Advice please? From guys too please?

I had been going out with this guy for a year then he cheated on me and left me for that person.





So now, a few months later, he's telling me he wants me and has left her to be with me and that he has ';changed';.





What should I do?





And why would he cheat on me?Advice please? From guys too please?
I just got out of a relationship where I dumped the guy for cheating. He just wants to get you back for sex and he is just using words to convince you that he is not a bad guy anymore. He'll say what he wants so that you will go his way. Once a person cheats, there is high chance they will do it again in the following relationships he/she has. To answer why would he cheated on you, its about his selfishness. If there was a problem in the relationship, he didn't have the nerve to tell you what it was. Also, he may not have loved you as much as you thought. Some people are just not happy with one person, and want to have the best of both worlds. But really it is not your fault he cheated, and that you deserve better.


You should not trust him, and don't take him back. As hard as it is, you may still have feelings for him but it didn't work and usually won't for a second. There are better guys out there, and be distant with him. Better that you don't be in contact with him, and just spend time with good friends. Words mean nothing if the actions do not match what a person says.Advice please? From guys too please?
You tell him to go to heck, and ignore his calls.





He cheated because he thought he'd be able to get away with it. If you take him back, it just proves him right.
no dont go out with him. he doesnt sound like a trustful person
dont do it. most of the time (not 100% though) people ike that dont change. maybe you should be friends first then see if you really still have feelings for him, but he cant just do that and get away with you know what i mean? he hurt you then he just expects you to take him back like that? HELL NO! haha this is making me mad that guys just think thats okay. so honey either move on or be friends with him and see if he really has changed. thats my advice for you. good luck babe :)
he didnt change that much, he left the new girl 4 u , so what about him changed?