okay so i made alot of mistakes last year and i feel like i was such a pushover and let a certain ';friend'; say certain things to me and i said responces that were just to get her to shut up. i know i did this to avoid a fight. but looking back at those conversations, i don't want that anymore. but i also don't want to become a drama-starter. I need less dramatic life and im moving to a new school 3 months in the year..
advice on how to not become a pushover, but not a dramaqueen??Can you guys help me? need advice!?
Say what you believe at the moment but try to use tact. Confront a situation face to face, not behind someones back. Be true to who you are and what you believe and you will be fine. It is okay if you don't really have it all figured out yet, but more mature of you to admit that then to be one of the crowd.Can you guys help me? need advice!?
aw, hon, you should just be yourself. you should just ask your friends to help you out. like how do i change this because people in this internet don't know you so we might say the wrong things and that is just annoying and i have had a time like that so, baby, just stick with a friend that you can tell things to and they won't think your odd or anything. and i started many dramas and wow, there were many things that i got upset about. what i did was when a friend complained about something, and if you say something that might be bad just say things like, ';aw, it's okay.'; and if you are angry at a friend and you want to let it out, you should just tell a close friend that is trusting and doesn't get into fights.
make desisions n stick with them but dont make more out of something than it needs 2 be, nothing u really will come across with will really be a huge problem so just dont be dramatic about it. n fight 4 what u believe in, sometimes this gets me in trouble but i think every1 has a right 2 their own opinion
You have to learn how to pick your battles. Be a lady at all times. If you can't say something nice to or about someone say NOTHING AT ALL. If someone else acts ugly, let them. You will shine by comparison by refusing to act as badly. Always smile and be pleasant, keep yourself clean and tidy, and learn that it's better to be thought quiet than known as a loudmouth. There's a reason you have twice as many ears as mouths, right?
The people in the new school won't know of your past. Don't change that, just go forward and be a better person from now on.
just be yourself dur
just tell them to back off and dont talk about them to all ur other friends cuz thats whats going to make u a drama queen. if they dont ignore them they will never stop. If they never act like a friend in the first place then your not really losing a friend after all.
Find friends that are not going to put you in that situation.
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