Advice for this guy I really,really like! Guys and girls please!!?

Ok,so there is this guy at my church,he is Mexican,has a mustache,has the greatest smile I've ever seen,has cute dimples,has a great hairstyle which is kinda spiky,and he dresses sooo cute,cuz like normally all the guys at my church dres in polo shirts or they wear their pants down to where ya can see thier boxers and they wear really baggy shirts,and I dont like that kind of style clothes that guys wear,I like the more classy type,like the jeans and a nice dressy shirt or just a shirt. And I think he is atleast 15 or 16,I know he is young because he was in 9th grade last year. btw,I really,really like him,he has bin my longest crush* 3 months* And like the very first time I saw him and talked to him was when i went on a Disney land trip with my Youth group from church. btw,I pulled out a bag of Wheat Thins,and every1 wanted some so I said they could,and no one even said thank you,except for Adrian*the guy I like* And I told him ';ur welcome'; and that was the last time I ever talked to him,which was like a year ago,I know,it's pathetic cuz we see each other 1nce a week.X] btw,I've noticed that like whenever I see him he smiles at me,or kinda smirks,and like he will kinda show off,but not much,and like if I'm just hanging around out front of my church,he will go and sit down somewhere and just hang out with his bro's where ever I'm at.* he has bin doing this for the past few weeks.* And like last week I was hanging with my younger friend Pam who is 10,I'm 14,and we were totally goofing off and being kinda crazy because she is always really hyper and out of control,so we were laughing a lot and really loud,and then like when she threw a little pebble at me I turned my head so it wouldn't hit my eye,and thats when i saw he was looking right at me and smiling,and when i made eye contact with him he stopped smiling and looked down,so I thought he thought I was immature,because I was acting immature and he is laid back and acts very calm and respectful,so I was kinda embarrassed because I normally don't act like that. btw,so then like when her mom picked Pam and I up from church to go see a movie,we drove past him on the side walk and he was talking on his cell,and I had my window down,and I looked at him and kept a straight face because I am really,really shy towards guys I like,and anyway,so i kept a straight face,and we made eye contact and he kinda smirked at me,and then kept talking on his cell. So basically I was wondering if you guys think that he likes me at all? And what do ya guys think i should do?! I know he is kinda a ladies man because he is calm and laid back,and he is respectful and not hyper and crazy like most teen guys are,so a lot of girls always hang around him at Quest,which is my youth group,and I'v noticed that he smiles a lot when he gets attention from them,but then when they are done talking to him he just hangs out by himself against the wall,and I never go up and talk to him because I'm wayyy too shy and nervous. And also sometimes when I'm watching him across the room when all the girls are all huddled around him,sometimes he will look at me and kinda smirk,and other times he gets a sad face and looks down,,and I have no clue why! it makes me sad that he has a sad face cuz I don't know what he is thinking! So please help and give ur HONEST opinions on what I should do and if he likes me,thanks sooo much!!


And also if ur wondering if I get jealous when girls hang around him,you bet I do! I get really jealous and sad when I see girls hug him and he gives 'em piggie back rides....=[ I wish I got to hug him!Advice for this guy I really,really like! Guys and girls please!!?
Try to send signals to him. Cause form what I read, you never gave him enough clue that you like him.


Guys are mostly like girls too, afraid of rejection.


You can save yourself from rejection by doing this.


Give him enough signals like starting ';real'; conversation to him at the Church, after that you can ask for his cellphone number, you can be more friendly to him, give him a ride if you see him walking or anything like that.


First of all try to be a friend to him. Move fast. Then you can start sending some clue about how you feel.


First you can say compliment things like ';I like your smile';, ';I love your style';, ';I'm happy when you're around';, or ';You're cute';


That way you give him clues without being so obvious. The clues you give will encourage him to take further steps.


If he like you, he'll send some signals too. He may call you, or ask you for a date.


But... If he don't then he'll treat you as a friend and pretend not knowing anything, or if he like other girls, then he'll send some rejection signal by telling you about the girl he like.





Bottom line is, just try to be yourself, make him a friend, say things you like about him, if it goes to slow try to do something further like hold his hands, speak so close to his face, etc. Wait for his reaction. You'll know what his answer is when the time is come :)Advice for this guy I really,really like! Guys and girls please!!?
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ythats what ur question loos like
I am not sure,, but you should use your nice feminine instincts.
Why are ALL the long questions always late at night? lol i think you should ask him out.
holy crap! you honestly expect someone to read all that gibberish!?!?
He's def. into. Or just wants sex.
im not going to read all of that.
Ask the guy out
I didn't read it all, it was making me feel dizzy, but you should tell him girlie! :)
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woah........that was long.......





ask him out b4 its too late!





thnx 4 answering mine!
lol mexican moustache, thats all i read
omg u honestly think sumones going 2 reed this!!??


well im not but my answer is dont go out with him cus he'll get bored of all ur talking
okay you should make this waaaayyy shorter b/cuz i was gonna write back to it and it looked interesting and everything but when i seen how long it is i was like ';uh no'; so idk wat to tell you cuz i aint got time to be readin all that....
okay, i didn't read all of that but i think you should tell him you like him.


he will ask you out.


oh btw don't tell someone to tell him for you! big mistake!
WOW ... that was long! thanks for ur answer btw 2my question! well i think the guy does like you hes certainly showin u some signs! however he seems shy and as tho u shud maybe just talk 2 him ... try and make an excuse to havva convo! for eg. ur in the same group thing as him so ask him something and try and talk more! i mean u havnt spoken to him for over a year and all u both do is stare! (IM ONE 2 TALK LOL INSIDE JOKE U KNO WAT I MEAN) ,... but really pluck up the courage and just be urself! im sure he was smilin wen u were havin fun as he found it fun 2 see u have fun and not be so serious! hope this helps uu! just play it kool aswell
Your insecure with girls around him, doesn't mean you really like him it means you like attention. Way, way to long revise and think about what you wrote and in there you will find your own answer.
I am sure he likes you. I know what it is like to be shy. But you have to grow out of it and be confident! good luck!
Yes he likes you. All of us give those signals, like when you said the part about your friend throwing the pebble and you saw that he was smiling then looked down when you had eye contact, He didnt want you to think that he is weird by staring at you. He is probably to shy to ask you out so i think you should go for it and ask him.
oh i hve been here b4 lol anyways start tlking to him and maybe start sitting by him sometimes show lil hints and stuff he will catch on n whenever he smiles at u smile backk at him he could lyk u and be to shy to show it anyways good luck girlie!
You're shy, what if he is shy too?


Sounds like he might have a thing for you. You'll have to talk to him first! Maybe invite him for a movie or something?
OMG this is sooo longg!


I READ THE BEGGING THOUGH :)


nawwhh! just start talking to him every time you see him , get to know him , let him get to know you :)


and then if you guys get to more than good friends. ask him out. or before you know it , he'll be asking you out :)





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Anyway, ask him out. You really have nothing to lose. The age gap is nothing, and since you've been obsessing over this for so long, you might as well get it over and done with, so you're not left wondering later.
yes he does like you cant you see?the smiles and looks and if there are alot of girls around him and he looks at you and start to look sad that means he likes you more than the rest of the girls,so there is nothing to worry about.he is thinking that he wants you and he doesnt want to dissapoint you with all the other girls that are around him.just start to be friends with him first and then tell him how you feel about him because if you never let him know how you feel he might end up with one of those girls who are always playing with him.so dont let it pass you by talk to him and that way you will be hugging him
Ok if you have a cellphone call him over to you and say hi and be like you got a cellphone if so ask him can u see it and put your number in his and be like im going to text you later if that's ok....if he say yeah the big part is over.....GOODLUCK HOPE I HELPED.. . :}














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it thnk u shld ask him out ASAP


don mind the piggy bacs


i think hes trying u out
I think he likes you, you should ask him out or talk to him more because he really seems to want to hang out with you more maybe he was sad because you weren't around him.





Go for it!!
(Thanx for answering my question) Awwwwwwwww... your shy too... (I'm sort of shy first, but after I talk I'm ok, exept around people I like, I get sort of shy) But apart from that... You may not like this but If you want to know for sure If he like's you or not, is for you to go up to him and ask wether he likes you, If he look's down, say you like him, because he may be shy too, and then he should give you an answere, hopefully. Your church sounds like mine... Like realy like mine... but I'm on Oz... And my family run the church. Errr... It seem's to me, the reson may be when he looks down and sad when he see's you, is he may, be thinking, ';Why isn't she over here';, from what I've herd... but like I said just go up and ask, I know your shy, but ask, because you never know untill you try. (Thanx for your answere. realy helped) Good Luck :)
ask him out. The first 5 lines i read he sounds hot and mexican, great smile, great hairstyle oh boy man ask him out before i do.


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OH AND THANK YOU FOR THE BEST ANSWER THING
he is pretty polite, i think if you tried talking to him your best then he wouldn't laugh at you he would take it very mature and talk you back especially if he smiles at you alot. he might look at you and look sad because he is afraid to ask you out
yeah I think he likes you, I agree with you asking him for his cell number that way he will know you are interested, guys at that age are afraid of being rejected. If you do not send some signals that you are interested in him, he might think you do not like him because you are wayyy to shy. ask him if he has a girlfriend? if he is interested he will tell you that he does not even if he has a girlfriend.