okay i really like this guy at my church and i am pretty convinced that he likes me. i can catch him staring at me(in a good way) and last week we sorta stared in each others eyes and he was about to come talk to me but then i got scared and turned my head then me and my parents had to leave. u see i am not really a shy person like if i am with my friends i am fine and i dont get like that but at church i am all alone. i dont know how to start conversation or that kind of stuff. do u think he is into me?? plz i need good advice before this sunday. i am fun and outgoing and everyone loves to be with me but i dont know when i am alone i just cant. so dont think im boring cuz i am fun to be witHelp i need good dating advice???????? girls and guys help?
Babe, all you need is a little reminder! Of what, you may ask? A reminder that you are fun and outgoing.
My advice: When you are thinking about talking to someone, be it a guy or a girl, remember that you are fun and outgoing! That it would b a pleasure for them to know you. Don't get arrogant with it, but remember that you're someone that would make a great friend or even girlfriend. So just shrug off the shyness and go up to him. Just start off by asking him ';What's up?'; See how he's doing, and the whole time, keep thinking in your head, ';I'm so worth your time, you want to get to know me. I am someone you will grow to love to be around!'; Remember, don't get arrogant or conceited with it, but have fun!
Best Wishes!Help i need good dating advice???????? girls and guys help?
maybe u should pretend to bump into him and look into his eyes and smile and say sorry trust me it would work
I can be the same ways sometimes but i realized being scared and nervous to talk to someone who you think feels the same way about you as you feel about them doesn't solve anything. Just go up to him if he doesn't come up to you and and start a conversation by saying hi i'm (your name) your are you and let it go from there.
You should trust in God because he would want you to be happy just step to him and ask him what he likes or lay a joke. He probably does like you!
it sounds like he's interested at the very least...smile at him this week or maybe walk up and introduce yourself...let him know (by your actions) the head turn last week wasn't due to lack of interest or rudeness...
Good luck!
Just walk up and introduce yourself.Tell him that you thought you would come over and say hello.It's just a start but see where it leads.Also in church don't forget to shake hands .At most churches this can be a good excuse to introduce yourself.
is this gina? (sorry if it's not but i know someone who has the exact same problem)
yeah sweaty I'm sure that u r fun to be with ,,, but u need to be little brave .. the next Sunday when he look at u smile to him a little smile the look down as if u r shy ;)) that always works with the boys ,,, then ,,, later when he look at u keep looking back at him ,,, and don't turn ur head and forget that u r alone ,,, put this idea out of ur mind by thinking of anything else like how handsome he is or his eyes or any thing just to keep ur mind busy so u forget u r lonely ,,okay ,,,
and when he approach to u DON'T TALK FIRST cause u may mess things up ,,, let him start talking and u be cool and confident and funny as always ,, relax and have fun ;))
good luck sweaty ;))
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