Need advice from both guys and girls?

Hello everyone,





I'm 16 and have had a girlfriend until around 8 months ago, where I had to move to another town temporarily. We decided it would be best to break up.





When I moved back, she had a new boyfriend who currently does not take any interest in what she does. I feel like he's taking her for granted, and using her as some sort of status symbol. (She stayed up until 3:30AM helping him type up a project report around a week ago.)





Last time I visited her place with my friends, she hugged me; I was rather taken aback. When I didn't hug her, she said, ';fine, don't hug me back you bastard.'; (In a joking voice, of course.) So I ended up hugging her. We also IM each other almost everyday (sometimes I start it, sometimes she does.) Actually, just yesterday, she was telling me about how her current boyfriend was trying to make her feel guilty about changing bits of her personality for him. Her bf claims that their relationship is getting closer, whereby she thinks that they are drifting apart.





Could this mean that she still likes me? Or do friends normally do this?





She also told one of my friends that she's ';afraid to like'; me, due the the fact I may move away again.





I'm completely confused by this whole situation.





I still like her, but have no clue what to do.





Here's a bit of an IM conversation we had earlier:





Ex: wanna know something?


Me: um.. sure


Ex: yeah.. i still got a thing for you...


Ex: how does that make you feel?


Me: the feeling is kind of indescribable really


Me: how about you?


Ex: well are you smiling?


Me: of course I am


Ex: i'm just glad that i can make you smile.





Aaand yeah, I'm not going to disclose everything.





But yeah, I need to know what to do with this..Need advice from both guys and girls?
I think she's on this guy for comfort reasons. He has control issues and she kinda lets him control her. I think she needs you...but if you're not there then I think you should let it go. You can't save her from everything. Although I'm sure you'd like to. Life goes on. Move on and focus on your new life. I think you guys are trying to make something that can't be if you're apart. If you moved back then that might be a different story...Need advice from both guys and girls?
She pretty much answered the question for you when she said... ';i still got a thing for you';. You shouldn't make her cheat on her boyfriend tho. Be a friend and give her some space. If it's meant to be it's meant to be.
it does sound like she deff has feelings for you still! i say wait it out and see if you do move again, if not , go for it !
first of all are you going to move again? If you're not, and you still like her then tell her how you feel.
now remember im a guy and we use 10 % of our brains and girls use 20% of a diferent part of there brain so i may be wrong but i think she still likes u
Yes sounds like she still likes you. (male)
i reckon she still likes you. tell her how you really feel


good luck!
she loves u dude
plain and simple, their relationship is not working if there is any doubt from either side. Make her realize he doen't deserve her and and tell her ';he should be right here with you doing this';, and then kiss her (something spontanious would definitely make her think:) )
I am going to give you some commen scenes in which you already know. You both clearly still like each other. It's not fair to either of your significant others to be talking to each other in this manner. It's not a healthy kind of friendship you two have, so either end it, or get back together.
She likes you. If you still like her then have her dump the bf and get back together with her. Or you can stand up to her new boyfriend and tell him that she's someone precious and that she should be treated as such.





I have to say though, for a 16 year old boy you sound very sweet.
Just tell her you feel the same way. come out with it tell her you dont think her boyfriend treats her the way she deserves. Unless you have plans of moving away again let her know that you plan on staying. Just know that being 16 high school will be over soon and you will be going to college.