Relationship advice? Please help.. guys and girls..?

I dated my ex for 3 1/2 years. We are both 21 years old. I've been through a lot with him and waited for him when he did not want to be with me. He went back to his ex girlfriend for about three months a year ago and she actually moved in with them and then he came back to me and I took him back. I'm in school and he's not really doing anything with himself. He's living with his sister and her girlfriend who are bad influences and aren't really trying to better themselves in any way. I don't like his sister and her girlfriend and they feel the same about me. Well, we continued to have problems and in January, after we were supposedly fixing our problems, I went home that day after new years, and I continued to try to call him, text his sister even to get a hold of him, and he ignored me and did not even try to get a hold of me for four months and I know I would have waited even longer for him to come back and out of nowhere last week he called me asking me if I wanted to just be friends. I told him yes. So he calls me at least once a day now.. hinting towards me going to see him. Everytime I try to bring up our relationship we had, or why he ignored me for four months, he tells me he doesn't want to talk about it and avoids everything. Does he want to get back together? Would it be desperate of me to go see him? Would me going make him think he can do this to me whenever? What if he tried to sleep wtih me?Relationship advice? Please help.. guys and girls..?
You've let him get by with treating you like crap for a long time. He figures that's all you expect. He wants to ';be friends'; and now he wants you to come see him? Sounds like you're a booty call.





Dump him yesterday, change your phone number and get on with your life.





You've wasted WAY to much time on this looser.





((hugs)) and Good LuckRelationship advice? Please help.. guys and girls..?
No he does not want to get back together with you. If he did, he would have talked to you about it. The fact he ignores everything is a clear indicator that ';the relationship'; isn't on his mind and doesn't exist.





Yes it would be desperate to go see him. You just said he ignored you for 4 months and what, now that he's bored he wants you? Sounds like a real catch.





If you were to go, he would know that no matter he does to you, he could still have you and thats not a good thing.





It sounds to me that all he wants to do from you is to sleep with you. He doesn't want a relationship, I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to get married and it sure sounds like he has only himself in mind. Why would you want to be with that? I don't know you but I know whoever you are, you can do better.