** NEED ADVICE FROM THE GUYS!!! PLEASE!!! ***?

First off I know it's long..but no one would understand if I didn't explain so please be patient =/..thanks.





Last year I was seeing this guy (we have known eachother for about 3 years) but were seeing/dating or hooking up ..I have no clue what we were but it was just complicated. When he came back from Iraq he decided to go out with his cousins best friend (whom he was previously interested in) and told me that he just had slightly more feelings for her and yadda yadda..just too much stuff I don't need to get into. lol Then after a year we start to talk again.. recently..just catching up on life..and he basically broke my heart the first time (i fall hard) but he made it out to seem he was interested and we ';hooked up'; alot, point is I was naieve and stupid.





Well recently we started to talk almost every night and he kept telling me how much he wanted to see me and that I was a great person and he made a mistake..well one night he tells me that him and his ';now ex'; broke up because she is currently in another country and wants to enlist for another 3 years and they just want different things. I am definitley keeping a BIG guard up with him. We decided to meet and we chilled at his place and we got intimate (I didn't want it to happen but it did) ..he was drunk and he was pretty overwhelming with telling me almost ALL night how interested he was in me and how glad he was that I came to spend time with him blah blah blah.





We went to the rooftop of his place and he ended up holding my hand and I was like why are you interested NOW?? He was just like your sincere and caring. We went to dinner and a movie this past weekend and had a good time, but it's like he's holding back. I noticed his myspace (as petty as it is) still has him and his ex as the main picture (we aren't myspace friends and his is private) and it just seems odd to me. I asked him wtf is going on, I'm not understanding he basically said he was interested (although we aren't an ';item'; I still think I have the right to know. He said he was interested, but didn't know what he wanted right now.





I told him I'm not having anymore intimacy with him, no more, and he will respond to my text messages, but won't initiate conversation.





The other night I texted him and asked him if him and his ex were still going out and he kept asking me why. I said look it's not a big deal I just wanted to know. He finally said no..we aren't dating anymore but you knew that.





Then last night I told him I knew he would stop talking to me (just to prove a point)..and he said why..I said because I said I wouldn't ';do anything'; with you and I asked you about your ex.. and he was like I stopped talking to you because you didn't answer me on why you asked me about my ex and I told you I did I didn't want to have intimacy either, obviously you don't trust me so don't waste my time. And asked me what was the point in him trying if I didn't trust him. (waste his time haha unbelievable)! I asked him what his problem was and he said just annoyed I was like why? your that annoyed by me because of that question? he said I dont know. Then later that night he texted me out of the blue after I told him I would let him be and he said... the reason I still have me and my ex up on myspace is because I love her still and am in no hurry to remove her from my life, the only reason we broke up is because we wanted different things for our future. I was like well alright then lol. I have no idea what to do about this, should I talk to him about why he was so interested and now just not really talking to me after I asked about his ex or just let it go and not talk to him at all and see what he does?





SORRY SO LONG!** NEED ADVICE FROM THE GUYS!!! PLEASE!!! ***?
Sounds like he really wants the other chick, but needs a ';rebound'; _now_. Unless you are into friends with benefits, it's probably better to drop him until he is over the other chick...** NEED ADVICE FROM THE GUYS!!! PLEASE!!! ***?
I really have no input considering I'm never taking the time to read that.
sorry but lmao at the first comment lol !
Well from my point of view if I were you I would go out with some1 else. He's some stupid person and there is tons of people out there. But he's some1 who you should just stop talking to because if you're having a hard time trying to communicate there is no reason to continue.