Ok, I need advice from you guys..?

I've been told by my bf that I 'have the mentality of a dude'. I'm not a very verbal person; I express myself through actions. I don't really like to talk about my feelings. I think it is irrelevant. I like to deal with my feelings on my own; I HATE the feeling of someone trying to fix my problems when I am capable of fixing them on my own. I'm not as social as other girls; i like to do my own thing. Because I am like this, my boyfriend thinks I am using him for sex which is ABSOLUTELY NOT true because I love him very much, I'm just not a very verbally open person. He thinks I need to 'connect' more. But I express that differently tho, not through words like other girls!! I also find him a bit hypocritical because he never talks about his feelings and he expects me to. I asked him why and he said that ';your a girl. Girls talk about their feelings';. What is up with this??? Is my mentality a turn off to guys?? I'm an introvert; that is why I am the way I am. I really hate the behavioral expectations for each gender. Men are supposed to be aloof and collected and women emotional. How can I get my bf to believe I am not using him for sex when I am just not a very verbally expressive person??Ok, I need advice from you guys..?
Not a lot of answer for you. Open up. They say the best relationships are made of communication. You just tell him you love him calmly and that you're not using him for sex.





bring it up like that.





i need to talk to you. What you said upset me (and it's true). I love you and i'm not using you for sex. I need you to understand that.





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