Advice from girls and the GUYS - please help me, i really want a bf:/?

do i need to lose weight in order to get one?





like i plan on doing it but i want a bf so bad i want one now





i'm 16 and have never even kissed before!





5'11





220 lbs





i know that those are whale measurements, but i'm working on it!





no guys like me:/ what can i do?





like if you see a chubby girl thats dressed well would you still consider being with her?Advice from girls and the GUYS - please help me, i really want a bf:/?
Well if you think losing the weight will help you and also aid your self confidence then go for it.Yet some guys do PREFER bigger girls. Its nice when girls are quite confident (not OVERconfident tho) and talkative yet at the same time take the time to listen to you and show an interest in what you have to say. Cleanliness is also a big thing plus a little makeup but not too much of it. Just be nice to the guys you like, talk to them and subtly let them know your interested, then see if he responds positively. It would be up to you then whether to wait for him to ask you out, or you ask him??Advice from girls and the GUYS - please help me, i really want a bf:/?
Boyfriends are not to be found or sought after. You don't go around trying ';look'; for a bf, they just sort of appear in your life.





Try not to be so desperate and say that you ';need'; one badly.





Guys don't like girls all up in their face and flirting all the time. You'll just be categorized as one of those ';easy to get'; chicks.





Don't stress over it, I mean I am 17 and I have never had a boyfriend before. (Im not ugly or obese or anything)





And 16 is still considered to be young, so don't worry. Not to be cliche but it might not be the right time yet.
woah.. well you're tall!! :D


and OF COURSE! don't give up hope..i know bunches of guys that like their girls thick. it's great that you want to shed those pounds but do it because it makes YOUU happy:) be confident, but not OVER confident. keep yourself well, and carry yourself well too. good luck and you're not a whalee don't worry(:
this may sounds un-true, but you WILL somday find some one who likes you no matter what. as for now, if you feel losing weight will help you gain confidence, go for it :)