I need sum advice from a guys point of view (or girls if your good with relationshipy stuff)?

Ok, here's the story:I spent the night at some chicks house. well, she was havin like a little party, it was just me and a handful of other people (mostly family) well her cousin ended up being this guy ive been crushin on for a while. we talked for a little bit, and evenutally went to the back (he was my boyfriend at the time, thank you very much!) and anyway, after we were done, JAM (my bf) went to go smoke... well, then JT comes in, i was mad cuz JAM supposedly quit a while ago, and he said he wouldnt do that anymore, well JT and i made out, and he fingered me, and we went a little farther than that, and i was gonna tell JAM just to piss him off, but now he moved in w ith his dad, i dont see him too much, dont want him to be mad, but feel like im obligated to tell him what happened. he knows me and JT were in the room together alone for a bit, but i didn't tell him what happened, now i have to tell him cuz i feel bad, but how should i sayit oh, bty,JT's his cousin, who had a gf.I need sum advice from a guys point of view (or girls if your good with relationshipy stuff)?
BETTER BE HONEST..better out from your mouth than other!!


i rather hear it from my gf mouth than my friend!! it hurt alot..BUT i feel like your relationship wont last


';guys have ego,high ego';


and one more thing....YOU CHEAT ON HIM WITH HIS COUZ...THATS A BIG NO NO!!!!!I need sum advice from a guys point of view (or girls if your good with relationshipy stuff)?
tell him your self. it would be better than if he heard it from some one else because then he would feel like you were trying to hide it from him. Honesty is the best policy.
well first you need to tell jam cuz he will find out and then tell jt that it will never happen again and he needs to tell his gf