Advice for shy guys?

I met this girl in a club I joined a few months back, at the university I attend. We have exchanged emails, talking about the club, a few times. Then I asked her if she could help me out on my PowerPoint. That evolved into meeting for coffee, and when we met we talked for at least 2 hours or more. She had a good time, I could tell, and she told me so. I figured I鈥檇 ask her out again, so I did. We haven鈥檛 met for the second time yet, but I鈥檓 kind of nervous about our next meeting. I am bad at reading signs with girls, I hope at this point she knows I like her, but we really have only know each other a couple of months, and this is the second time she鈥檚 done something with me. I am afraid if I tell her I am interested in her I鈥檒l scare her off. I think she might be shy, or cautious too since she鈥檚 a grad student, like me, and really busy. Also, I don鈥檛 have her phone number yet, and am afraid to ask for it. Should I keep emailing her, and asking her out to see if she returns my feelings or should I do something?Advice for shy guys?
First, always ask a girl out in-person.





Second, if you like her you are going to have to tell her at some point. You can't avoid it forever - otherwise, nothing will happen! If you tell her you like her, there is the chance that you will ';Scare her off';, but that chance will always be present - and as the friendship progresses, it will become more terrifying, with more at stake.





As you stated, you are shy. I say this from the perspective of a person who used to be very shy and still sort of is - there comes a point where you will have to just suck it up, overcome the anxiety, tell her you like her and ask for her number. Not something wishy-washy - it takes courage, but you have to make it clear that you like her... otherwise, you're both still stuck in limbo. No passionate declarations of love, just a request for a real date, which you make clear is a DATE.





Be prepared for the possibility that she says no, and if she does, and gets ';spooked';, give her some time - in a few months, she will probably feel less weird and talk to you again. If you really do value her friendship, it is VERY important for you to RESPECT her feelings and not press the issue.





If things don't work out, remember that there are a lot of other wonderful girls out there, and some of them are just as shy as you are. :-)Advice for shy guys?
u dont ask u dont get. just think of that and you will be fine.
honestly you need to ask her out. stop being shy and bite the bullet. it's up to you to make a move. if you don't she'll probably think you're not that into her
Why do you have to be shy? Sweet and short tell her how you feel and just be your self and honest it will work Good Luck
if you like her then yes ask her out.