I have a really bad temper and it seems like it gets worse and worse every time I get angry. I never get mad though and handle pretty much every situation by sitting down and talking about it to get straight to the matter then resolve it. I'm always laid back and very chill. It would take a lot to really piss me off. Friends have told me I don't even look like the same person anymore when I get mad and that I look dangerous and violent. I don't know what to do. This has effected relationships in my life and I don't want it to mess something up for me in the future.
I have completely broken a door off the hinges and still to this day am not sure how I did it. I've thrown a chair up against the wall and left a mark that looks like someone took an axe to the wall. All kind of cuss words and insults come flying out of my mouth. I can feel the veins popping out of my head and neck. I even have a sister who doesn't talk to me because to make a long story short we got into an argument and I busted her lip. She had to get stitches and four years later she still has a scar on her mouth. I feel terribly guilty about that. I do weight lifting for track and I'm getting really strong which doesn't help the situation. I punch punching bags to let out my anger and one of my guy friends (I went with him to the gym) was telling me I hit really hard and fast. I'm worried what I might do to someone if I ever fought them. I KNOW FOR A FACT I would NEVER kill anyone, but honestly I think I could really mess someone up. I don't know what to do.
Would this turn you off of a girl you liked?
What would you do if your girlfriend was like this? How would you handle it?
keep in mind I don't usually ever get mad.MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
I wouldn't go near you until I had at least two different blackbelts.MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
Of course this is a turn off. What have you done to fix this? I imagine you're in school so a therapist should be easily accessible to you. It wouldn't hurt to go in and talk to someone. If you rarely got angry and handled situations well you wouldn't have a sister who doesn't talk to you nor would it have affected your relationships.
What if a guy said to you ';I barely rape women'; or ';I've only beaten a couple of my girlfriends';. Those would still be important issues, right?
Monday, August 23, 2010
Relationship advice please help guys?
So this girl I like, is sending me mixed messages, sometimes she is nice to me, some other times she is shy when I'm around blushing, that sort of stuff, sometimes she tries her best to ignore me, sometimes she is just so mean to me, signs she is giving me like touchin my arms eat my food making me jealous, she gets angry when I talk to other girls, so after i figured out all these signs I then I asked her to go to lunch with me then she angrily said to offer my suggestion to other people, i'm confused please help...? oh yeah and the next day she waved at me... and today she talked to me again like she has done something wrong that kind of feeling...has anyone experienced b4 if yes how did u deal wid it?Relationship advice please help guys?
this chick sounds bipolar. no offense. either that or just really immature. Relationship advice please help guys?
Agree with alexis.. Bipolar and maybe shy at times. Keep persisting, coz' it seems you have a real chance here. All the best!
this chick sounds bipolar. no offense. either that or just really immature. Relationship advice please help guys?
Agree with alexis.. Bipolar and maybe shy at times. Keep persisting, coz' it seems you have a real chance here. All the best!
Seeking advice from females (guys too)?
I've known this girl for 2 yrs and i've liked her 4awhile now and I know she likes me becuz...
- she would stay up late to talk to me even if we argued
- she said she missed me during the summer
- she emails me %26amp; IM's me a lot
-she actually asked me whether i'd consider her to be my g/f
Oh wait... She chose her cheating-jerk b/f over me...a girl whom I confided with , was there for her through thick %26amp; thin...%26amp; I can't believe shes going back to her ex...why do girls do this! I don't care if im ';Just friends'; with her but the fact that she lead me on and did this speaks alot of how her character is..if anything I said she can do better with other guys that she has more potential in herself to succeed at anything %26amp; yet she doesn't listen
i kinda told her to have a nice life and take this fabricated illusion she calls a friendship %26amp; shove it..but now i feel bad becuz it is a 50/50 argument on my side and hers so i dunnoSeeking advice from females (guys too)?
Girls are just weird mate but then she must have had her reasons. Wether or not you will ever know is another story. She probably just wanted attention while she was in a rift with her bf. You were just entertainment for the time being and since you were so supportive and cool about things then that probably gave her no reason to be attached to you. Girls secretly like the bad boy over the nice boy even though they don't admit to it.
If you truly feel that you need to move on then move on and cut your losses. Don't waste anymore time with a girl who clearly doesn't have any interest in you or the way you feel.
Feel alright mon!Seeking advice from females (guys too)?
Move on there are alot of beautiful woman out there.Damn is it soo hard
Wait. What did you say? did u say you considered her a girlfriend? You say you were just friends, so I think she wanted to go out with you and you didn't make a move. Did you want to date her?
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- she would stay up late to talk to me even if we argued
- she said she missed me during the summer
- she emails me %26amp; IM's me a lot
-she actually asked me whether i'd consider her to be my g/f
Oh wait... She chose her cheating-jerk b/f over me...a girl whom I confided with , was there for her through thick %26amp; thin...%26amp; I can't believe shes going back to her ex...why do girls do this! I don't care if im ';Just friends'; with her but the fact that she lead me on and did this speaks alot of how her character is..if anything I said she can do better with other guys that she has more potential in herself to succeed at anything %26amp; yet she doesn't listen
i kinda told her to have a nice life and take this fabricated illusion she calls a friendship %26amp; shove it..but now i feel bad becuz it is a 50/50 argument on my side and hers so i dunnoSeeking advice from females (guys too)?
Girls are just weird mate but then she must have had her reasons. Wether or not you will ever know is another story. She probably just wanted attention while she was in a rift with her bf. You were just entertainment for the time being and since you were so supportive and cool about things then that probably gave her no reason to be attached to you. Girls secretly like the bad boy over the nice boy even though they don't admit to it.
If you truly feel that you need to move on then move on and cut your losses. Don't waste anymore time with a girl who clearly doesn't have any interest in you or the way you feel.
Feel alright mon!Seeking advice from females (guys too)?
Move on there are alot of beautiful woman out there.Damn is it soo hard
Wait. What did you say? did u say you considered her a girlfriend? You say you were just friends, so I think she wanted to go out with you and you didn't make a move. Did you want to date her?
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GUYS: I need your advice..with BF issues?
OK, I'm 11 1/2 yrs old in the 6th Grade ...I'm in the honor roll...Here's a guy who likes me and asks me to be his GF...
I know we're too young he's 12. But I really like him...
We all know that our parents will kill us if we asked 'em about this issue...I know that they don't want us to have BF or GF b/c it would affect our grades. But for me, It won't. Instead, it would be an inspiration for us to do better...I don't know what to do.
I don't want him to feel that I don't like him..
ADVICE pleaseGUYS: I need your advice..with BF issues?
You are both to young to have a b/f g/f relationship. At your age you both should be doing group activities with the opposite sex. You and a few other girls can go roller skating with him and a few other boys. That way, you can talk to each other and be with him but not as a couple. I'm sure that you can think of a lot of things that are group activities that you and he can do together.
I'm not just saying this to be mean. You and he are just starting a maturing process that depends somewhat on your internal physical body (and your mind). Your body has just started to mature sexually and your mind/brain has just started to develop your ability for abstract reasoning.
You parents are really your best advice givers now, not your friends.
You sound like a very nice girl that I would be proud to know.GUYS: I need your advice..with BF issues?
You're very welcome. The man you marry, when you're ready for that, will be blessed to have you for a wife.
you should have a BF your not that young i had boyfriends in 6th grade but keep it G rated holding hands and only kisses on the cheek
now you kids have fun
8 years from now I will give you the answer to this question.
i started going out with my boyfriend when i was 11 and we are still together, i think you should go out with him, if you like him, and for your parents, you should work very hard at school, and after about one month, tell them that your grades are up because you have a boyfriend, then they will have to let you be with him, it worked for me.
good luck.
Same thing happend to me...........But my parents acutely accepted it and i kept up my grades but we ended up braking up i don't remember y
date him on the sneak pic...itz not like yall are gonna be engaging sexually!!!!
dating at ur age is just for fun ne wayz
go out with him, at your age its only going to be for fun anyway, have no worries about your parents, just keep up your grades and you'll be fine
best of luck with it
wait till you finish college
Don't worry about ';boyfriend/girlfriend'; yet, try and be BEST friends for a year or so first and see if you both are ready for that.
Once you get the hang of being best friends, you might be ready to think about the whole ';boyfriend/girlfriend'; thing. Trust me, it's all a lot harder than it looks, it takes practice and you have to work up to it.
It's like juggling, you start with simple things like tennis balls, before you work your way up to chain saws.
Just stay friends. It's a lot less complicated this way too.
i do not think that is too young to have a bf, and he is not that much older then yourself so that is a good start..
remember that you have to prove your parents wrong in that you will be doing the right thing with having him as your bf. if your grades or behavior goes down then you will find that they might know then so be shore to stay up with your school or expect your parents to not wont you dating till your in your 80's (but i think that you would get off grounding by the time your in your 40's :) )
if you like him and think that your ready to handle all you have now and then him too then go for it have fun. but keep it to kissing, holding hands and so on would not wont to see you on in your teens saying am i prego!!
I know we're too young he's 12. But I really like him...
We all know that our parents will kill us if we asked 'em about this issue...I know that they don't want us to have BF or GF b/c it would affect our grades. But for me, It won't. Instead, it would be an inspiration for us to do better...I don't know what to do.
I don't want him to feel that I don't like him..
ADVICE pleaseGUYS: I need your advice..with BF issues?
You are both to young to have a b/f g/f relationship. At your age you both should be doing group activities with the opposite sex. You and a few other girls can go roller skating with him and a few other boys. That way, you can talk to each other and be with him but not as a couple. I'm sure that you can think of a lot of things that are group activities that you and he can do together.
I'm not just saying this to be mean. You and he are just starting a maturing process that depends somewhat on your internal physical body (and your mind). Your body has just started to mature sexually and your mind/brain has just started to develop your ability for abstract reasoning.
You parents are really your best advice givers now, not your friends.
You sound like a very nice girl that I would be proud to know.GUYS: I need your advice..with BF issues?
You're very welcome. The man you marry, when you're ready for that, will be blessed to have you for a wife.
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you should have a BF your not that young i had boyfriends in 6th grade but keep it G rated holding hands and only kisses on the cheek
now you kids have fun
8 years from now I will give you the answer to this question.
i started going out with my boyfriend when i was 11 and we are still together, i think you should go out with him, if you like him, and for your parents, you should work very hard at school, and after about one month, tell them that your grades are up because you have a boyfriend, then they will have to let you be with him, it worked for me.
good luck.
Same thing happend to me...........But my parents acutely accepted it and i kept up my grades but we ended up braking up i don't remember y
date him on the sneak pic...itz not like yall are gonna be engaging sexually!!!!
dating at ur age is just for fun ne wayz
go out with him, at your age its only going to be for fun anyway, have no worries about your parents, just keep up your grades and you'll be fine
best of luck with it
wait till you finish college
Don't worry about ';boyfriend/girlfriend'; yet, try and be BEST friends for a year or so first and see if you both are ready for that.
Once you get the hang of being best friends, you might be ready to think about the whole ';boyfriend/girlfriend'; thing. Trust me, it's all a lot harder than it looks, it takes practice and you have to work up to it.
It's like juggling, you start with simple things like tennis balls, before you work your way up to chain saws.
Just stay friends. It's a lot less complicated this way too.
i do not think that is too young to have a bf, and he is not that much older then yourself so that is a good start..
remember that you have to prove your parents wrong in that you will be doing the right thing with having him as your bf. if your grades or behavior goes down then you will find that they might know then so be shore to stay up with your school or expect your parents to not wont you dating till your in your 80's (but i think that you would get off grounding by the time your in your 40's :) )
if you like him and think that your ready to handle all you have now and then him too then go for it have fun. but keep it to kissing, holding hands and so on would not wont to see you on in your teens saying am i prego!!
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Any advice on confusing guys!?!?
-F*ck buddies on and off for a year.
-Stopped talking to me for a month because he was mad that he had heard I hooked up with another guy at a party.
-We've held hands, argue, and hung out a lot like couples do.
-He calls before he goes to sleep every three-four days. We talk about life and random things.
-The other night he calls 10 times from 6-8pm. I couldn't answer because I was at work. We hung out once I got out of work.
-What do you think he wants? I'm really confused. I don't think I LIKE him but I do LIKE him as a friend. Advice?
Can I get REAL ADVICE as to what he wants, what I should do, and how to approach this situation?Any advice on confusing guys!?!?
Don't overthink it too much. Guys always take what YOU think is going on and say that they feel the opposite.
Just go with it and if you start liking him, tell him. If he feels the same way great, if he doesn't, his loss.
-Stopped talking to me for a month because he was mad that he had heard I hooked up with another guy at a party.
-We've held hands, argue, and hung out a lot like couples do.
-He calls before he goes to sleep every three-four days. We talk about life and random things.
-The other night he calls 10 times from 6-8pm. I couldn't answer because I was at work. We hung out once I got out of work.
-What do you think he wants? I'm really confused. I don't think I LIKE him but I do LIKE him as a friend. Advice?
Can I get REAL ADVICE as to what he wants, what I should do, and how to approach this situation?Any advice on confusing guys!?!?
Don't overthink it too much. Guys always take what YOU think is going on and say that they feel the opposite.
Just go with it and if you start liking him, tell him. If he feels the same way great, if he doesn't, his loss.
Need advice girls or guys doesnt matter.?
what piercing should i get facialy. lol thats mot even a word but it is now!
i already have my nose pierced but i want something else since my ears are always covered because im self conscious of my sideburns lmao yes its strange i know.
so heres the part where you step in tell me which piercing that would look best on me and why and best answer gets 10 points =]
simple? yes.
http://www.myspace.com/thoseshoezareminebetch
just click on view my pics to get a better gist of what i look like ^^ please and thank youNeed advice girls or guys doesnt matter.?
monroe definitely!
it would look great on you
can you answers mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsERbBJqiq90PGCq.vEj7pnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090401134913AAG9uLEconcealer
i already have my nose pierced but i want something else since my ears are always covered because im self conscious of my sideburns lmao yes its strange i know.
so heres the part where you step in tell me which piercing that would look best on me and why and best answer gets 10 points =]
simple? yes.
http://www.myspace.com/thoseshoezareminebetch
just click on view my pics to get a better gist of what i look like ^^ please and thank youNeed advice girls or guys doesnt matter.?
monroe definitely!
it would look great on you
can you answers mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsERbBJqiq90PGCq.vEj7pnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090401134913AAG9uLE
Guys i need your advice, but dont be rude?
last night after my promotion (Work), i went to the club and went to go and visit this guy who i do like! But when i got there he wasnt very friendly, only after his friends and all the owners of the club put a thumbs up when they saw me,,,, only then he was all over me... is this guy worth it! Guys you seriously baffel meGuys i need your advice, but dont be rude?
I am sure many people will say no...so do I...why would you want a guy who can't make decisions for himself and has to ask all his buddies to see if your worth a look? Not. only is that guy a loser cause he can't make decisions on his own, this guy seems to be looking for another girl he can put on his hot lists of girls he has banged recently. Sorry, to say this, but it seems like he is the type of guy who only gets with a girl because he thinks of her as a prize and once he has sex with you will never wanna talk to you or see you again...I mean do you really want a guy who thinks women are objects? I hope not...I recommend you drop him...cause your only going to hurt yourself and he is only going to get someone else if you won't do it...so ...instead being a piece of property or land he can conquer try finding a guy who is worth your time and see's you for you.Guys i need your advice, but dont be rude?
he's insecure, jealous and sick.
kick him on his axx
No, he's a douchebag. screw that...a guy shouldn't have to go to his friends for approval...that's a whole lot of crock
Hell No!!! What do you think? You want some guy who's going to base all his decisions on what his friends and the bartender think? You can do better
hell no if he cant trust u let him go and who the hell r his friends to judge u
if he was rude and iggnored you earlier no not worth it he tried for you at the end of the night just to score.
its a natural thing sometimes its necessary to come out of ur comfort zone and push it to the limits in this case keeping up with him might be limit . Seeking approval insecurity all this happens naturally and if he is worthfull enough may be one day when u have a put up a lot of with him he is gonna crash and surrender to you and trust me he aint going anywhere from then on but again a risky possibility
not even close to worth it...find another stud
He is nt worth for u...If he really likes you he shld hv expressed it.
may be he is not aware of ur promotion.After all he is a MAN not a
superMAN
Honey ,,,, what does your heart say to you . only you knows what best for you
no he is not worth it,he had to get approve from other people,screw that shi*
no, not really. he is a man that needs a thumb up for aeverything and it means he can not decide himself. do not rely on him.
shove a drink up his *** next time you see him
no
i think he is not worth it, give a kick on his @ss
He had to make sure his friends approved of you, he didnt want to embarrass himself by being seen with an ugly chick. Sorry for being honest, but straight to the point - but women do the same thing. Silly woman !!!!! You should know this through the years of male bashing training you ladies have !
I am sure many people will say no...so do I...why would you want a guy who can't make decisions for himself and has to ask all his buddies to see if your worth a look? Not. only is that guy a loser cause he can't make decisions on his own, this guy seems to be looking for another girl he can put on his hot lists of girls he has banged recently. Sorry, to say this, but it seems like he is the type of guy who only gets with a girl because he thinks of her as a prize and once he has sex with you will never wanna talk to you or see you again...I mean do you really want a guy who thinks women are objects? I hope not...I recommend you drop him...cause your only going to hurt yourself and he is only going to get someone else if you won't do it...so ...instead being a piece of property or land he can conquer try finding a guy who is worth your time and see's you for you.Guys i need your advice, but dont be rude?
he's insecure, jealous and sick.
kick him on his axx
No, he's a douchebag. screw that...a guy shouldn't have to go to his friends for approval...that's a whole lot of crock
Hell No!!! What do you think? You want some guy who's going to base all his decisions on what his friends and the bartender think? You can do better
hell no if he cant trust u let him go and who the hell r his friends to judge u
if he was rude and iggnored you earlier no not worth it he tried for you at the end of the night just to score.
its a natural thing sometimes its necessary to come out of ur comfort zone and push it to the limits in this case keeping up with him might be limit . Seeking approval insecurity all this happens naturally and if he is worthfull enough may be one day when u have a put up a lot of with him he is gonna crash and surrender to you and trust me he aint going anywhere from then on but again a risky possibility
not even close to worth it...find another stud
He is nt worth for u...If he really likes you he shld hv expressed it.
may be he is not aware of ur promotion.After all he is a MAN not a
superMAN
Honey ,,,, what does your heart say to you . only you knows what best for you
no he is not worth it,he had to get approve from other people,screw that shi*
no, not really. he is a man that needs a thumb up for aeverything and it means he can not decide himself. do not rely on him.
shove a drink up his *** next time you see him
no
i think he is not worth it, give a kick on his @ss
He had to make sure his friends approved of you, he didnt want to embarrass himself by being seen with an ugly chick. Sorry for being honest, but straight to the point - but women do the same thing. Silly woman !!!!! You should know this through the years of male bashing training you ladies have !
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