Guys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?

It was me who ended things w/ my ex bf...completely regret it now. I said sorry over and over again....he said when ur in a serious relationship and something like this happens..u cant jump right back into to it..it need a little time....he said he needs time to think. I am completely in love with this guy...i dont want to call and be annoying to him after he said he needs time to think...i wrote a nice long email to him but havent sent it to him yet....how long should i wait to send it? when a guy says something like that is it usually good or bad?Guys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?
when he says something like that maybe thats what he needs...just let him thinkGuys...i need ur advice...what do u think of this?
good advice, give him time. Also, never send a long e-mail until at least 1-2 days after you write it. Save it to ';draft'; and look at it sunday night.





If you want to send him a gift, send pizza.
1. LOOK PEOPLE, SHE'S ASKING FOR ADVICE, EVEN IF IT'S IN THIS SECTION, YOU STILL ANSWERED IT. SO SHUTTUP.


2. Sorry to say, (don't jump to conclusion) but saying sorry doesn't always help, especially with apologizing for doing something to end an serious relationship. I'm not exactly sure what happened anyway, email me if you want to tell and have advice, of course i don't want to be nosy, but i want to help. Your best now, is just to send the email, and more, and pray deeply for him to come through and give you a chance. And when a guy says something like that, we can't tell if it's a bad thing, there is no percentage to tell if it's good or bad. Try your best to think positive, and write him about how you feel, and the good times in your relationship, and how much you care for him/how much you're sorry and you want to be forgiven.
A) this isn't a health question


B) You need to wait until he's ready to speak to you. Then you need to have a two-sided conversation, not a one-sided one that an e-mail is. You need to give him time because he's been hurt, and he knows that entering into the relationship with you again means he may get hurt just as badly all over again.
I think he has feelings for someone else and is just waiting for it to happen naturally. Your out of the picture now by your choice and now you have given him the opportunity to start a new relationship.
How is this ';Men's Health';, exactly?





You could do 2 things








1. Desperately try to get him, and not get him





or





2. Be patient, and get him








Pick one.
Sounds like he is just really hurt right now %26amp; he doesn't want to talk to you because it's too hard for him. (Not trying to make you feel bad) Give him time %26amp; space. I would let him come to you when he's ready. Back off just a bit %26amp; see what happens.
go in the fckin singles section...
sorry to say this but thats usually bad


that usually means that he doesnt want to go back out with u but he still wants to be ur friend. i guess u can send him that e-mail and see what happens


sorry


i hope things work out for u :)
if it hasn't been too long (i mean just a few days or so, since you broke it off) give him a few more days.





why not consider sending him something - like flowers, or candy, etc. to him - you can have it delivered with a card expressing how you feel. this would be a lot nicer than an email, and you can have the flower shop deliver it for you.....





believe me, this works for guys all the time -- ha,ha...
This happened to me...I mean my girl dumped me and then regreted it and wanted me back!


I said the same things as your ex....It depends on why you dumped him and how it was ended....I was a little worried that it would happen again....But i took the chance and we are fine....In 4 years we have broken up 3 times....3rd time lucky hey?.........Let him know you made a mistake and your willing to prove it to him...Let him know it wont happen again to reassure him,we like that...Ask him what he needs to think about and if he really deep down does love you....And then if he still needs time...let him have it.
Don't send the email! Wait him out, if he wants you he will come around but sending an email is a sign of weakness, and desperation!