I been having sex with this guy for over two months and its getting boring. There are things i would like for him to try but i don't know the way to tell him, i would like for him to be more loving and be more touching. He usually just kisses me once or twice and does his thing and thats it. Also how do i go along telling him i would like for him to do oral sex on me?? i dont' know if he would be open to that even thought i been doing it for him since we started. thanks guysGuys i need your advice!!?
Hope i am able to help. Is quite a norm for couple to find sex boring after some time.. I was in such a situation too some time back, and oh my.. it got so bad that many a times i wanted to cheat on him. =X
Things started getting better after having an open conversation with him to spice our sex life up alittle..
Remember those early days of teasing/many foreplay/seduction/winks across room/ playing with his legs under table prior to sex and you begin to realise that you don't do it as often as you are now after some time? Try back these acts again!! They are MUST-HAVE techniques to reconcile sex life like the good old times leaving you both breathless and aroused and so ready for more sex .. You can encourage him by moaning sexily and demand where you want him to touch.. Say things like ';darling.. I like it when you do it this way'; with a kinky look and he will go absolutely wild and to try all ways to satisfy you.
Suggest some bedroom games that allow the winner to share his/her secret fantasy and the other party will have to make an extra effort to satisfy the other party craves/desires!! Sharing secret fantasy helps.. My man made extra effort to satisfy my craves each time we play it.
Try some outdoor sex/quickie too.. At the cinema, in the park, in public toilets, while driving, in changing rooms and more. Leave him unexpected about what you have in mind, then request for one on the spot.. (Or simply grab his hands and put it under your undies) Is thrilling when it is unplanned for, and you can see his expression in awe!
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I hope the above helps! =)Guys i need your advice!!?
Honey i can tell u what works for me, if im doing him then , you can bet ur *** he's gonna do me, while yall are makin out dirty talk him a bit, tell him you want him to taste how sweet u are and if he dont he's gonna get punished , @ this point take one of ur feet and grab the head of his penis with it , push down til u got a good grip then squeeze! The intesnse feelin will take him by surprise , begin guidin his head down south and i promise he will wanna taste you every time you are together! Had to be real with ya ma cause when it comes to getting what I want i do me, i guess u can say im kind of a bully *devilish grin*
Ask him!
If you're giving but not getting, either he's selfish or just doesn't know his way around your body. If he wants to learn, great - guys aren't born knowing what girls like. If not, you probably need to trade this one in.
You might try getting him a book like ';She Comes First.'; If necessary, bookmark a few useful pages. As long as you're at it, get a how-to for women trying to figure men out, and ask him to bookmark a few pages for you.
When he stops kissing you, keep on yourself. If you want him to go down on you, push his shoulders down...and down, and down until he gets the idea. Hold his head and direct him. Don't let him up until he pleasures YOU completely.
Or do like my first girlfriend did (1962). She had read a sex book called Candy and read about a guy going down on a girl. She said, ';I want to know something. Will you eat me?'; Well, I was hooked! I was 15, she was 14. I ALWAYS pleasured her before myself. That's been my code ever since. HER FIRST.
That young inexperienced boy of yours doesn't know squat! Sexual bliss is a two way street and to thoroughly pleasure a woman is what he needs to learn or be taught.
I really feel sorry for you. If necessary go on the net to borders.com and order a book concerning sexual pleasuring a woman.
If he won't take the hint tell him you'll let him watch while someone teaches him!
Grab him around the neck and keep kissing him. Then tell him how much you like how he kisses. Most guys will get that hint. For oral sex, either ask him to please go down on you or gently try to nudge his head down to where you want.
I think it depends on how open your relationship is. If you guys are close, then it should be no problem talking to him about it. For all you know, he could be thinking the same things. Something tells me he won't mind trying new things though.
This just sounds so sad to me. How old are you? Do you realize how much power and control you have over guys? And you just throw it away. Your post just screams ';low self esteem'; to me. Anyway, cut him off - no more BJ's for him until he reciprocates.
just have rough sex were ur forcing him to do stuff and make him do it then. or just talk to him about it. u have to be open with him if u want him to be open with u
First time its a turn off for the novics because of the smell.
So take a shower and ask him to look between the legs.
Either you train him of ask for professional help
Just say like
';hey baby. you know what i want to try? ________';
if he says no, you could always just b not so affectionate towards him until he gets the message.
He sounds like something of an oaf. American lovers are pretty dreadful. You need a European. Or even a Canadian. Your guy sounds like he'd be just as happy with a playboy and his hand!
if he wont do wat u want go F*** someone else
Caleb hit the nail on the head, just do what he said.
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