I really need some advice-please please guys-I need as many opinions on this as possible?

Desperatley need advice how this Greek man feels about me-serious answers only please?


I have friends in Greece-one is a guy I really like-I think he feels something for me too-but it`s difficult situation .


Wein our 30`s-we are both in relationships that are failing-his partner of 3 yrs works away and they argue all the time when they see each other-have different future plans-his gf is my friend .


I `m trapped in a relationship where thers no passion and hasnt been for a long time-we have been together many yrs but we are like mates-nothing more.


When I last saw this greek guy-he kissed me on the mouth gently when I was leaving greece-and seemed to feel something for me-he is always watching me and I just feel he is interested in me-but I`ve been told that Greek people will not ';upset the aple-cart if theyre not sure where they stand'; and I never had a chance to tell him about how my life is .


I was in greece again recently and I tried to tell him how I feel-we had a brief moment alone and he stared into my eyes and we connected-then others were there-what can I do





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I need to know about Greek culture in this type of situatuin-he is quite shy and unconfident-so it maybe nerves on his part-or that he feels its wrong to do much to show me how he feels because we both presently have relationships-even tho they are not good ones.


He speaks english-but not fluently-and although I am slowly learning greek-the language makes it hard to tell him how I feel.I want to tell him how I feel-but I don`t want to lose his friendship-and I may be totally wrong-but that kiss was not something I hear Greeks do normally to ';just a friend';.I`m so confused.I really need some advice-please please guys-I need as many opinions on this as possible?
Well looking at your question you talk waaaaaaaaaay to fu**king much so avoid him and will be drawn to youI really need some advice-please please guys-I need as many opinions on this as possible?
you need t6o meet him alone and be honest and talk about your feelings then decide but dont be with him until ye both finish other relationships good luck
I dont know anything about greek culture, but people dont generally act that way unless they like someone, whatever their culture, Id ask him about it though, but be prepared for the chaos that may ensue should this go any further. Good luck
If you really have strong feelings for this man you will learn his language in know time I know a guy who met and hispanic girl that only spoke Spanish and he learned how to speak her language in 2 weeks just so he could talk to her so i believe you can do it if you put your mined to it. Good luck go get your man.
to many details... take it easy if he doesnt want u he wont call
Stop fiff faffing about if the pair of you want to risk further aggro from existing partners then just go ahead and have an affair otherwise leave it alone.
Hi,





I have no idea what the whole Greek culture is but I can tell you that one thing that is basically the same between cultures is common sense! .. or so I hope so!!





You both feel attracted to one another based on the two of you having relationships that are near to the end and the attention you giving one another is so appealing.





You say his girlfriend is a good friend of yours ... if she is that good a friend then why are you even thinking of making this man yours and risking losing HER friendship.





You owe it to your boyfriend to end the relationship - you obviously have no love left for him because if you did you wouldn't be on here writing about how you feel for another guy or wanting to tell this other guy how much you love him ...





Your boyfriend needs to know that there is no future for you ... you don't need to tell him about how you feel for this other guy but you do need to tell him it over and over for good. That way he can get closure and move on from you.





It up to this other guy as to what to do in his relationship - if he kissed you then I do feel that he too needs to end his relationship as he doesn't respect her just as you don't respect your current partner.





It may well be that HE does want to make it work with his girlfriend and this is something you may need to just accept.





Telling him your feelings is going to hurt a whole lot of people - your boyfriend, his girlfriend ... who is your friend ... and this is what you need to weigh up .. is the hurt you are going to cause be worth it?





I would just try and concentrate on the relationship you in now - if you feel trapped and unhappy then end it but DON'T END IT FOR THE OTHER GUY ... just end it on how YOU feel about the boyfriend you are with.





If you don't see a future let him know, get closure on it, and spend time alone.





Don't make this other guy choose - he needs to do it for himself. Also be warned that he may feel the friendship is too much to risk losing.





Good luck!





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