Thursday, July 29, 2010

Guys I need your advice please..do we have a chance?

Story is, me and my guy friend had been flirting a bit and recently, we kissed%26amp;made out. We hadnt known each other very well as we live in different cities. Thing is, he's taking it very casually, we havnt discussed our feelings but he contacted me again after a few days of 'awkwardness'.I'm in love with him but I dont know how much he feels. We talked vaguely of a visit...maybe in distant future. He's a non controntational type of guy and I know that if he doesnt feel the same way, he would never want to hurt me. So it makes things really difficult to me. I dont even have the nerve to email my feelings.


I've heard it said that if a guy keeps in contact after there's something physical with a girl, it means he's interested in her? Is this true? What can I do?Guys I need your advice please..do we have a chance?
First of all back off with the whole love thing - it'll scare the hell out of him. Second if you want to tell him how you feel then do it in a light - hearted way that isn't threatening or pressured in any way. Take things as they happen and don't read too much into things and assume good or bad. Be direct but don't pressure him - very off-putting. Good luck xGuys I need your advice please..do we have a chance?
not always true.people sometimes keep in contact to make other people feel happy.You should tell him your feelings and if he doesn't feel the same way be good friends and enjoy
aww hunni bun just ring him have a casual convosatian (excuse spelling) and maybe invite him over or plan to meet spend a day together and over it get him to confess a little about how he feels but don't push him into saying loads it or he'll probably want to run also don't go to strong on the whole love thing to him guys have a tendancy to feel awkward around that area. Trust me it's not as complicated as it seems just be confident that it'll be okay.good luck with him i hope he feels the same way and everything works out between you.
If he wasn't interested or just wanted it to be a one-time thing, he wouldn't have contacted you again. The guy's interested, so you might as well try and snag him. There's no need to blurt out your feelings just yet - ask him to go someplace simple with you, like out for coffee or to grab a burger or something like that. You're just overthinking it, and it's probably preventing you from having a lot of fun..

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