ok im dating this guy i met in college, hes 26 and im almost 21, i really do care alot about him we talk all the time on the phone we have went out 2 times on a date together, i say i love you to every one cause im that type that does, i think it freaks him out a little bit, he will never say it back to me when we talk on the phone, i dont want him to say something he dont mean or feel, and i dont want to scare him or make him uncomfortable, its been so long since i had a bf and i want to do good i dont want to loose him, i try not to call him alot ive backed off from that, ne advice on what i can do that will make him want me more and stuff like make up and all, i need help... i want to give him space to breath at times and him going hanging out with his friends, the only catch is he cant drive because he has seizures and hes making good progress to get his liscense back, and i only have my learners im trying to get my liscense im kinda nervous driving on the interstate to go see him because i never done that before and i was in a bad wreck a while back so ne advice is needed. just not immature ones.;) thanksBoyfriend Advice girls and guys?
Hey! My honest opinion is guys and girls are usually not in true actual love until months after the relationship. This was my first problem with my first girlfriend about six years ago when I was fifteen. I rushed it by saying ';I love you';. Then a week and a half later she quotes ';I don't know what love means';. My advice is to say you care about him and like him a lot but saying the word love you should wait. Guys like it when the girl does the calling but like you said not everyday. Call him like once every two to three days. Good luck on getting your license. I remember when I got mine when I was eighteen so I waited a little bit as well. Driving is freedom lol. I love my Monte Carlo haha. Anyways good luck hun and hope things work out for the best. God Bless and remember to also have faith. I told you, you would get a boyfriend. ; )Boyfriend Advice girls and guys?
You just need to chill out and be yourself. Just tell him that you don't want to pressure him and that you just tell everyone that you love them. It might me a good conversation starter for you guys.
Try and find a way to make it work, but don't do it at the expense of safety.
Hope I helped. (:
Give him time. He'll tell you he loves you when he is ready :) Don't try to rush things... take it slow. And if he doesn't enjoy almost everything about you.... he's not the one. Just follow your heart :D don't become something you're not just for this guy, no matter how much you like him or how important he is to you.
well really theres not alot you can do to make him want you more and that
if he is someone you want to date then his gonna love you for you
you don't have to chance to what he needs.. sure a little change for a person you Truly love is fine.. but you shouldn't have to become a completely different person just for him even if it is a sweet centimeter he should love you for you and nothing else
but as far as it goes it could just be his scared believe it or not no matter what the age these days its always easier to type or write what we feel then to say it out loud maybe his just to nervous to say it back to you
uhm lets see, thats good that you don't make him feel like he has to say ';i love you'. well besides all that, i would say give it some time, let him do it on his own, if he's the one like you say or you want him to be the one, let him have his time. Trust when he does say it'll be the most wonderful time of your life. And about driving; don't worry about it so much, practice driving on the interstate with a friend about 4-6 times, than try doing it alone and see how it goes. in the mean-time drive around your neighborhood, and don't worry about crashing again, cause that will MAKE you scared to drive, relax, also pray before you go, so you know GOD is with you.
adios. =)
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