Me and this girl really like each other. We are more than just friends. We both pretty much agree that no sex etc until married or at least engaged. She is 19 and she has to be home early because she is in a large family and she has to help put the kids to bed etc and prepare them for school the next day. Lately its been hard to spend time with her because she has to be home so early. 8:30pm is a bit early. Anyway, we go to the gym everyday and that is about the only time we can spend together alone. Its hard for me to show my affection towards her if we are never alone etc or have time to spend together. I know this girl wants me to make a move so we can go to the next level etc but its hard when she doesn't see it as I do. How can you take a relationship to the next level if you can barely spend time together. Also I spend lots of time at her house but her parents are always around or her younger brothers or etc so can't really hug or cuddle or anything like that. It is just awkward and I know she is shy when it comes to stuff like that around her family and friends.
So that's about it. This is definately the girl for me just need some advice for this awkward situation. I want to show my affection towards her such as hugging, kissing, holding hands etc but how can I do it while keeping her comfortable too.Some advice girls or guys?
How much affection do you need to show?
If you've both agreed on no sex before marriage, not being alone solves a major temptation, I think you're lucky
It's easy enough to show affection in public, take her hand, treat her gently, give her a peck on the lips........she's no fool, by respecting her, and her parents rules, (making sure she gets home on time), you're putting her needs and interests above you own.
If she's not ready, and you want more, that's you being horny, wait, it'll come in time.
LuckSome advice girls or guys?
do simple things...fluff her hair, tweak her nose(gently), tuck her hair behind her ear, give her side hugs(to get started), look her directly in her eyes, whisper in her ear, tickle her knee.it will progress. You just need to get her used to you touching her in non threatening ways(by threatening, i mean potentionally embarrassing)
You have found yourself a nice lady. Lucky you!!
Actually, what you have mentioned is not a problem. Just ask her out privately, and reveal your feelings to her. If she is your girlfriend, I am sure that you will find time to be intimate with her.
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