Need advice from both guys and girls?

Hello everyone,





I'm 16 and have had a girlfriend until around 8 months ago, where I had to move to another town temporarily. We decided it would be best to break up.





When I moved back, she had a new boyfriend who currently does not take any interest in what she does. I feel like he's taking her for granted, and using her as some sort of status symbol. (She stayed up until 3:30AM helping him type up a project report around a week ago.)





Last time I visited her place with my friends, she hugged me; I was rather taken aback. When I didn't hug her, she said, ';fine, don't hug me back you bastard.'; (In a joking voice, of course.) So I ended up hugging her. We also IM each other almost everyday (sometimes I start it, sometimes she does.) Actually, just yesterday, she was telling me about how her current boyfriend was trying to make her feel guilty about changing bits of her personality for him. Her bf claims that their relationship is getting closer, whereby she thinks that they are drifting apart.





Could this mean that she still likes me? Or do friends normally do this?





She also told one of my friends that she's ';afraid to like'; me, due the the fact I may move away again.





I'm completely confused by this whole situation.





I still like her, but have no clue what to do.





Here's a bit of an IM conversation we had earlier:





Ex: wanna know something?


Me: um.. sure


Ex: yeah.. i still got a thing for you...


Ex: how does that make you feel?


Me: the feeling is kind of indescribable really


Me: how about you?


Ex: well are you smiling?


Me: of course I am


Ex: i'm just glad that i can make you smile.





Aaand yeah, I'm not going to disclose everything.





But yeah, I need to know what to do with this..Need advice from both guys and girls?
i can understand where she's coming from i mean you did move away. she's still with her boyfriend though so maybe if things don't work out with him then you should go for it but don't break them up. she seems to have feelings for you still but you know don't go meddling it never ends well.Need advice from both guys and girls?
well from reading all of this i really think that your ex- girlfriend still likes you. i honestly do think that her current ';boyfriend'; may be using her just like you said. but if she hugged you and you didn't hug her back and she got mad, then that means she wanted you to hug her and she probably still has lingering feelings for you. she probably is just afraid to say how she feels because she probably is just scared that you too will become close again and then you will have to leave her.
Get back together with her! Life's too short to not be with the people who make you happy :)
Go up to her in a private place and tell her how you feel. Say ';I missed being with you, do you think we can get together again.';
ok, you really need to get back together. this new boyfriend of hers seems like a total ';idiot';. I can tell that she still likes you. her current boyfriend to me seems like he does not truly care about her.





Good Luck, and hope I helped :)
I know your confused, but shes clearly confused to. You moved away, she moved on but now your back. I think shes still likes you, but you both need to talk about it and see what do to. Things could have changed since the last time you were going out, but also things could be so much better. She has a boyfriend and you need to respect that so all you can do when hes still around is tell her how you feel. Hopefully it will work out for you, but if she still wants to stay with her boyfriend, be her friend, friends is better than nothing at all. Also don't be too hard on her boyfriend, course hes not good enough for her in your eyes, hes not your =)