Relationship Advice for Teenage Guys?

OK. This has happened twice to me. A girl texts me or calls me and tells me that she likes me, and in both cases I liked them back so I ask them if they wanted to go out with me. They both thought about it for a few days and said no. I think that I'm using the wrong wording for ';Will you go out with me?'; and I need to make it sound like less of a commitment to just start out with. Do you think that ';Do you want to do something?'; or ';Do you want to go somewhere sometime?'; or something like that would work better?Relationship Advice for Teenage Guys?
i think that the ';first date'; shouldent be a ';first date';





just ask


';hey im going to get some icecream with my friend, u want to come with?';





and then when the time comes say


';my friends mom called and said he had a doctors apointment she forgot to tell him about and he had to go today for a check up so he coldent come, so we are stuck together i guess *light and fun, quick laugh*';





and then play it cool from thier my brotha





if she needs a ride then provide a ride





cause thats what men do, they find rides





wich u well





ps ';do u want to do something'; is the winner in my book :DRelationship Advice for Teenage Guys?
well, ';do you want to go to a movie sometime?'; is different than ';will you go out with me?';


The first means A DATE which, at the end of one or two, you can ask her ';Will you go out with me?';





start by asking to hang out and work your way in from there. but take it slow and dont get in over your head if it all goes well. I did and now it isnt looking good. anyway, try the date first, then ask the other. Good luck, man
from a girls opinion-


get to know the girl better first


then try to get to know her sister[if she has one] and her good friends


if she truely likes a guy, they would be the first to know


then when asking her out, ask her if she would like to hang out sometime, maybe a causual movie%26amp;dinner thing. and maybe ask her in person and in front of people. girls like it when guys pay attention to them in front of their friends. good luck!
well they seem like they might have some commitment issues, or they are just confused, another factor is weather or not that you respond back right away, make sure that you don't take to long, because girls hate that, then they get second thoughts, if they say no if they tell you already that they like you then they aren't worth the trouble. you should ask them if they would like to hang out sometime, but instead of letting them choose the activity have aplan already, like say, ';do you want to go to the movies with me, i was planning on going, but it would be cool if i had someone with me,'; they would jump at the oppertunity
when they text you and tell you they like you, tell them you like them back, something cute like:


';i really like you too, you're amazing :)';


DONT ask them out straight away, leave it a couple of days and say something like:


';do you wanna go to the cinema on saturday? i've got nothing to do';


keep it cool and casual, and if a girl turns you down then it's her loss :)


good luck!
I think ';Will you go out with me?'; is fine. Although i don't know why those girls said they liked you, but when you asked them out they turned you down...I guess they just don't want the commitment, like you said. Maybe next time you should say you like them back, but leave it at that to see if you can tell if she really wants to get out of the friend zone, or if she just thinks your hot.
hey im 14 and was in the same situation a while ago- i just broke up with her btw. anyway it depends what type of girl she is.if they are the type of girl u think that u would want a longer relationship with then go for it with ' will u go out with me' but if u just want to try it for a while ( like i did ) then maybe try and suprise her with a kiss one day. U could have like a group outing with ur friends form shcool and invite her- then u could kiss her and then be in a realtionship without asking her. OR finally go to a rave. lol then u can get her drunk and get off with her- next day- your in.


wow that was long
I think you're right. They might be misunderstanding your intentions. Try something like, ';Great! Let's go do something fun together! What do you like to do?'; Better yet, talk to them in person. Text messaging is great for little bits of information, but is sucks for real communication, especially relationship stuff.
Yeah I would not say ';Will you go out with me?'; because it sounds way too serious...they probably just want to hang out with you and get to know you better and then you can step it up and ask to get more serious...Just be like ';Hey...what are you doing friday? Do you want to hang out'; or something like that...just act like shes a guy friend to keep it cool





:) good luck!!
I'm a girl. Don't come straight out. Get closer to them, hang out, text jokes, but don't ask them out right away. We freak out. Don't wait for them to make the first move. You could show up at their doors with flowers and chocolate, we can't say no because we feel bad if we don't. Once she's agreed, plan carefully. NO CASUAL. NO SUPER FANCY. A nice lunch, or dinner, and a movie. Show her what a great guy you are. No pressure though. DON'T RUSH IT!!!!
yea, you should probably just say would u like to hang out sometime or go to a movie with me. something like that. ';will you go out with me'; is generally taken as will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend. which is pretty dumb bc ur not asking, will you be my gilfriend/boyfriend. lol but just something more casual would probably be better to ask! hope i could help!
you can try to ask that, but be careful because u don't want to seem too desperate. because if u seem to desperate its not going to matter how you ask it, they will still say no.


you could always just go after one of these girls, and put all ur efforts into one?
I would probably ask something like ';Wanna go to a movie?'; or something specific. ';Do you want to go somewhere sometime? and Do you want to do something? both sound a little fishy- like you're looking for casual sex.
when they tell you they like you dont jump to the asking out part right away. just say cool i like you too. but dont go for the commitment. just ask them if they wanna hang out sometime.
Say something like, ';We should hang out sometime.'; It doesn't some as commited. Or you could suggest a group date, that doesn't sound as pressured. :]


Good luck!
You should just say do u wanna hang out sometime or go out for pizza . that way it wont be a commitment :)
';Lets make it official';
ya that sounds better '; do you want.......';


try it again


and good luck
yeah just say ';wanna hang out'; :)
just next time you see her rape her thatll work