what are some things guys look for in a girl? im shy and not really ';popular'; you could say. what are some things i could do to get more attention?Guys and Girls can answer: Boy Advice?
I am a guy and what I would look for in a girl is 3 things. Intelligence, Confidence, and Looks. If a girl possesses those 3 things then I know right there and then she is the right person for me.Guys and Girls can answer: Boy Advice?
I'm from a very religious background and have been able to help many young women and guys with situations like these. To be very honest with you, why are you trying so hard to stick in when you were born to stand out? lol...i'm sure you heard that from ';what a girl wants-the movie';. It's so true. Nothing looks better when you are naturally you -meaning, you don't try to get noticed, you don't try to get more attention. You are unique and you have to use all that you see when you look in the mirror. Yes, wearing the latest trends might get you noticed, having the latest accessories might too, but when you wake up in the morning (having brushed your teeth and comb your hair of course!), walk in to school with a smile on your face, your shoulders back, this shows up more than any thing you put on/wear. Confidence, modesty and showing that inner beauty will get you notice-it starts within and trust me-that's all that you'll need. I remembered I had the hardest time getting noticed myself -throughout high school, but I kept neat and tidy, kept helping people, kept showing love and care to people around me and one day a really cute guy that was really popular came up to me and said, ';y'know, I've noticed you and i've noticed that you are not like the other girls...you love yourself and you don't try to impress anyone...I see who you are...and i like that'; Remember, they see you when you see yourself. Hope I helped. Bless.
What a guy looks for in girls is probably A girl that has confidence about herself, someone that's Down to Earth, someone That's Not Too Outspoken (Talks about themselves, or talk bad about other girls, As far as i know guys HATE drama, and they care less about it), And most importantly a girl that has a nice personality and has a very good attitude.
In order to get a guys attention try some of these things:)
BE YOURSELF! Yeah sure, everyone says this, but it's actually true. Guys dont want a girl who pretends to be someone else.
Try a new look, No this doesnt mean change yourself, Just try something different, Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, it might just help you catch his eye ;) And if he doesn't like you for who you are than don't even bother with him. He's not worth it.
Give him hints every now and than. For example if you catch him staring at you, make eye contact with him for a few seconds, and smile, than turn away:)
Start up conversations in your freetime, talk about something going on around you, or perhaps something you both like.
And the main thing you can do is, Just Talk To Him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will.
Goodluckk!
What boy's look for in a girl: from a girl's point of view
They don't want a rude girl
They want to be complimented, but not over doing it
They want the girl to look cute
They want the girl to be on the smart side, not geeky, but not bimbo stupid
They want a girl to be there at their side, not to clingy however
They want the girl to appreciate their friends
They want a girl to be funny, have a care free attitude
They want a girl to do cute things such as, twirling their hair, biting their lip, holding their hands, etc.
It's nice if a girl does something special for them, like wear their favorite color, or a shirt that they complimented on you
They want a girl to never be nervous around them
They don't want a girl to be too ';hard to get';
You can make it a little obvious that you like them
They wouldn't want you to be correcting them all the time acting like a smarty pants
They would like you to have Hygiene
They would like you to flirt with them, have fun!
To get their attention: Do all of those things, just plain flirt with them for goodness sake!!! Have fun! Boys look for things that we girls look for in a guy. So don't worry! Be happy!
Oh and it's mainly all about PERSONALITY!!
some guys dont like to go out with popular girls cuz they dont like the attention. thats how i am. we like girls that arent afraid to laugh together or to do boy stuff. come out of ur way to say hi and they will start tio hang with u more
well you dont have to be ';popular';
but if your shy.. that doesnt really help.
Be more outgoing, and flirtatious if you want some boys
and most importanly
be irresistable.
CONFIDENCE.
Enough said.
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personality
how you look
the clothes you have on
if your pretty
smart
if your the type
how you act around people
if your not ';shy';
Be yourself dont act like someone else to be popular or to get guys to like you. Guys like to see a confident girl so build up ur confidence and practice ur flirting.
if a guy only goes for popular girls then its clearly just because he wants to be popular too. u are worth more than this- the right guy will come along eventually so just be patient
im a guy and what i look in a girl is her attitude against me and how nice she looks boys like girls that talk about them
this is the order: looks, personality,confidence
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