Sunday, August 22, 2010

MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?

I have a really bad temper and it seems like it gets worse and worse every time I get angry. I never get mad though. I'm always laid back and very chill. It would take a lot to really piss me off. Friends have told me I don't even look like the same person anymore when I get mad and that I look dangerous and violent. I don't know what to do. This has effected relationships in my life and I don't want it to mess something up for me in the future.








I have completely broken a door off the hinges and still to this day am not sure how I did it. I've thrown a chair up against the wall and left a mark that looks like someone took an axe to the wall. All kind of cuss words and insults come flying out of my mouth. I can feel the veins popping out of my head and neck. I even have a sister who doesn't talk to me because to make a long story short we got into an argument and I busted her lip. She had to get stitches and four years later she still has a scar on her mouth. I feel terribly guilty about that. I do weight lifting for track and I'm getting really strong which doesn't help the situation. I punch punching bags to let out my anger and one of my guy friends (I went with him to the gym) was telling me I hit really hard and fast. I'm worried what I might do to someone if I ever fought them. I KNOW FOR A FACT I would NEVER kill anyone, but honestly I think I could really mess someone up. I don't know what to do.





Would this turn you off of a girl you liked?


What would you do if your girlfriend was like this? How would you handle it?


keep in mind I don't usually ever get mad.MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
Yeah that would scare the s**t out of me especially since it sounds like you could easily kick my ***.MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
Big time turnoff i hate girls like that i put up with enough bull **** at work i don't want to come home to some disrespectful rude *****. And i have alot of rage i might just murder you if you say the wrong things.
Try Yoga,Eat less,Meditate!





I dont think your temper should be a problem, cause if a guy loves you, you will tend to alliviate your anger problem.
I've always had a slight anger problem, and got in lots of fights with my ex boyfriends that either really hurt them mentally because I said some hurtful things, or in several cases got violent. (I pushed him into the wall pretty hard..) It left our relationship in pieces at some points and even though I've made up with him since then I don't think my relationship can ever be as good as it was before that happened.





Toughness can turn some guys on, but they don't like it when we're violent or excessively rude and angry. All in all it's a real turn off and it usually makes guys run the other way. I've had to learn this the hard way.


Anyway, it's best to tell him that you've got some temper issues beforehand and he probably won't mind, just be sure to have the temper under control during fights and arguments or you could end up really regretting it.
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