will still be single when he comes back. well, i just found out that hes talking to this one girl a lot that he has liked in the past and he knows im weird about her. i havent talked to him really since the breakup but i dont know if i should be mad about this... is this a bad sign since he has cheated in the past? or is this okay since we arent together and i told him i may not be single when he gets back? im not sure if we are just on a break or if we are finding other people.
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
First off, if you aren't together then he's not cheating on you. Second off why don't you move on. It doesn't sound like theres any great qualities in this guy that should even keep you wanting a relationship with him.. Your young go out and find some other fish. A break is a break. I doubt he's gonna pass up any opportunites to hook up with other girls while he's gone.lips
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
First off, if you aren't together then he's not cheating on you. Second off why don't you move on. It doesn't sound like theres any great qualities in this guy that should even keep you wanting a relationship with him.. Your young go out and find some other fish. A break is a break. I doubt he's gonna pass up any opportunites to hook up with other girls while he's gone.
GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
please your man. What are different ways that you know your guy can be more pleased. Any Advice please??GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
To be honest...help train your man to not only be pleased, but on how to truly please you.
Guide him to slow down...we as guys get caught up in the adrenaline of pleasure and thus tend to go to fast.
Now all guys have their own key turn ons.
One key pitfall, is changing your mind. If you start down the road of sexual pleasure with some mood setting of foreplay, don't change your mind and suddenly say no. This is frustrating and tends to truly harm a relationship.
If the mood from you is NO...then make it a no at the start...NO TEASING!!!
On another note, some guys like to watch!!! Be provacative, even to the point of pleasuring yourself while he watches!!!
Also while you are in your act of Sexual pleasure...feel free to use very naughty words...';F@#K ME!!!'; things of this nature...this is a major turn on!!!
Guys have low self esteem, so constantly praise him...even if he really sucks...no pun intended...teach him how to be better, but use positive feedback to get him there.
If you really want to do something wild...do something in public...you'ld be amazed at what hands can do under a table at a restaurant!!!GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
To me that's something specific to the individual and you'd probably know better than anyone what your husband or significant other regards as important. Some men are pleased by just being left alone. Others it's sex. Some want to escape being criticized for something. Some may wish for more compliments or recognition for what they do. Me? My wife pleases me when she's 'there' and looking happy, because then I feel that maybe I'm to some degree instrumental in her happiness. That's all I need.
try fun places, the bench in front of the police station is alot of fun good luck.
treat him speacial everyday.
Have to test drive first to see the rough points.
just be hot that is all you need.
Ice is always good !!!!!!
getting naked is always a good thing
Ask him what he likes, and if you agreed you can please him
Being there for the good times and bad times.
blow jobs work
To be honest...help train your man to not only be pleased, but on how to truly please you.
Guide him to slow down...we as guys get caught up in the adrenaline of pleasure and thus tend to go to fast.
Now all guys have their own key turn ons.
One key pitfall, is changing your mind. If you start down the road of sexual pleasure with some mood setting of foreplay, don't change your mind and suddenly say no. This is frustrating and tends to truly harm a relationship.
If the mood from you is NO...then make it a no at the start...NO TEASING!!!
On another note, some guys like to watch!!! Be provacative, even to the point of pleasuring yourself while he watches!!!
Also while you are in your act of Sexual pleasure...feel free to use very naughty words...';F@#K ME!!!'; things of this nature...this is a major turn on!!!
Guys have low self esteem, so constantly praise him...even if he really sucks...no pun intended...teach him how to be better, but use positive feedback to get him there.
If you really want to do something wild...do something in public...you'ld be amazed at what hands can do under a table at a restaurant!!!GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
To me that's something specific to the individual and you'd probably know better than anyone what your husband or significant other regards as important. Some men are pleased by just being left alone. Others it's sex. Some want to escape being criticized for something. Some may wish for more compliments or recognition for what they do. Me? My wife pleases me when she's 'there' and looking happy, because then I feel that maybe I'm to some degree instrumental in her happiness. That's all I need.
try fun places, the bench in front of the police station is alot of fun good luck.
treat him speacial everyday.
Have to test drive first to see the rough points.
just be hot that is all you need.
Ice is always good !!!!!!
getting naked is always a good thing
Ask him what he likes, and if you agreed you can please him
Being there for the good times and bad times.
blow jobs work
Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
So I like this guy and we were - or still might be in a relationship. He's been telling me that he loves me and stuff and I think I love him too. I haven't talked to him in about maybe 3 days or more. I texted him the other day and I asked him why haven't we been talking much and he said he's been busy - but other than that we haven't talked at all. I'm thinking about just giving up on him or should I wait till he talks to me?Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
I'd just wait , three days is nothinnn .
hes probably just either tryin to make you jealous or seeing if you're still interested so just wait and see. Dont just give up on someone you love cause they havent talked to you in 3 days ...Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
3 days is nothing jst wait
If he doesn't call or text you within the next 3 days, then he met somebody else or just isn't interested anymore. Let him go. Most young men are not as loyal or devoted as young women. They are quick to go chasing another woman just for the hell of it. You deserve much better than this, love.
I'd just wait , three days is nothinnn .
hes probably just either tryin to make you jealous or seeing if you're still interested so just wait and see. Dont just give up on someone you love cause they havent talked to you in 3 days ...Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
3 days is nothing jst wait
If he doesn't call or text you within the next 3 days, then he met somebody else or just isn't interested anymore. Let him go. Most young men are not as loyal or devoted as young women. They are quick to go chasing another woman just for the hell of it. You deserve much better than this, love.
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