Well i have a thing for this guy in my hs. All my friends found all this information about him through there friends and other people. One of my close friends even became really cool with his ex-gf. So i met her and she wasss reallly nice. And my friend told her that i liked him. Could that have been a mistake in telling her? Anyway. She told me they dated for 6 MONTHS and that throughout thoes whole months he was tooo SHY to talk to her :S. His closests friend told her that usually hes shy and gets outgoing when he gets to know you. But im pretty sure in 6 months he can at least talk. She said he didnt show her any affection either. Like they would kiss ( a small peck he would push her if went to far :S) and he wouldnt even say i love u or anything it was akward and silent and he would leave right away. :S. lmaoo. He also made alot of excuses so he wouldnt have to see her he was in this punkska band and he plays the guitar so he always would tell her that he doesnt have time right now. But then my friend brii who has him in his class told me that hes really funny and makes everyone laugh in his class and that hes a really nice guy. But then my other friend whos his friend told me that hes shy and needs to know the person to start getting more involved. Like ive had a shy bf before and i absoultetly hated it! in gr.8 he would be to nervous to even look at me and like he later became really akward and he told me that he was a very shy guy but i didnt know he was that shy and he use to smoke pot in order to be able to talk to me! so i broke up with him. I like this guy but what can i do so he wont be that shy? like form a friendship first even tho it will be realllyy sloww. or not wait and just find somone else?Dating advice on shy guys? 10 POINTS babyy!?
u gotta pass this guy is busy with himself
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Monday, August 23, 2010
Umm... Advice pleaaaase? About guys haha?
Alright well, i have 2 questions haha.
So, first question..Is there anyway to tell if a guy is going to kiss you? Please help mee?
Andd question number 2! Well first, i'm going to my boyfriends house this weekend, for a sleepover kinda thing. im only 13, and yeah i know its weird haha. but its for his birthday and its not just me, theres gunna be 3 girls and 2 guys there, but anyways, i'm a little scared, to meet his sister.. I have met his parents, and they like me, but im scared that his sister wont..Any pointers?
Thanks in advance guys! :DUmm... Advice pleaaaase? About guys haha?
1. he'll touch your face %26amp; go really close..just be yourself ^_^
2. you shouldnt care what his sister thinks, if she doesnt like you, then don't act like it bothers you. Its you %26amp; him, thats all that matters!
Just be yourself! If you act like something your not, than thats not cool.Umm... Advice pleaaaase? About guys haha?
If a guy is going to kiss you he is most likely going to look deep into your eyes for a while and then just move his face closer to yours
Just be yourself around your sister. You should care if she doesn't likes you because if you treat her badly, then the guy that you like will not take that well. He wants you to be nice with his family, you are the guest, remember that. Also if you are mean to his sister, she's going to tell her parents and then its all over for you and your boyfriend. If she doesn't like you just ask your boyfriend that you don't think that his sister likes you and you're not sure why. He may go find out for you.
She probably wont have anything bad to say about you. She is mature. She will either like you or she won't but if she loves her brother she will want him to be happy. And sometimes there is just a moment like in those love movies where your talking about how much you love each other or how they never wanna lose you. That always follows with a kiss no matter what. Or when they are really happy or you guys are just chillin. and you just make out for fun.
A few hundred bucks and some bribery goes all the way...
1.If a guy puts his face very close to your face, say close enough to touch....he might be kissing about to kiss you.
2.And you care if his sister likes you why? Don't bother with it.
so, your parents (%26amp; your boyfriends parents) are okay with an adolescent, co-ed SLEEPOVER? where do these people come from?
when he stares at your lips alot ,gets really close to your face , touches your face
just be yourself and i am sure everything will be fine nd dandy
just be yourself, if his sister doesn't like you then that's her problem, not yours. :)
if he makes eye contact with u for more then a few seconds without talking
or if he trys to get his face close to yours
and idk ur a girl talk about girl stuff u all talk about the same **** lollips
So, first question..Is there anyway to tell if a guy is going to kiss you? Please help mee?
Andd question number 2! Well first, i'm going to my boyfriends house this weekend, for a sleepover kinda thing. im only 13, and yeah i know its weird haha. but its for his birthday and its not just me, theres gunna be 3 girls and 2 guys there, but anyways, i'm a little scared, to meet his sister.. I have met his parents, and they like me, but im scared that his sister wont..Any pointers?
Thanks in advance guys! :DUmm... Advice pleaaaase? About guys haha?
1. he'll touch your face %26amp; go really close..just be yourself ^_^
2. you shouldnt care what his sister thinks, if she doesnt like you, then don't act like it bothers you. Its you %26amp; him, thats all that matters!
Just be yourself! If you act like something your not, than thats not cool.Umm... Advice pleaaaase? About guys haha?
If a guy is going to kiss you he is most likely going to look deep into your eyes for a while and then just move his face closer to yours
Just be yourself around your sister. You should care if she doesn't likes you because if you treat her badly, then the guy that you like will not take that well. He wants you to be nice with his family, you are the guest, remember that. Also if you are mean to his sister, she's going to tell her parents and then its all over for you and your boyfriend. If she doesn't like you just ask your boyfriend that you don't think that his sister likes you and you're not sure why. He may go find out for you.
She probably wont have anything bad to say about you. She is mature. She will either like you or she won't but if she loves her brother she will want him to be happy. And sometimes there is just a moment like in those love movies where your talking about how much you love each other or how they never wanna lose you. That always follows with a kiss no matter what. Or when they are really happy or you guys are just chillin. and you just make out for fun.
A few hundred bucks and some bribery goes all the way...
1.If a guy puts his face very close to your face, say close enough to touch....he might be kissing about to kiss you.
2.And you care if his sister likes you why? Don't bother with it.
so, your parents (%26amp; your boyfriends parents) are okay with an adolescent, co-ed SLEEPOVER? where do these people come from?
when he stares at your lips alot ,gets really close to your face , touches your face
just be yourself and i am sure everything will be fine nd dandy
just be yourself, if his sister doesn't like you then that's her problem, not yours. :)
if he makes eye contact with u for more then a few seconds without talking
or if he trys to get his face close to yours
and idk ur a girl talk about girl stuff u all talk about the same **** lol
Guys i need ur advice!?
hey do u guyz think its hott or weird wen girls paint their nails wild colors. im not tlkin bout in pre-k wen they were a million rainbow colors. i mean like 2 colors. ex. neon orange and neon purple. wut do u think?Guys i need ur advice!?
WELL BABY I AM A GUY WHO LUVS A WOMEN WHO DRESSES FEMININE GRRRR I LOVE IT AND SEEING A WOMEN WHO HAS LONG NAILS FAKE OR REAL, AND THERE COLOURED AND FANCY THAT SHOWS CHARACTERISTICS THAT I LIKE SO I WOULD LIKE NEON PURPLE HMM KINDA HOTTTTGuys i need ur advice!?
sorry, but i personally never really noticed nails
i mean yea i guess it makes a difference, but i really dont notice them that much
unless theyre like right in front of my face
no i am not a fan of wild colors i am old school so i like it when the girl paints her nails these simple hot colors
pink,purple (my favorite),red
I don't think guys really pay attention to that type stuff.
Dont really matter, for me at least.
I THINK ITS HOT
Yes, it is weird. I like my girl nails all one color.
erm to be blunt. i've never actually thought about nails:S
No, I them one color
WELL BABY I AM A GUY WHO LUVS A WOMEN WHO DRESSES FEMININE GRRRR I LOVE IT AND SEEING A WOMEN WHO HAS LONG NAILS FAKE OR REAL, AND THERE COLOURED AND FANCY THAT SHOWS CHARACTERISTICS THAT I LIKE SO I WOULD LIKE NEON PURPLE HMM KINDA HOTTTTGuys i need ur advice!?
sorry, but i personally never really noticed nails
i mean yea i guess it makes a difference, but i really dont notice them that much
unless theyre like right in front of my face
no i am not a fan of wild colors i am old school so i like it when the girl paints her nails these simple hot colors
pink,purple (my favorite),red
I don't think guys really pay attention to that type stuff.
Dont really matter, for me at least.
I THINK ITS HOT
Yes, it is weird. I like my girl nails all one color.
erm to be blunt. i've never actually thought about nails:S
No, I them one color
Guys I need your advice?
What makes a woman relationship worthy in your eyes?Guys I need your advice?
Mutual attraction and chemistry - hard to describe exactly what that is, but when it's there you know it!Guys I need your advice?
a good soul partner is really good,
brains and 36C
Being comfortable with herself, flirty but not slutty, outgoing but not obnoxious, and big boobs are nice but not necessary!
she has to be attractive fun to talk to make me proud to say she is mine likes a lot of the same things I do not hell bent on being a ';new age'; woman
Kindness and being soft spoken. A woman who knows she can get more with a whisper than a yell is a woman who is a pleasure to grow old with.
I need to have somethings in common with her (I'm a Christian, so that's important to share), and I need to have some things that are not in common with her (so when we've been doing our own thing and get together, we have something to talk about).
My wife is all of these things, and I love her for it.
trust
kiss
beautifulness
honesty
thats about it is he wants you cuz ';ur hot'; just forget him
Old values. Truthfulness. Faithful. Trustworthy. Willing lover. Exchange of kind words. Appreceation. That kind of stuff!
be conservative!!!
Be intresting, don't pick out every little thing you think unworthy of yourself. Let the guy know he's there too, not just listening. Don't get underconfident and overconfident... either of those gets old.
The more you think you're beautiful, the more you make the guy think it too, so don't always think something looks bad.
sex when you're young
and
someone who is going to be a good mother to my kids when you get older....
hip to waist ratio
It depends on what you mean by ';worthy,'; but guys like me only care little about looks, but a lot on personality.
what i dont get is why guys just seem lyk they just want sex!
Honesty, Integrity, an even disposition and a BIG heart. Any woman can have a knock out figure but that does not make her relationship material. Looks will fade, a kind heart will only get bigger.
No one answer for that.
Except when it fits.
a trustworthy girl.....some1 i cood trust and never be afraid...some1 who doesnt smoke or drink unless the guy does......try to adept to them but if its too extreme then dont worry they shood b happy u tried
it could be lots of things.
caring and understanding.
honesty
SEX
Mutual attraction and chemistry - hard to describe exactly what that is, but when it's there you know it!Guys I need your advice?
a good soul partner is really good,
brains and 36C
Being comfortable with herself, flirty but not slutty, outgoing but not obnoxious, and big boobs are nice but not necessary!
she has to be attractive fun to talk to make me proud to say she is mine likes a lot of the same things I do not hell bent on being a ';new age'; woman
Kindness and being soft spoken. A woman who knows she can get more with a whisper than a yell is a woman who is a pleasure to grow old with.
I need to have somethings in common with her (I'm a Christian, so that's important to share), and I need to have some things that are not in common with her (so when we've been doing our own thing and get together, we have something to talk about).
My wife is all of these things, and I love her for it.
trust
kiss
beautifulness
honesty
thats about it is he wants you cuz ';ur hot'; just forget him
Old values. Truthfulness. Faithful. Trustworthy. Willing lover. Exchange of kind words. Appreceation. That kind of stuff!
be conservative!!!
Be intresting, don't pick out every little thing you think unworthy of yourself. Let the guy know he's there too, not just listening. Don't get underconfident and overconfident... either of those gets old.
The more you think you're beautiful, the more you make the guy think it too, so don't always think something looks bad.
sex when you're young
and
someone who is going to be a good mother to my kids when you get older....
hip to waist ratio
It depends on what you mean by ';worthy,'; but guys like me only care little about looks, but a lot on personality.
what i dont get is why guys just seem lyk they just want sex!
Honesty, Integrity, an even disposition and a BIG heart. Any woman can have a knock out figure but that does not make her relationship material. Looks will fade, a kind heart will only get bigger.
No one answer for that.
Except when it fits.
a trustworthy girl.....some1 i cood trust and never be afraid...some1 who doesnt smoke or drink unless the guy does......try to adept to them but if its too extreme then dont worry they shood b happy u tried
it could be lots of things.
caring and understanding.
honesty
SEX
Guys I need your advice?
My husband will be home soon from his deployment and I would like ideas on what I can do to surprise him.....(in the sexual department)
I was thinking of showing up in a trenchcoat with lingerie underneath, but I would like to know what else a guy might like.
Thanx!Guys I need your advice?
If he's been gone for a while I would just jump him quick cause it probably won't take him l;ong anyway (because he's been gone for awhile) then go for the atmosphere and the surprises. P.S. tell him thanks from a grateful nation for his service.Guys I need your advice?
when he opens the door, scream and jump on him, while ur butt naked...lol...that should surprise him pretty good!!!...im not making fun of u...im serious...try that and see what happens...
i dont know, im just kidding...do what u want...=)
do what u feel most comfortable for u!
I would hold off on any surprises until you see what mood he's in. He may have seen combat. He may be in bad spirits. I may be full of it. If you want to dress for ';easy access,'; that would be OK.
Baby, all your man wants to see is YOU naked.
PS- thank him for his heroic service to our country.
naked and wear high heel shoes, suck him good
I wasn't in the military
I did customer service and training, work related travel 3 or 4 months at a time. Girl friend at the time liked the trenchcoat / lingerie type themes, she would check my general ';mood'; and tell me ';drop the customer service cr ap at the door buddy'; then tell a sexy joke or two, get me laughing then would come over kiss me, nibble on my ear, put her leg in my crotch and whisper (as she moved her leg up an down) ';I expect a little different style of your excellent customer service'; then would do a little quiet tiger purr (or whatever it's called) right in my ear.
Other times I jumped her bones in the hall way before the door was closed.
- I'm guessing - but I think that's what's gonna happen.
If you get to ';foreplay'; I would suggest a different theme than military/work related of course you don't want him to start thinking about someone, someplace ';work'; related
Congratulations to both of you
Meet him with another women with you for both of your enjoyment.
i hear guys love a strip tease.
do a strip tease and a lap dance
I agree with Orthodox Ted. If he has been talking about how much he wants to be with you, etc....then it might be alright.
Even though you might be hornier than heck, take it easy girl and see what happens....
Besides, it fun ripping off clothes.....smile
Be aware he might not be ready to jump right back in. He's been away in a very stressful situation. He may need some time to readjust. Play it by ear. Good Luck
Well you'll be overdressed,leave off the underwear.Then just hope you don't get hit by a bus.
I'd say thats a winner, lol.
light candles create a atmoshphere as soon as he come throught the door make a line of candles for him 2 follow and at the end of that line meet him wit a VERY enticeing outfit and maybe sum strawberrys and champane and from there let the for play begin (in my opinion a blindfold and handcuffs always spice things up)
I was thinking of showing up in a trenchcoat with lingerie underneath, but I would like to know what else a guy might like.
Thanx!Guys I need your advice?
If he's been gone for a while I would just jump him quick cause it probably won't take him l;ong anyway (because he's been gone for awhile) then go for the atmosphere and the surprises. P.S. tell him thanks from a grateful nation for his service.Guys I need your advice?
when he opens the door, scream and jump on him, while ur butt naked...lol...that should surprise him pretty good!!!...im not making fun of u...im serious...try that and see what happens...
i dont know, im just kidding...do what u want...=)
do what u feel most comfortable for u!
I would hold off on any surprises until you see what mood he's in. He may have seen combat. He may be in bad spirits. I may be full of it. If you want to dress for ';easy access,'; that would be OK.
Baby, all your man wants to see is YOU naked.
PS- thank him for his heroic service to our country.
naked and wear high heel shoes, suck him good
I wasn't in the military
I did customer service and training, work related travel 3 or 4 months at a time. Girl friend at the time liked the trenchcoat / lingerie type themes, she would check my general ';mood'; and tell me ';drop the customer service cr ap at the door buddy'; then tell a sexy joke or two, get me laughing then would come over kiss me, nibble on my ear, put her leg in my crotch and whisper (as she moved her leg up an down) ';I expect a little different style of your excellent customer service'; then would do a little quiet tiger purr (or whatever it's called) right in my ear.
Other times I jumped her bones in the hall way before the door was closed.
- I'm guessing - but I think that's what's gonna happen.
If you get to ';foreplay'; I would suggest a different theme than military/work related of course you don't want him to start thinking about someone, someplace ';work'; related
Congratulations to both of you
Meet him with another women with you for both of your enjoyment.
i hear guys love a strip tease.
do a strip tease and a lap dance
I agree with Orthodox Ted. If he has been talking about how much he wants to be with you, etc....then it might be alright.
Even though you might be hornier than heck, take it easy girl and see what happens....
Besides, it fun ripping off clothes.....smile
Be aware he might not be ready to jump right back in. He's been away in a very stressful situation. He may need some time to readjust. Play it by ear. Good Luck
Well you'll be overdressed,leave off the underwear.Then just hope you don't get hit by a bus.
I'd say thats a winner, lol.
light candles create a atmoshphere as soon as he come throught the door make a line of candles for him 2 follow and at the end of that line meet him wit a VERY enticeing outfit and maybe sum strawberrys and champane and from there let the for play begin (in my opinion a blindfold and handcuffs always spice things up)
Guys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?
It was me who ended things w/ my ex bf...completely regret it now. I said sorry over and over again....he said when ur in a serious relationship and something like this happens..u cant jump right back into to it..it need a little time....he said he needs time to think. I am completely in love with this guy...i dont want to call and be annoying to him after he said he needs time to think...i wrote a nice long email to him but havent sent it to him yet....how long should i wait to send it? when a guy says something like that is it usually good or bad?Guys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?
when he says something like that maybe thats what he needs...just let him thinkGuys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?
good advice, give him time. Also, never send a long e-mail until at least 1-2 days after you write it. Save it to ';draft'; and look at it sunday night.
If you want to send him a gift, send pizza.
1. LOOK PEOPLE, SHE'S ASKING FOR ADVICE, EVEN IF IT'S IN THIS SECTION, YOU STILL ANSWERED IT. SO SHUTTUP.
2. Sorry to say, (don't jump to conclusion) but saying sorry doesn't always help, especially with apologizing for doing something to end an serious relationship. I'm not exactly sure what happened anyway, email me if you want to tell and have advice, of course i don't want to be nosy, but i want to help. Your best now, is just to send the email, and more, and pray deeply for him to come through and give you a chance. And when a guy says something like that, we can't tell if it's a bad thing, there is no percentage to tell if it's good or bad. Try your best to think positive, and write him about how you feel, and the good times in your relationship, and how much you care for him/how much you're sorry and you want to be forgiven.
A) this isn't a health question
B) You need to wait until he's ready to speak to you. Then you need to have a two-sided conversation, not a one-sided one that an e-mail is. You need to give him time because he's been hurt, and he knows that entering into the relationship with you again means he may get hurt just as badly all over again.
I think he has feelings for someone else and is just waiting for it to happen naturally. Your out of the picture now by your choice and now you have given him the opportunity to start a new relationship.
How is this ';Men's Health';, exactly?
You could do 2 things
1. Desperately try to get him, and not get him
or
2. Be patient, and get him
Pick one.
Sounds like he is just really hurt right now %26amp; he doesn't want to talk to you because it's too hard for him. (Not trying to make you feel bad) Give him time %26amp; space. I would let him come to you when he's ready. Back off just a bit %26amp; see what happens.
go in the fckin singles section...
sorry to say this but thats usually bad
that usually means that he doesnt want to go back out with u but he still wants to be ur friend. i guess u can send him that e-mail and see what happens
sorry
i hope things work out for u :)
if it hasn't been too long (i mean just a few days or so, since you broke it off) give him a few more days.
why not consider sending him something - like flowers, or candy, etc. to him - you can have it delivered with a card expressing how you feel. this would be a lot nicer than an email, and you can have the flower shop deliver it for you.....
believe me, this works for guys all the time -- ha,ha...
This happened to me...I mean my girl dumped me and then regreted it and wanted me back!
I said the same things as your ex....It depends on why you dumped him and how it was ended....I was a little worried that it would happen again....But i took the chance and we are fine....In 4 years we have broken up 3 times....3rd time lucky hey?.........Let him know you made a mistake and your willing to prove it to him...Let him know it wont happen again to reassure him,we like that...Ask him what he needs to think about and if he really deep down does love you....And then if he still needs time...let him have it.
Don't send the email! Wait him out, if he wants you he will come around but sending an email is a sign of weakness, and desperation!
when he says something like that maybe thats what he needs...just let him thinkGuys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?
good advice, give him time. Also, never send a long e-mail until at least 1-2 days after you write it. Save it to ';draft'; and look at it sunday night.
If you want to send him a gift, send pizza.
1. LOOK PEOPLE, SHE'S ASKING FOR ADVICE, EVEN IF IT'S IN THIS SECTION, YOU STILL ANSWERED IT. SO SHUTTUP.
2. Sorry to say, (don't jump to conclusion) but saying sorry doesn't always help, especially with apologizing for doing something to end an serious relationship. I'm not exactly sure what happened anyway, email me if you want to tell and have advice, of course i don't want to be nosy, but i want to help. Your best now, is just to send the email, and more, and pray deeply for him to come through and give you a chance. And when a guy says something like that, we can't tell if it's a bad thing, there is no percentage to tell if it's good or bad. Try your best to think positive, and write him about how you feel, and the good times in your relationship, and how much you care for him/how much you're sorry and you want to be forgiven.
A) this isn't a health question
B) You need to wait until he's ready to speak to you. Then you need to have a two-sided conversation, not a one-sided one that an e-mail is. You need to give him time because he's been hurt, and he knows that entering into the relationship with you again means he may get hurt just as badly all over again.
I think he has feelings for someone else and is just waiting for it to happen naturally. Your out of the picture now by your choice and now you have given him the opportunity to start a new relationship.
How is this ';Men's Health';, exactly?
You could do 2 things
1. Desperately try to get him, and not get him
or
2. Be patient, and get him
Pick one.
Sounds like he is just really hurt right now %26amp; he doesn't want to talk to you because it's too hard for him. (Not trying to make you feel bad) Give him time %26amp; space. I would let him come to you when he's ready. Back off just a bit %26amp; see what happens.
go in the fckin singles section...
sorry to say this but thats usually bad
that usually means that he doesnt want to go back out with u but he still wants to be ur friend. i guess u can send him that e-mail and see what happens
sorry
i hope things work out for u :)
if it hasn't been too long (i mean just a few days or so, since you broke it off) give him a few more days.
why not consider sending him something - like flowers, or candy, etc. to him - you can have it delivered with a card expressing how you feel. this would be a lot nicer than an email, and you can have the flower shop deliver it for you.....
believe me, this works for guys all the time -- ha,ha...
This happened to me...I mean my girl dumped me and then regreted it and wanted me back!
I said the same things as your ex....It depends on why you dumped him and how it was ended....I was a little worried that it would happen again....But i took the chance and we are fine....In 4 years we have broken up 3 times....3rd time lucky hey?.........Let him know you made a mistake and your willing to prove it to him...Let him know it wont happen again to reassure him,we like that...Ask him what he needs to think about and if he really deep down does love you....And then if he still needs time...let him have it.
Don't send the email! Wait him out, if he wants you he will come around but sending an email is a sign of weakness, and desperation!
GUYS i need you advice about this?
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