College guys, i need some advice about a guy!?

okay i'm in a lame situation. i'm a college student, by the way. i recently transferred to this university from a different school so i don't know many people and i'm a year older than most of the seniors here.


Anyway i met this guy at this organizational thing a couple weeks ago. he approached me and seemed friendly so i just saw him as a random friendly guy. he left a good impression on me so i added him as a friend on facebook. he sent me a wall message so we talked a bit like that a couple times on facebook. his impression started to grow on me and i started developing an unexpected crush on him (despite the fact that he's 3 year youngers than me!). i saw him the following week at the same organization and this time he talked to me more and even sat next to me and later scared me from behind a couple times while i was talking to other people (maybe that was his way of being playful?). anyway, i asked him if he wanted to come hang out with me and some friends after the organization (people in the organization split up after meetings to hang out with each other) and he said later that he wasn't going because he was hanging out with his other (male) friends in the organization. i was disappointed but didn't think much of it. then, the next week i bumped into him randomly at a friend's get-together. he sat down to talk to me again but then went around the room to talk to other people, so i guessed that he might not be too interested but not sure. anyway recently he said on his facebook notes that he was really bummed because he's disappointed in some of his friends and argued with one of them. so i sent him a personal message on facebook telling him to cheer up, etc... so he answered saying: thanks, that's sweet. so, i answered him back saying: no problem, just feel better! and then asked him if he wanted to hang out some time... i added at the end: ';you should teach me how to play the cello, i'll teach you how to play the piano!'; (we both know how to play instruments but aren't music majors or anything). Anyway, it's been over a day and he hasn't answered. i know it doesn't seem like a big deal, but i know he checks his facebook often and it even shows on his profile that he posted comments and also added a video of himself (he likes to post a lot of random videos of himself being silly).... so it's only obvious that he's read my message but just choosing not to respond.


........... guys what do you think, is he interested or not? give me your honest opinions gathered from the material i just gave you....College guys, i need some advice about a guy!?
i think this guy was looking for a one time deal. or is afraid of commitment.College guys, i need some advice about a guy!?
No offence inteneded, you're coming on a little too strong.


Stay back for a while.
Unless he's a grad student, I say stay away...by the way you sound like a borderline stalker. Guys do not always read all their emails and/or facebook comments. He just may be busy so give it time and stop reading so much into everything.
Alright I'm a college guy and I have been in a similar situation! I have sent a few girls messages in which they read and then think about before they respond. Anyways back to the point, he could be asking his friends what they think about you before he starts anything. OR he could be thinking.. OR he could be ignoring the comment in an attempt that you will get the hint and just be his friend instead of something more. Wish i could tell you more but you just have to wait and see. All i can say is that, If i was interested in a girl and she asked me somethign like that, she would get a response as soon as possible... So maybe its bad news for you :( Well anyway, i'm sure there are more piano players out there!
Forget the facebook stuff and ask him face to face! You can cut through a lot of crap in a short time if you just add the human element.