Story is, me and my guy friend had been flirting a bit and recently, we kissed. We hadnt known each other very well as we live in different cities. Thing is, he's taking it very casually, we havnt discussed our feelings but he contacted me again after a few days of 'awkwardness'.I'm in love with him but I dont know how much he feels. We talked vaguely of a visit...maybe in distant future. He's a non controntational type of guy and I know that if he doesnt feel the same way, he would never want to hurt me. So it makes things really difficult to me. I dont even have the never to email my feelings.
I've heard it said that if a guy keeps in contact after there's something physical with a girl, it means he's interested in her? Is this true? What can I do?Guys I need your advice please..friends or lovers..do we have a chance?
me and my man are engaged to be married we started out as friendsGuys I need your advice please..friends or lovers..do we have a chance?
Basically all you had was a kiss, you cant read too much into it. All you should do is wait for this person to keep meeting you or theres going to be you waiting for someone you will never know feels the same. If you rush it, then you might regret spoiling it. Basically you say different cities, its not always the best idea living so far away from a guy but if you both put effort into meeting up then it could lead to something. its best for you to discuss it to him say you fancied him for ages and have been too scared to say so before. basically give him the option to say if he likes you too. good luck.
Practically speaking i think he is just flirting with you
Because if he had some love towards you he might have proposed you before that kiss
I have been in the same situation as you, fell for one of my friends, got a little physical, he stayed in touch afterwards but only on a friendly basis, he knows how I felt about him but he still kept it friendly. We are still friends now but it is difficult to deal with especially when they don't have the same feelings for you as you have for them.
There's not much you can do about it except wait and see what happens, he may just be taking things slowly not wanting to rush into anything more.
offcourse if he is satisfyed .wel this is not compulsory dat he loves u but may be attracted .i think u hav 2 talk 2 him directly if u want a long run relation .kkkkk
guy friend, i am not trying to hurt ur feelings but tell it as it is,u should start hav feelings for a female not male, why this beco ure can not fall in love with a man, this is not right by standard, u can make love to a woman in the right sense of it a man it is physical difficult to make a hole in the right way as a woman, compare a man and woman. the creator will not like this, i no that he will be felling for somebody els, look for a lady for urself
i had a lovely male friend for 5 years
well now we have a lovely 13 year old son we been happy now for 15 years
just go for it
Ermmmm if a guy keeps in contact after there is something physical it means his interested??? not really - it may mean that but how many people do you know that become physical with people and it never develops into a relationship- try to establish before this friendship becomes physical is he looking for a relationship or a bit of fun- then you will know where you stand - hope he feels the way you do !!!!
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