I need advice, mostly from guys....?

What are some tricks that i could get a guy to become seriuos about a relationship? It doesnt matter how long it takes....I need advice, mostly from guys....?
i believe that god, jesus is in charge of who you will marry and if you dont want gods will you will finds satins will...





or in less direct words: no one is going to love you unless they are able to realy see you and like that person ....you can do many expensive sthings to change yourself but, who you are god and you only know and therfore ......waitI need advice, mostly from guys....?
make him jealous like on the show what i like about you
respect
I don't like tricks.





But the essence being you could push and mention from time to time why you want ';serious'; and how that is better for both of you and set a time frame and if it does not happen, then move on .. this might force ';seriousness'; or you can get on with your life.





Serious to me translates marriage, but you did not say.





There was a book awhile back called ';the rules'; which was a book of tricks.





Barbara De Angelis wrote a response I liked


The Real Rules: How to Find the Right Man for the Real You





I read both. I hated ';the rules'; and lost respect for my girlfriend at the time who thought it was great.





I respect Barbara's book and it could give you some good ideas.





good luck to you.
Don't cheat on him. Respect.
Silly rabbit tricks are for kids. You don't need tricks to make a guy to become serious about a relationship because once the tricks run out so does the relationship.





SOLID GROUND, is what serious relationships are built on how you can do that is by spending as much as time you can with him it will show him that you are caring and serious. You have to basically show him the way he will follow.
Respect yourself, forgiveness is good but if you let things you should put your foot down on slide, then disrespect and being taken for granted moves in.





Truth is, if respect leaves a relationship there is nothing left.
If you want someone to be serious about anything, does it make sense to trick them? If it doesn鈥檛 matter how long it takes and the relationship is not a serious one than keep your options open. People always want what they can鈥檛 have so if you are unavailable then you become more desirable. Honestly though I think you should really talk and see what your goals are, because they may not be the same and all you are going to do is waist your time. He may never be serious some people are like that.