GUYS!! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE? SHORT QUESTION.?

My bf is 29, Im 27, been together for a year. He says he wants to marry me and get engaged soon etc.





But then I overheard him talking to his friend who said he was getting married. Then he said to his friend '; married? wow thats still a big word to me ';





What does this mean????GUYS!! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE? SHORT QUESTION.?
I think it's just guys talking, and he still wants to marry you. But it's huge when you first start thinking about it.GUYS!! PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE? SHORT QUESTION.?
Probably doesnt want his friend to know how he feels cuz he has only dated you for a year, and many people are like ';Oh god! A year?! thats not enough time to get to know a person!'; Or, he doesnt really mean it when he says it to you, he is just confused. He could think about it some moments and it sounds good, but then others it doesnt. Like sex, some people are EXTRA lovey dovey when they are intimant, but then when sex is over later on, they wouldnt just glare into your eyes and spill their guts about their unwaivering love for you. Theres a time and place. You could of overheard wrong too. Or he didnt want to steal the moment from his friend. Marriage is a big announcment, if he was to say ';oh yeah? Im thinking about it too!'; it would be stealing the moment frm his friend. You guys are in the right age range for marriage though. Remember, engagment and marriage are two different things. U could get engaged and be engaged for years and years and then get married. Start there first. Then work on marriage.
It's guy talk. Some guys tend to play the macho role with their buddies and ';act'; like they think marriage is a big step. I have a few buddies that acted the same way even though everyone knew they wanted to marry their GF. Either way have a talk with him and make sure you're both on the same page on getting married.


Remember, marriage is a huge step in the relationship for both of you. Best of luck!
Hi, You know, it sounds like your boyfriend is 29 going on 15, lol!


No disrespect intended. You know, some men are so macho. Macho is another word for immature in my book. You could ask him about what you overheard, but what good is it. He's going to say it's just a guy thing more than likely =-).





I'm sure that he loves you and wants to marry you, otherwise he wouldn't have brought it up. If it would make you feel better then go ahead and ask him.





When a man is mature and secure in himself he doesn't have to try and act a certain way to impress anyone.


I think that your relationship is secure and you don't have anything to worry about.


GoOd lUcK!!
Marriage can be a huge thing to many people , especially if they feel they are not ready to make those vows. Hesitation is not uncommon and in many ways it is a good thing. Maybe he has some issues he needs to deal with first. It is good for you that he says he wants to get married, it at least means he has thought about it. Are you guys ok for right now? Happy? If so don't let it hurt you that he said this. I think you should check out a website called www.FeelBetterNetwork.com. They have some great advice when
You're looking at this the wrong way. It could be a positive. What if his mindset is ';Wow, that's still a big word to me. I'm excited.';? The point is, if you're really worried, you should just ask him how he feels. I mean, you're about to marry this guy. You should be able to ask each other/work through anything. Hope this helps and best ofluck to the both of you!
you should ask him do he still want to get married and let him know theirs no pressure to rush into things and just see what he says. also you know guys like to show off so he could of just been fronting when he was talking to his friend ....but i would keep what he say in mind because you don't want i guy to waste your time because guys are good a pretending and wasting time!
Marriage, mortgages, raising kids, spending the rest of your lives together........ It IS a big word/commitment. If you loose one wink of sleep over that comment, it will be one wink too many.





Marriage is a roller coaster. Enjoy the ride!
Seems to me he is acting cool around his friend (you know that guy macho thing). He can also be telling you exactly what you want to hear so you will hang around.
Well.. Marriage is a huge step in a relationship, i think thats what he meant.
deep inside you want to become a prostitute
it means he's excited this is a big step in your life
Maybe hes saying it because he thinks its what you want to hear.


have a talk with him about how committed he really is