We met a few weeks ago in a chat interest group and just clicked, the usuall swopped photos, talk for hours with cam and I was able to check he is single through mutual friends. He has told me he really likes me and me too. I will be in his country soon on vacation and we're meeting up. I asked what he sees me as and he said 'probably something that won't work due to the distance'. This threw me back a bit as I believe in love, I could move if it worked. (I didn't tell him this)%26gt; I said, 'so maybe we should stop chatting?' , he said 'no, lets go with the flow if something happens it could be nice, if not, you're a really nice woman I chatted to for a while'. I just want to know he doesn't just see me as a sort of a fling. I'm a sensitive girl and would get hurt. How do I know?Guys will you please give me your advice on this guy? Is he into me or just a fling?
he will just try to hook up that's it. at least he's being honest.Guys will you please give me your advice on this guy? Is he into me or just a fling?
If you really care about the guy then you should do everything in your power to make it work.
He does seem like he doesn't care a lot about being in a relationship with you. Right now he values talking to you but at the same time he doesn't think anything would happen because of the distance issue. It is best that you two stick with being friends and eventually forming something more.
1: what' the site so I could get on? :D
2: Every relationship to a guy is a fling. They will stay with a girl until he gets really old, and wants to marry, or if eh really likes you. Tell him that you have to move for work related purposes, and it's close to where he is. Chat for another 3 days, then ask if he wants to go for a coffee, because you can talk faster then you can type, and the webcam is broken. He'll say yes, if is really THAT into you. If you don't think he is, DO NOT TAKE MY ADVICE. But that is your judgement call :D
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