Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Honest good advice especially from guys does this guy still like me????

I dated a guy for a couple of weeks and he seemed to really like me he was e bit possessive and i was under alot of stress at work but really liked him...i moved to another job but the pressure go to much and i became depressed a got quie angry at things but told him it was the wrong time for me to meet a guy...he kept on asking when ever i went if there was any other men there he had been recently dumped and heart broken...i am now settled in a new job and really happy i want to start again but he says hes not interested how do i get him back or get him to accept my phone calls he said he thought i was a bit wierd but i was just under alot of pressure and not sure how to deal with it i really want him so much...how i get him back and keep my self respect or at least get him to understand...i have a feeling things may go somewhere if he did...i have also just come out of a vioent realtionship which took my confidence with men away from me although he was the first guy in 3 years i likeHonest good advice especially from guys does this guy still like me????
Tell him the truth everything you just told us. If he cares, he'll give you another chance. If not move on you are to good for him.Honest good advice especially from guys does this guy still like me????
That's a tough question to ask an anonymous audience on the internet, as most of us I'm sure don't know him.





But from purely story credentials, if he was too possesive (I had that problem too in my first relationship, I couldn't help it, but it is possible to overcome), and now he is aparantly playing games with you, I would advise just to move on.





But if you are intent, then I digress, just come to him and talk to him, just you two, like human beings, explain to him clearly and with dignity how you feel, and his response will be the true answer to your question.





Violent relationships can be tough, but most people are not violent towards thier better half's and find other media output's to thier violent feelings.





Good luck, I hope everything works well in your favor.
If you have just gotten out of a rough relationship you may want to take a time out so you can refind yourself. If you feel you're ready then go with it.





If this guy isn't accepting your calls then that is a sign. You must back off and not be the annoying type. If he wants to talk then he will return your call. He too has just gotten out of a relationship so he may need time as well.
Move on child your ship as sailed
i am not a guy but i can tell u that he apparently is not mature enough to handle the situation
Leave the guy alone...he tried and you shot him down. Find some other chump to mess with.
usually ';not interested'; means he has had enought of your sh** and doesn't want to get involved or he has found someone else to date. He may call you again but don't hold your breath.
It sounds like you like the guy so forget about your ';self-respect'; and give him a call. Although many will not admit it, men like it when they receive flowers.


Good Luck
leave him alone and get yourself together. you are a little unstable right now. he probably already knows that.
So he wanted to be with you and you told him no.


Now that he doesn't you want to be with him.


So basically, you want things your way when you want them regardless of how anyone else feels.


Ya, hope he runs far and fast.
It seems you are anxious enough. Take a break dear. Leave the things as it is for aweek and divert yourself in work. Non action is better than wrong action.
grow up girl!
if he doesnt except ur phone call then write him a letter %26amp; dont leave a return address so he wont kno who wrote him till he finishes the letter %26amp; reads the name at the bottom
Oh dear...sounds like u blew it.....get back out there and start again....let him go find a new one

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