I need serious advice from girl, guys , or anyone. but plz be serious?

Mt gf and I have broke up a little over a month ago. I have finally got ready to move on and have started moveing on in my life but now I am wanting to be with someone. Not sure if anyone knows what I mean but I am the kind of guy that likes to take care and love someone and i hate being alone. I am wanting to meet a nice girl that I can enjoy being with and have fun and just get to know each other as friends. Here is my problem though. I am extremly shy. How do I go about talking to people I dont know? I never know what to say or what to start a conversation about. Can anyone advise me on how to start up a conversation with someone you never met before? and how do you approach them?I need serious advice from girl, guys , or anyone. but plz be serious?
I know the feeling, im the sameI need serious advice from girl, guys , or anyone. but plz be serious?
well honestly i know how you feel because i am the same way. the way i talked to girls is just become really really good friends so the girl gets to know me more and i can go to her for anything. that way i am comfortable around her and i can tell her how i feel and mayb start a relationship.
first off, stop sitting around waiting for someone to come along. Work on your career, grow up, take care of that rooster yourself. Get a dog, learn responsibility. Take him for walks in the park and you'll meet lots of girls. Most love adorable puppies.
You might consider online dating if you are that shy. I met my husband while playing an online roleplaying game and we really got to know each other first before we ever met. It took the edge off actually meeting and we felt like we really knew the other person (I mean...knew the true person, not the person that we are to attract other individuals).





I don't know how great dating sites are as I've never used one...but you at least get to strike up your first conversation without having to do it in person. It really takes the stress out of meeting new people.





I'm not good at meeting people out in the real world as I'm also very shy. The computer has definitely been an amazing help in my life.
you already had a girlfriend so you know how this works. it will be easier than the first time because you are getting better at it so just do it
go to singlesnet.com there you can meet singles in ur area i did and now 2 mnths later i got a gf living with me and im shy too and dont know what to say but we got to talk online first
wait for them to talk to u
It's always hard, there is no getting around that. Walking right up to someone and striking up a conversation without sounds like a jerk who is just trying to use cheesy pick up lines is a learned technique. I have always gone for the guys who simply come up to me and act honestly, maybe say something like, ';I saw you from across the room and I couldn't help but notice that you're quite beautiful and you're alone, would you like some company?'; Something like that.





Also, you might want to try one of those online dating sites, that way you can actually get to know the person before you meet them in person, and then the shy factor really doesn't play a role in things.
First, say Hi, then, the weather. If you are at a dinner party or sth, talk about the food and the places that serve good food.





Or you can join sales networking or insurance agency. They train people to be more outgoing.