GUYS AND GIRLS READ THIS. I NEED ADVICE. ESPECIALLY FROM GUYS.?

ok so im a very attractive female. i keep myself together. do my hair and wear nice clothes. the latest trends. always match. have a beautiful face. all my friends admire me. and tell me im really pretty n all this shyt. BUT im still single. guys y is this? i mean r guys scared to ask pretty girls out? or is it that im not their type. i mean wat girls do yall lyk? y am i still single? i wanna know dat cuz i mean guys ask me out but i say no to the ugly ones. but the cute ones dont ask me... y? Y?!GUYS AND GIRLS READ THIS. I NEED ADVICE. ESPECIALLY FROM GUYS.?
A combination of things is likely happening here. First off, if you are accurate in your assessment of your looks, then being a pretty woman you will tend to intimidate many guys. The reason the ';ugly'; guys will make the attempt is because they are used to rejection already, and they have already figured out that nothing ventured, nothing gained.





On the other hand, the cute guys are not used to rejection, they are used to being chased by girls. They don't know what to do with a girl who isn't pursuing them, and they are afraid of the hit to the ego of being turned down. Thus they often won't try to initiate contact with a girl they suspect might be out of their league.





Third are the cute but poor guys. They take one look at you, and probably sum you up this way, ';Man she is hot, but wow look at how she dresses, that woman is high maintenance';. They figure they can't afford to keep up with your stylish and expensive tastes in clothing as it probably means an expensive taste in everything else as well.





What can you do about it?





Several things. First, try casually dating one of the ';ugly'; but ';nice'; guys for a while. I'm not talking about someone who will disrespect you, but someone who will appreciate the boost to his reputation that comes with dating you. Make a deal up front to keep it platonic and let him know that you are both benefiting from the arrangement.





How does this help you?





It makes you seem much more approachable by the cute guys. When they see that you haven't turned the plain guy down, they feel better about their chances with you, and are more willing to try. They are also more likely to be spurred on by the percieved competition.





The other thing you can do is tone down your look a little. I'm not saying you should look like a slob, but perhaps a more natural look with your make-up. Simple but stylish clothing, and cutting your jewlery down to a pair of basic but elegant earrings, and maybe one tastefully modest ring on your right hand. This will have the benefit of not making you seem like someone who it too high maintenance to afford dating.





I hope this helps.GUYS AND GIRLS READ THIS. I NEED ADVICE. ESPECIALLY FROM GUYS.?
Maybe it's your personality. Maybe because you dress well, people think that you think that you are the greatest thing in the world. Appearance isn't everything. Sometimes, boys don't care if you are wearing the latest trends, or clothes that are in the inside of the window of, maybe, American Eagle. What's on the inside matters the most.
Maybe we shouldn't be so superficial! While looks are what initially attracts people, it is not why people stay together.





Do you only want cute guys to ask you out? Maybe the cute guys are also so conceited that they think you should ask them out.





What about moderately cute but really nice? Maybe some more self examination is in order but not examination of what's on the outside.
A link to a picture could help but it may be your personality or your inability to talk to guys. Make them want you using strong and effective compliments, but rare ones, rare enough that they will begin to crave your presence and they will WANT SOME.





Post a link to a pic, i will check back every 5 min or so for the next hour.





Remember, appearance isn't everything.
seriously you should just date a guy that ask you out so other guys can see that your actually looking for a relationship but dont let the guy u went out with feel like u guys are startin a relationship only if is the guy u want...and give guys a chance dont exclude people you dont know because u never know how good they can be..
pretty girls are intimadating


to an extent


you have to make yourself seem open and talk to them


and a lot of times guys do like it when the girl makes the first move, so instead of waiting for them to come up to you take a chance and go up to the guy.
ok, post a picture please so we can make sure you are all of what you say you are and not ugly like a majority of the girls that act ';all of that';





you seem to have a big ego, and quite arrogant maybe that is why?
Because you are arrogant!
you need to make yourself more fun... you need to dress appropriately... you need to start asking guys out... :D
probably because you are so full of yourself. reread your question.
Maybe because you're a stuck up slut?
u seem stuck up... hmm maybe that could be why...
is your standard too high? or are you not at that same standard? Every person must set a certain standard of who they would like to marry/Date which ever the case may be. But in order to attract these types of men you have to meet that same standard. Ex: If someone wants an Apple do you give them an orange? No you give them what they are looking for. Maybe it is you are trying to hard to be 'perfect'. Honestly I don't like it when a girl is exactly the way she is suppose to be all the time. Let loose have a little freedom. Try not to be up tight about how you look so much - it doesn't take name brands to attract a name brand guy - it takes heart. Some guys are looking for that O LOOK AT ME I'M SO PERFECT type of girl but not many. most guys, like me for one, think girls who are like that are snobs. I mean don't get me wrong - I don't know if that is you, but try to loosen up a bit. wear just a nice T-shirt and some Jeans once in a while. You don't always have to be 'Dressed up' to attract a guy.