help!!!!!!!!!!!!please really want some advice?
I am 17 and was kinda seeing this guy who is 24 for a while he used to stay at mine and i used to stay at his we haven't had sex because I am a virgin and don't believe in sex before marriage!He isn't!He always used to ask me 2have sex but I wouldn't.We used to see each other at least twice a week and this went on for about a year on and off.Now i never see him and every time i text him he gets really Moody with me sometimes and other times hes nice 2me!I really like him and cant stop thinking about him I don't think he feels the same though what should i do???xAny advice please from guys and girls?!:)?
good for you saying no, im sorry but this guy sounds hes bored of you and was only interested in you for sexAny advice please from guys and girls?!:)?
To be honest, it sounds like he鈥檚 just in it for the sex. You obviously just want a companion, someone to love who will love you back. I am a single guy, and I feel the same way. I鈥檓 looking for a girl but I鈥檓 not ready for sex yet. If you aren鈥檛 ready for sex, then good for you for turning him down. If he loved you enough, he would put up with waiting for sex and stop trying to pressurise you into doing it.
I think that in a way, he is using you and you should get rid of him. It would be better for you to get a boyfriend your own age, who will love you and respect your decisions, preferably a boy who feels the same way about sex before marriage as you do, (and trust me, there are nice guys out there, take me for example!)
You may really love him, but if you ditch him and find somebody better suited to you, who loves and respects you and doesn鈥檛 try to pressurise or change you, you will be much happier and a lot more fulfilled in the long term.
I really hope this advice helps; after all, this is the longest answer I have ever written!
Good luck!
Chris.
sounds like he just wants the sex now i am in ways in the same boat as you can you help me???
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i am a nice guy:) lol
sounds like he is doing this to pressure you into the sack but dont give in untill you are ready and if he still wants to be with you after that then alls the better if not get rid
It sounds like he's only in it for the sex sweetheart! Good on you for saying no for this long, but i think it would be better for you to find someone your own age, who maybe isn't looking for sex before marriage either? You just want the companionship, not guys like this pressuring you into something you don't want! There are much, much nicer and more understanding guys out there, i guarantee you. :)
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