I am currently in a relationship with a much younger man. 20 years younger. any advice from both guys and girl

what should i expect from this relationship. and for the guys, do you think this guy really loves me or is he just having fun? i'm 38 he's 19! i need all the answers i can get. help!I am currently in a relationship with a much younger man. 20 years younger. any advice from both guys and girl
It wont lastI am currently in a relationship with a much younger man. 20 years younger. any advice from both guys and girl
tell him';even if u are my jr. i love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu'; follow ur heart. if hes like';i like u,lady'; u r the luckiest, if hes ';yikes!!'; then oops!!!
Can he call you mama?
damn go him! im 25, and i love older women. but at 19, i wouldnt be whole hearted about your relationship. next year he might change his mind when he see's his buddies 22 year old sister is home from college, summer break. then what...
The gap ages between you and him is too far....he`s just 19, so maybe he loves you, but that`s only temporary love, not a kind of true love...just in puberity period. You cannot expect for long term realationship.


When he meet later a girl in the same ages. he will turn to her, coz his mind however still as a teenagers, hasn`t matured yet.


My advice if you just wanna have some fun , yess you can keep it.


But if you wanna be more serious and pursuing long-term relationship, better to stop it, He`s not your`s, do it before too late.


Before your feeling for him goin` too deep and everything will be out of your control anymore. This one have no direction at all if I can say the truth.


It`s hurt, yess, but I do believe you could overcome it. Maybe you`ll hurt him too, but it`s ok, he`ll healed in short time, it`s a kind of an experience in a journey to maturity
this is for purely temporary relationship.........don't expect any good answers from anybody.....
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well it depends on how much u like this guy and how mature he is compared to u since u have had much more experience in life than he has. How sure do u feel abt him? Do u want to settle down and soon have a family? If it comes down to that.... u'd have to really ask urself- ';do i really love this guy?'; If u do- '; can he really commit to my needs?'; ';is it really fair to lock him down to start a family when he hasn't even seen the world or travelled much?'; Only u would know the answers to these questions and i'm sure u would have plenty more u need the answers to.





Maybe u should watch the movie 'Prime' with Uma Thurman and Meryl Streep. It sounds alot like the scenario ur in.
Babe, shut down the computer and go get your freak on.
i was 23, she 48. i learned how to please a woman so it was great for both of us. she had something wrong and ended up in hospital. i went to see her. she was on heart monitor. she grabbed my zipper and wanted sex in hospital bed. i do have scruples and i said no. she said she would find another. i didn't see her again.
i'm 8 yrs older than my husband. it can turn out ok. you both need to sit down and talk about things honestly. what do both of you want out of this relationship? what do you expect from each other? where do you see this relationship 10, 15, 20 yrs down the road? if you can't have an honest and open talk about where you're both headed, then it probably isn't going to be a lasting thing.
alittle from both guess you will have to test him huh
I have a good friend who was in your situation. She was 38 he was


22. They broke up. He was too immature and tried to control her.


Being an independant woman who lived her life and raised children I could see how that would cramp her style. After a month he expected the world from her but was not willing to commit to her.


She just wanted a friendship ring. Now he obsesses about her


almost to the point of stalking.


If the guy is really mature there are lots of advantages to your situation. If you genuinely care for each other thats all that matters.


Expect to hear grief from family and friends. For some reason


alot of people think you are out of line or even deviant.


Hollywood folks do it all the time. I suspect that on some level many people are jealous that they cant find a mate younger than they are.


One way to tell if you are being used is to see how he acts around his friends in your presence. Good luck!
when did u start going out and is he romantic in life or just in bed, i have dated older women and it can be wonderful but just make sure he loves u for you and not just for your body sit down and ask him if he loves u he will not mind the question