Need advice ladies n guys! plz answer! i'm desperate?

My bf n I have been dating since 8th grade i am now a sophmore in COLLEGE (we grew up in CA) he is a marine and has been gone for about 2 yrs. .. so i moved to Neb. to go to the univerity of neb. and well hes come back a few times but only to CA he has a sick parent so yeah but my parents will never gimme money to fly back n see him cuz they don't like his choice of bein a marine..





i'm finally going to see him .. hes flying over here for the 1st time ever!


so how do i deal with this how would u do it if ur parents acted that way?? and do you it will be strange seeing eachother again (we talk on the phone a lot)








help any advice is appreciated











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http://i30.tinypic.com/16ifos9.jpgNeed advice ladies n guys! plz answer! i'm desperate?
Wow, you guys look happy together! That's awesome and I bet you give him a good reason to smile everyday; and that's a good thing, especially with some of the insane sh*t he has to deal with, form what parents think to what he does as a Marine.





I say if you truly love the guy and he loves you or it's going that route, to pursue it. No offense, but F what the parents feel on this one. You'll still be their daughter and if being with this guy makes you happy, then they should be happy for you. It might take them a minute to grasp the concept, but if you show them that you don't care what they think about him, they will either have to jump on board or hold a grudge, and I highly doubt they'll choose to avoid their daughter.





You owe it to yourself and him to pursue what you feel. Go for it and enjoy.Need advice ladies n guys! plz answer! i'm desperate?
Forget about your parents and just go see him. its your choice who you love and your parents should support you. so just ignore what your parents say.





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Even if you love your parents, it shouldnt matter what they think. It's your love, your life. And you decide who you love. forget about them, if they dont support you, then o well
why would your parents not like him being a marine?he is serving and protecting his country and is a hero in my eyes.just dont worry about your parents do what you want to do not what they want you to.take care!
i dont get the whole picture thing........
Clearly you love this guy and you probably feel that he is the one. I dont see the problem with him being a marine nor can I understand why they dont like him for that reason. Unless there is more that you are not telling us. But lets stick to with what you just told us about the relationship between him and your parents. Being a marine is nothing to be ashamed about nor should it be looked down upon, so for that i feel that your parents are being unfair to you and to him. You need to assert yourself, you need to ask them why they have an issue with him being in the marine. I dont know what there beliefs are but i can almost imgaine it being something that wont make sense..





As far as you and him, I cant see it being an issue. It might be weird at first because of the time and distance that has been between you but after the first encountor you should pick up right where you left off. I have a couple of buddies in the marines and navy and when they came back for the first time and say there gf thats pretty much how it went down for them. Now if there is tension between the two you because of your parents, then that is a different issue that the two of you need to discuss. GOOD LUCK
well since u havent seen him for quite a while and ur parents dont like him, go out with him somewhere else that ur parents wont see him. i bet it wont be strange cuz its not like u two broke up and he's only coming to see an ex right? so chat like you would if he had never moved away cuz i bet he would want to talk to u nd from my expirence its not an akward moment it feels great to see ur love again.
Regardless of your parents opinion, Being a Marine is something to be proud of. Your parents will begin to understand your choice to be with him, if the only reason they have a problem is because he is in the military, that's silly and you shouldn't pay very much mind to that. As for not seeing him in so long, it'll come naturally. Don't over think it, or play out any scenarios in your mind. Just do whatever the first thing that comes to mind is when you see him. Ya'll look cute together too :)