I really need advice on a guy problem......HELP!!! (guys/girls)?

This guy who likes me is really sweet. He so nice adn so shy and he really really likes me. And it's like what's there not to like about this guy, but that's just it; I don't know. He thinks I really feel the same way about him that he does for me when really I'm fighting this internal battle of weather I do or not. See, when I first met him, I was still trying to get over this guy I'd had a crush on for a year...so when my friend told me he liked me, i guess I was just so thrilled up in the fact that someone actually had a crush on me ya know? And I started paying more attention to him and we started talking a bit more but still, I didn't feel the same way I felt for my crush. And now like 6 months later, I just don't know how to tell him. I don't want to hurt his feelings bcuz that would make me so sad as well. I'd be his first gf and he's so sweet and everything..I don't know why I don't like him.....what's wrong with me? I know girls today that would kill for sumone like him.....I really need advice on a guy problem......HELP!!! (guys/girls)?
First, there is nothing wrong with you - you are a sensitive person that is feeling somewhat guilty about having to unintentionally hurt another person's feelings. You were in a situation where you were still hurting about getting over the other guy. It's human nature to want to feel good again. You identified it correctly, when you said that your were ';thrilled up...'; when this second guy showed interest in you. You were mixed up emotionally and probably decided to give it a try - bravo to you. It seems that after awhile, it doesn't look like this second guy is just not your cup of tea - but relax, he will be someone else's. You shouldn't waste anymore of yours or his time - be gentle and calm and break the news to him. Perhaps he'll remain a close friend. Life is too short to waste it on someone (albeit nice) that doesn't truly and deeply interest you.





Once again, don't think there is anything wrong with you, he is just not the guy. Move on - don't waste time (yours or his).





Good LuckI really need advice on a guy problem......HELP!!! (guys/girls)?
just remean friends for now.tell him the truth and how you feel.don`t play him any more.if he is really nice he will understand.good luck!
Something is wrong with you. You are leaded on by a crush if your crush never showed any interest in you why are you still waiting around on him? You have someone who is interested in you why would you want to mess that up it sounds likes this guy really likes you. I don't know whats wrong with girls these days they would rather have someone treat them like a dog than someone treat them like they should be treated.
Would you like it if someone lead you on and toyed with your emotions? Tell the man you don't want him and leave him alone. If he's all that you say he is, then the problem is YOU! You are probably too young to start a relationship that has any meaning to it. Send the guy on his way so that he can find a more suitable candidate who is appreciative of his good qualities. Sit around and wait for the attention of a CRUSH, that really does not care if you breathe or fall off the face of the earth.





Don't waste his time. Let him go to someone who will give him the respect, time and attention that he so deserves.





Treat him the way you want to be treated!
welltry to set him up with another one of your friends and mabey he'll like one of them more
U dont like him becuz hes soft.girls never like guys that are soft.the guy u had a crush on prolly iz/wuz a jock or sum guy that all da gurls like.i wuld just tell him da truth.hell get over it.if u no gurls dat wuld kill 4 sum1 like him,den set him up wit 1 of dem
be honest w/ him, that's all you can do. you don't like him because you aren't meant to be with him, or it just isnt' your time. my wife and i were friends for years and she didn't like me romantically at all for the first few, but one day it just clicked. she said she just wasn't ready for real love before and when we got together, she knew it'd be the real thing, so she waited til she could get serious about someone!
tell him..


if he really likes you, he will understand,


just don't do it again to somebody else.. ok
You have to be honest with him, no matter how much it may hurt both of you. Be truthful when you let him down, but say that you think hes special and any girl would want him. Try to stay friends with him.