Hi. I'm wondering how to get guys to notice me. How do you flirt? Seriously! I need advice on what guys like.

Just to let everyone know, I'm a girl and I'm not that thin. I mean, that what guys seem attracted towards, but i don't have it. Nothing i do seems good enough for any guy.I don't think I've ever had a boy that has had a crush on me in my life. If anyone of you has scene Gilmore Girls, I am totally jealous of Rory. I have even tried being like her. Sweet, smart, kind to everyone, but nothing seems to work. From,


DownheartedHi. I'm wondering how to get guys to notice me. How do you flirt? Seriously! I need advice on what guys like.
Honey I know what you mean. I have never been the pretty one, but I worked out very early on that men also like girls with brains and ones that can hold an intelligent conversation. So I worked on that, I worked on my people skills and found that although men don't immediately notice me, after a while they will!! If you are a good listener, have a great sense of humour and are empathetic seriously you will get more men. I have NEVER ever had a problem with getting a boyfriend using those tactics.Hi. I'm wondering how to get guys to notice me. How do you flirt? Seriously! I need advice on what guys like.
Guys probably do notice you and there's probably someone that has got a crush on you right this minute,guys just don't like you to know because they're afraid about being rejected and they feel intimidated.You shouldn't have to change yourself just to get noticed. Just because you're not as thin as a rake doesn't mean that guys don't find you attracted. Only idiots go for looks rather than personality and even they soon realize that looks ain't everything. It's what's inside that counts, not your appearance.I think you should stop trying to impress everyone because you'll just wear yourself out. Don't try to be someone else because that's not who you are, you act more confident and comfortable if you be yourself. Don't worry about it too much, it'll all fall into place.





Good luck
maybe check your attitude and the company you keep.


check everything about you then!!
Stop looking at what other girls, especially fictional ones on TV, look like. You're not them and never will be. In 99% of the cases, if you knew what was really happening in their ';wonderful lives'; you would be glad that you were not them.





If you want to notice you then you better be someone worth noticing. How do you do that?





Develop some self-worth. Get to know who you are. Enjoy being single. What are your likes; what are your dislikes; what makes you laugh; cry; angry; jump for joy; come to really enjoy yourself and you will find that others will be attracted to you. Why? Because you have something that they wish they had. A happy life not dependent on someone else.





Does that make sense?
well you just need to give it time.maybe a guy does like you or has a crush on you but they're just too scared to tell you or they're just not ready for it.you cant rush it and ';try'; to make someone like you, you know??lol...just be yourself and dont try to be anything you're not because it always leads a bad situation..so be yourself and dont try to be that RORY girl off of gilrmore girls..besides that show sucked..(^_^)
Don't change who you are just to impress someone. Be you. You will find someone when you least expect it. Guys like someone who is outgoing, funny, smart and sexy yet witty at times.
all you can do is be ur self n if thats not good enough for the guy that u like then that a good reason why not to llike him but iam a very good flirt n ill giv u a couple things that you can do.





1.if you have the bangs that go to the side when u look at him cover up just alil bit of ur eye alot of guys find that sexy


2.wen he talks show that ur interested n even if u hav no clue what hews tlkin bout (sports, car, anything) just listen n do alil research n then go up to him the next day n star talkin to him bout it.


3. gentely touch him or rubb up against him.








theres a cuple things that you could do but none of them hav to do wit changin ur personality soo dont
If your FAT then don't do nothin! No body will notice you, but you'r weight! Sorrrrrry sooo mean!
Ah darling, dont try be someone else to get attention and if guys aren't ';digging'; on you why on earth would you want them.





You just need to be yourself, size and appearance doesn't matter there's someone out there for all of us and if you and flitting from trying to one person and then another chances are you haven't met anyone because they dont know who you really are.





You sound quite young so my other advise would be be patient don't be too eager to give yourself away to someone, just be yourself.
Well first of all Gilmore girls is a television show they are acting dear. Rory only acts like that on the set, you don't want to base who you are on someone that isn't real. Thats like saying why can't I be like Superman. But as for the question guys notice you more than you think the see you how you respond to things how you present yourself. You don't want to do anything to get a guy hun, just be yourself and once a guy does come up to you appreciate it don't go crazy about it and don't be afriad to talk to anyone and everyone.
we GIRLS dont FLIRT


how many times do I have 2 say that???????????????