Monday, August 23, 2010

Seeking advice from females (guys too)?

I've known this girl for 2 yrs and i've liked her 4awhile now and I know she likes me becuz...


- she would stay up late to talk to me even if we argued


- she said she missed me during the summer


- she emails me %26amp; IM's me a lot


-she actually asked me whether i'd consider her to be my g/f





Oh wait... She chose her cheating-jerk b/f over me...a girl whom I confided with , was there for her through thick %26amp; thin...%26amp; I can't believe shes going back to her ex...why do girls do this! I don't care if im ';Just friends'; with her but the fact that she lead me on and did this speaks alot of how her character is..if anything I said she can do better with other guys that she has more potential in herself to succeed at anything %26amp; yet she doesn't listen





i kinda told her to have a nice life and take this fabricated illusion she calls a friendship %26amp; shove it..but now i feel bad becuz it is a 50/50 argument on my side and hers so i dunnoSeeking advice from females (guys too)?
Girls are just weird mate but then she must have had her reasons. Wether or not you will ever know is another story. She probably just wanted attention while she was in a rift with her bf. You were just entertainment for the time being and since you were so supportive and cool about things then that probably gave her no reason to be attached to you. Girls secretly like the bad boy over the nice boy even though they don't admit to it.





If you truly feel that you need to move on then move on and cut your losses. Don't waste anymore time with a girl who clearly doesn't have any interest in you or the way you feel.





Feel alright mon!Seeking advice from females (guys too)?
Move on there are alot of beautiful woman out there.Damn is it soo hard
Wait. What did you say? did u say you considered her a girlfriend? You say you were just friends, so I think she wanted to go out with you and you didn't make a move. Did you want to date her?
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Guys i need ur advice again?

well yes u probaby dont know me so i will describe my self im 5'6 im not to fat but not too skinny! im nice and im only going when im with my close friends!


ive only dated 5 guys in my whole life mostly its cuz i go back with the same guy and my parents are strict so they dont let me date but i try to be sneaky about it!


well now that i told u a little bit about my self i wanna ask u wats wrong with me y wont guys at skool ask me out?Guys i need ur advice again?
Try to relax! Go on some dates by yourself, nothing terrible is going to happen in a movie theatre full of people. Just don't sit in the back row and the guy will be too scared of other people seeing to pull anything you wouldn't want. At school try to act more interested in going out... give hints or say some things to your friends that can be 'accidentally' overheard by the group of guys. It's possible that the guys see you as being kind of off-limits because you have never been on a one-on-one date. Once you take a more relaxed outlook on guys and having fun i'm sure more guys will take interest.


Good Luck!Guys i need ur advice again?
First off how old are u? U have left out alot info. that would help in answering your question. If your in highschool and have dated just 5 guys well thats not a bad number. also how long have the relaionships lasted? And if u r in h.s. then your parents should know and like who u date. Guys in h.s. are shy and also trying to look cool to their buds so ...... But need more info. to give u a better answer
you didn't really tell us about yourself, and if your in highschool, guys might be shy, if your in college, guys might be looking for partying, THERE'S SO MANY THINGS, maybe your missing a leg, who knows, describe more things about yourself, age sex location etc

Guys i need your advice, but dont be rude?

last night after my promotion (Work), i went to the club and went to go and visit this guy who i do like! But when i got there he wasnt very friendly, only after his friends and all the owners of the club put a thumbs up when they saw me,,,, only then he was all over me... is this guy worth it! Guys you seriously baffel meGuys i need your advice, but dont be rude?
I am sure many people will say no...so do I...why would you want a guy who can't make decisions for himself and has to ask all his buddies to see if your worth a look? Not. only is that guy a loser cause he can't make decisions on his own, this guy seems to be looking for another girl he can put on his hot lists of girls he has banged recently. Sorry, to say this, but it seems like he is the type of guy who only gets with a girl because he thinks of her as a prize and once he has sex with you will never wanna talk to you or see you again...I mean do you really want a guy who thinks women are objects? I hope not...I recommend you drop him...cause your only going to hurt yourself and he is only going to get someone else if you won't do it...so ...instead being a piece of property or land he can conquer try finding a guy who is worth your time and see's you for you.Guys i need your advice, but dont be rude?
he's insecure, jealous and sick.


kick him on his axx
No, he's a douchebag. screw that...a guy shouldn't have to go to his friends for approval...that's a whole lot of crock
Hell No!!! What do you think? You want some guy who's going to base all his decisions on what his friends and the bartender think? You can do better
hell no if he cant trust u let him go and who the hell r his friends to judge u
if he was rude and iggnored you earlier no not worth it he tried for you at the end of the night just to score.
its a natural thing sometimes its necessary to come out of ur comfort zone and push it to the limits in this case keeping up with him might be limit . Seeking approval insecurity all this happens naturally and if he is worthfull enough may be one day when u have a put up a lot of with him he is gonna crash and surrender to you and trust me he aint going anywhere from then on but again a risky possibility
not even close to worth it...find another stud
He is nt worth for u...If he really likes you he shld hv expressed it.
may be he is not aware of ur promotion.After all he is a MAN not a


superMAN
Honey ,,,, what does your heart say to you . only you knows what best for you
no he is not worth it,he had to get approve from other people,screw that shi*
no, not really. he is a man that needs a thumb up for aeverything and it means he can not decide himself. do not rely on him.
shove a drink up his *** next time you see him
no
i think he is not worth it, give a kick on his @ss
He had to make sure his friends approved of you, he didnt want to embarrass himself by being seen with an ugly chick. Sorry for being honest, but straight to the point - but women do the same thing. Silly woman !!!!! You should know this through the years of male bashing training you ladies have !

Guys i need your advice!!?

I been having sex with this guy for over two months and its getting boring. There are things i would like for him to try but i don't know the way to tell him, i would like for him to be more loving and be more touching. He usually just kisses me once or twice and does his thing and thats it. Also how do i go along telling him i would like for him to do oral sex on me?? i dont' know if he would be open to that even thought i been doing it for him since we started. thanks guysGuys i need your advice!!?
Hope i am able to help. Is quite a norm for couple to find sex boring after some time.. I was in such a situation too some time back, and oh my.. it got so bad that many a times i wanted to cheat on him. =X





Things started getting better after having an open conversation with him to spice our sex life up alittle..





Remember those early days of teasing/many foreplay/seduction/winks across room/ playing with his legs under table prior to sex and you begin to realise that you don't do it as often as you are now after some time? Try back these acts again!! They are MUST-HAVE techniques to reconcile sex life like the good old times leaving you both breathless and aroused and so ready for more sex .. You can encourage him by moaning sexily and demand where you want him to touch.. Say things like ';darling.. I like it when you do it this way'; with a kinky look and he will go absolutely wild and to try all ways to satisfy you.





Suggest some bedroom games that allow the winner to share his/her secret fantasy and the other party will have to make an extra effort to satisfy the other party craves/desires!! Sharing secret fantasy helps.. My man made extra effort to satisfy my craves each time we play it.





Try some outdoor sex/quickie too.. At the cinema, in the park, in public toilets, while driving, in changing rooms and more. Leave him unexpected about what you have in mind, then request for one on the spot.. (Or simply grab his hands and put it under your undies) Is thrilling when it is unplanned for, and you can see his expression in awe!





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I hope the above helps! =)Guys i need your advice!!?
Honey i can tell u what works for me, if im doing him then , you can bet ur *** he's gonna do me, while yall are makin out dirty talk him a bit, tell him you want him to taste how sweet u are and if he dont he's gonna get punished , @ this point take one of ur feet and grab the head of his penis with it , push down til u got a good grip then squeeze! The intesnse feelin will take him by surprise , begin guidin his head down south and i promise he will wanna taste you every time you are together! Had to be real with ya ma cause when it comes to getting what I want i do me, i guess u can say im kind of a bully *devilish grin*
Ask him!





If you're giving but not getting, either he's selfish or just doesn't know his way around your body. If he wants to learn, great - guys aren't born knowing what girls like. If not, you probably need to trade this one in.





You might try getting him a book like ';She Comes First.'; If necessary, bookmark a few useful pages. As long as you're at it, get a how-to for women trying to figure men out, and ask him to bookmark a few pages for you.
When he stops kissing you, keep on yourself. If you want him to go down on you, push his shoulders down...and down, and down until he gets the idea. Hold his head and direct him. Don't let him up until he pleasures YOU completely.


Or do like my first girlfriend did (1962). She had read a sex book called Candy and read about a guy going down on a girl. She said, ';I want to know something. Will you eat me?'; Well, I was hooked! I was 15, she was 14. I ALWAYS pleasured her before myself. That's been my code ever since. HER FIRST.
That young inexperienced boy of yours doesn't know squat! Sexual bliss is a two way street and to thoroughly pleasure a woman is what he needs to learn or be taught.





I really feel sorry for you. If necessary go on the net to borders.com and order a book concerning sexual pleasuring a woman.





If he won't take the hint tell him you'll let him watch while someone teaches him!
Grab him around the neck and keep kissing him. Then tell him how much you like how he kisses. Most guys will get that hint. For oral sex, either ask him to please go down on you or gently try to nudge his head down to where you want.
I think it depends on how open your relationship is. If you guys are close, then it should be no problem talking to him about it. For all you know, he could be thinking the same things. Something tells me he won't mind trying new things though.
This just sounds so sad to me. How old are you? Do you realize how much power and control you have over guys? And you just throw it away. Your post just screams ';low self esteem'; to me. Anyway, cut him off - no more BJ's for him until he reciprocates.
just have rough sex were ur forcing him to do stuff and make him do it then. or just talk to him about it. u have to be open with him if u want him to be open with u
First time its a turn off for the novics because of the smell.


So take a shower and ask him to look between the legs.





Either you train him of ask for professional help
Just say like





';hey baby. you know what i want to try? ________';





if he says no, you could always just b not so affectionate towards him until he gets the message.
He sounds like something of an oaf. American lovers are pretty dreadful. You need a European. Or even a Canadian. Your guy sounds like he'd be just as happy with a playboy and his hand!
if he wont do wat u want go F*** someone else
Caleb hit the nail on the head, just do what he said.
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  • MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?

    I have a really bad temper and it seems like it gets worse and worse every time I get angry. I never get mad though and handle pretty much every situation by sitting down and talking about it to get straight to the matter then resolve it. I'm always laid back and very chill. It would take a lot to really piss me off. Friends have told me I don't even look like the same person anymore when I get mad and that I look dangerous and violent. I don't know what to do. This has effected relationships in my life and I don't want it to mess something up for me in the future.








    I have completely broken a door off the hinges and still to this day am not sure how I did it. I've thrown a chair up against the wall and left a mark that looks like someone took an axe to the wall. All kind of cuss words and insults come flying out of my mouth. I can feel the veins popping out of my head and neck. I even have a sister who doesn't talk to me because to make a long story short we got into an argument and I busted her lip. She had to get stitches and four years later she still has a scar on her mouth. I feel terribly guilty about that. I do weight lifting for track and I'm getting really strong which doesn't help the situation. I punch punching bags to let out my anger and one of my guy friends (I went with him to the gym) was telling me I hit really hard and fast. I'm worried what I might do to someone if I ever fought them. I KNOW FOR A FACT I would NEVER kill anyone, but honestly I think I could really mess someone up. I don't know what to do.





    Would this turn you off of a girl you liked?


    What would you do if your girlfriend was like this? How would you handle it?


    keep in mind I don't usually ever get mad.MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
    I wouldn't go near you until I had at least two different blackbelts.MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
    Of course this is a turn off. What have you done to fix this? I imagine you're in school so a therapist should be easily accessible to you. It wouldn't hurt to go in and talk to someone. If you rarely got angry and handled situations well you wouldn't have a sister who doesn't talk to you nor would it have affected your relationships.





    What if a guy said to you ';I barely rape women'; or ';I've only beaten a couple of my girlfriends';. Those would still be important issues, right?

    Relationship advice please help guys?

    So this girl I like, is sending me mixed messages, sometimes she is nice to me, some other times she is shy when I'm around blushing, that sort of stuff, sometimes she tries her best to ignore me, sometimes she is just so mean to me, signs she is giving me like touchin my arms eat my food making me jealous, she gets angry when I talk to other girls, so after i figured out all these signs I then I asked her to go to lunch with me then she angrily said to offer my suggestion to other people, i'm confused please help...? oh yeah and the next day she waved at me... and today she talked to me again like she has done something wrong that kind of feeling...has anyone experienced b4 if yes how did u deal wid it?Relationship advice please help guys?
    this chick sounds bipolar. no offense. either that or just really immature. Relationship advice please help guys?
    Agree with alexis.. Bipolar and maybe shy at times. Keep persisting, coz' it seems you have a real chance here. All the best!

    Seeking advice from females (guys too)?

    I've known this girl for 2 yrs and i've liked her 4awhile now and I know she likes me becuz...


    - she would stay up late to talk to me even if we argued


    - she said she missed me during the summer


    - she emails me %26amp; IM's me a lot


    -she actually asked me whether i'd consider her to be my g/f





    Oh wait... She chose her cheating-jerk b/f over me...a girl whom I confided with , was there for her through thick %26amp; thin...%26amp; I can't believe shes going back to her ex...why do girls do this! I don't care if im ';Just friends'; with her but the fact that she lead me on and did this speaks alot of how her character is..if anything I said she can do better with other guys that she has more potential in herself to succeed at anything %26amp; yet she doesn't listen





    i kinda told her to have a nice life and take this fabricated illusion she calls a friendship %26amp; shove it..but now i feel bad becuz it is a 50/50 argument on my side and hers so i dunnoSeeking advice from females (guys too)?
    Girls are just weird mate but then she must have had her reasons. Wether or not you will ever know is another story. She probably just wanted attention while she was in a rift with her bf. You were just entertainment for the time being and since you were so supportive and cool about things then that probably gave her no reason to be attached to you. Girls secretly like the bad boy over the nice boy even though they don't admit to it.





    If you truly feel that you need to move on then move on and cut your losses. Don't waste anymore time with a girl who clearly doesn't have any interest in you or the way you feel.





    Feel alright mon!Seeking advice from females (guys too)?
    Move on there are alot of beautiful woman out there.Damn is it soo hard
    Wait. What did you say? did u say you considered her a girlfriend? You say you were just friends, so I think she wanted to go out with you and you didn't make a move. Did you want to date her?
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