My freinds and my family think i am much prettier then other girls in my school!! Im gonna be a freshman this year and i dont think i will find anyone for homecoming!! I dont think im ugly and yet no one asked me out in 8th grade!! A lot of guys flirt with me but no one ever asks me out!!! What's wrong with me?Will I find someone for homecoming! Guys please gimme the advice!?
there's nothing wrong with them, when I was in the eighth grade I did flirt a little but just as a joke, it wasn't serious, some girls liked pretending to flirt. Anyway, as all guys are at that age, they are shy, compassionate, nervous, sweaty human beings who are changing and discovering new things as becoming a teenager. I would just relax and wait, homecoming isn't till october unless its early at your school. Is homecoming a dance or for football because home coming at my high school was for football and you got all year to find someone. If its a dance then wait patiencely for a guy to ask, even if nobody asks u out, go to it becasue I didn't go to my high school dances and I would get all depressed and stuff by not going but on the bright side I've found the right person before graduating college so u have all your life to find a nice guy who will take of you, love you, have kids, etc... I guess I'm saying ';all good things come to those who wait'; Alright, take it easy and try to get good grades for college, alright see ya, byeWill I find someone for homecoming! Guys please gimme the advice!?
Its not whats wrong with you, 8th grade guys for the most part don't have the confidence to ask a girl out. If homecoming is months away, you're just anxious. Why don't you talk about it with a couple of guys you like? I'd wait 'till about a month beforehand to start asking.
You could just ask the one guy you would love to go with most. Better yet, ask him if he'd like to take you out on a date to see if you really do want to go to homecoming with him.
If you don't want to do any pursuing (some guys never will), you can give out a couple of compliments and try to get a guy to start talking about himself (the one thing anyone loves to to most is talk about themselves). He'll enjoy having you listen, and then you'll be asked out.
well homecoming id very important for female and ... reading ur discreapsion i guest ur very popular in school and boys might ask u soon mybe just wait later longer and if they've not aske u yet i might think the boys might be jelous but that coplecated to anderstand for a boy and if they not aske u like forever yet it might be ur action making them late to ask u n about a week boys not asked u yet u should do ur move asked them instead of asking you ^_^ that all i can say lovey and have fun xxx
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Advice...from a guys point of view please?
So my guy friend can pretty much get any girl he wants, but when he tried to get me to like him, it didn't happen. I rejected him sooo many times. He told me that when other girls rejected him, he'd get bored and move on, but with me it's different.
A few months later, i started having little feelings for him. He was happy I did, but he wanted me to like him more. A few months later, he told me that he's starting to love me. His exact words were
';I love you. Slightly more than a friend.';
%26amp; now I'm starting to have deep feelings for him, I really like him. My question is, do you think if I told him this, he'd lose interest because he got what he wanted?
Like you know how people always want what they can't have...then when they know they can have it they don't want it anymore..Advice...from a guys point of view please?
uh...
he just wants some
trust me
and its working
dont let him get in your head
or in your pants for that matterAdvice...from a guys point of view please?
i would stay friends a little longer. then if anything happens then go for it.
keep him on his toes and keep him wondering
he wont lose intrest in u
it depends on how good you are for each others.. i mean this theory is somethimes right but doesnt work with someone you love.. it works with someone you like .. when you got him . you might stop feel you like him..but when it comes to love .. i dont think this is true..what you can do now is to show him you love him .. without tellng him that .. show him and let him feel your love in your way .. without admitting it...this way he will always be exciting .. until you reach a point when you are sure he loves you deeply..and at this point i think you will be in the safe side when confessing your love..
A few months later, i started having little feelings for him. He was happy I did, but he wanted me to like him more. A few months later, he told me that he's starting to love me. His exact words were
';I love you. Slightly more than a friend.';
%26amp; now I'm starting to have deep feelings for him, I really like him. My question is, do you think if I told him this, he'd lose interest because he got what he wanted?
Like you know how people always want what they can't have...then when they know they can have it they don't want it anymore..Advice...from a guys point of view please?
uh...
he just wants some
trust me
and its working
dont let him get in your head
or in your pants for that matterAdvice...from a guys point of view please?
i would stay friends a little longer. then if anything happens then go for it.
keep him on his toes and keep him wondering
he wont lose intrest in u
it depends on how good you are for each others.. i mean this theory is somethimes right but doesnt work with someone you love.. it works with someone you like .. when you got him . you might stop feel you like him..but when it comes to love .. i dont think this is true..what you can do now is to show him you love him .. without tellng him that .. show him and let him feel your love in your way .. without admitting it...this way he will always be exciting .. until you reach a point when you are sure he loves you deeply..and at this point i think you will be in the safe side when confessing your love..
I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
ok so ive got this problem where ive been dating this guy for 7 months %26amp;%26amp; i rele do love him but lately i feel like my feelings for him have changed a bit but ive tried to work things out %26amp;%26amp; so i have a best friend neil he has like totally taken my mind off of my bf Jared %26amp; i rele like neil like soo much i care for him and so this is my senior year and idk if i should stay with jared for as long as it will last or move onto neil since its my last year, and the other day me n kayla went to our friends goin away party %26amp;%26amp; neil was there n i was soo tempted when he leaned in and kissed me so i did cheat on jared but i feel horrible n i kno that if i break up with jared it will literally kill him cuz he's gave me a ring and everything, i still have feelings for jared but neil is more than i imagined and ppl tell me to listen to my heart and i rele dont kno wat my heart is telling me b/c i am soo far confused...plzz help me!!I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
This guy Neil sounds like he's taking advantage of a bad situation. Don't let him lead you astray. But on the other hand, if you have different feelings about this current guy, take some time off to realize who you are as a person. You're young so you might feel that your heart says one thing, but all of the hormones in your body tell you another. Don't get confused between love and infatuation.I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
You should break up with Jared, for his benefit because you obviously don't want to be with him and it's unfair to him.
If this is your senior year then enjoy the experience, because when you go off to college next year you'll meet someone else and forget all about both of them.
Whatever you are doing, stop messing with Neil until you are absolutely done with Jared. Your feelings for Jared might have changed because at first you thought he was perfect or ';the one';, and then 7 months into the relationship you think he has many flaws. You ';love'; him? You are moving too fast considering the fact that this has only been 7 months. You probably like Neil more because you feel more trust and communication going on with him than Jared, as if you know Neil a lot better than Jared. Break up with Jared and then make it official with Neil.
Neil is takin' your heart, you don't know if Neil is planning to marry you or not or maybe he maybe want to use you, who knows.
My advise is to stick with the man who loves you so much and who wants to be with you like forever not for just one night, Think about it and in these cases, listen to your mind not your heart.
This guy Neil sounds like he's taking advantage of a bad situation. Don't let him lead you astray. But on the other hand, if you have different feelings about this current guy, take some time off to realize who you are as a person. You're young so you might feel that your heart says one thing, but all of the hormones in your body tell you another. Don't get confused between love and infatuation.I need advice on this guy. or should i say guys.?
You should break up with Jared, for his benefit because you obviously don't want to be with him and it's unfair to him.
If this is your senior year then enjoy the experience, because when you go off to college next year you'll meet someone else and forget all about both of them.
Whatever you are doing, stop messing with Neil until you are absolutely done with Jared. Your feelings for Jared might have changed because at first you thought he was perfect or ';the one';, and then 7 months into the relationship you think he has many flaws. You ';love'; him? You are moving too fast considering the fact that this has only been 7 months. You probably like Neil more because you feel more trust and communication going on with him than Jared, as if you know Neil a lot better than Jared. Break up with Jared and then make it official with Neil.
Neil is takin' your heart, you don't know if Neil is planning to marry you or not or maybe he maybe want to use you, who knows.
My advise is to stick with the man who loves you so much and who wants to be with you like forever not for just one night, Think about it and in these cases, listen to your mind not your heart.
Needing some advice from you guys?
Today makes 13 days since my boyfriend broke up with me. His reason was our pointless arguing. We were together for 3 1/2 years, and we are both 18. We were really close and the break up happend so fast, when he broke up with me he told me he just snapped and can't take it anymore. I love him so much and I'm so confused. We live close to each other like maybe half a mile, so its hard not to accidentally run into each other leaving the neighborhood etc..Lately he has had a different guy friend over each weekend night, I recognize each car because they are mutual guy friends..before we broke up 2 weeks ago, he never had anyone over..its not like him to have guy friends over. Does he have them over to help take his mind off me or distract him for awhile and help take his mind off things? I know we are both going through a really tough time right now, but I wish I could tell him in some way that I am still here for him if he ever needs someone to talk to. But I don't know if I should wait until he contacts me since he is the one that broke up with me..Sorry this is alot to take in, any advice is very much appreciated, thanks everyone.Needing some advice from you guys?
your young best thing I can say is to move on ur young I'm 53 years old and Still unsettled Life is what u make u make of it! If someone is is taking u down move on %26amp; don't look back!!!!!!
sherry19124Needing some advice from you guys?
Move on, he has. Just because he has a friend over does
not mean he's having a tough time with the breakup-that's more of a girl thing.
Coming from a guy, move on. Women always beat their chests about being so strong well why don't you act like one and move on. Drama should be a crime. Keep things simple.
your young best thing I can say is to move on ur young I'm 53 years old and Still unsettled Life is what u make u make of it! If someone is is taking u down move on %26amp; don't look back!!!!!!
sherry19124Needing some advice from you guys?
Move on, he has. Just because he has a friend over does
not mean he's having a tough time with the breakup-that's more of a girl thing.
Coming from a guy, move on. Women always beat their chests about being so strong well why don't you act like one and move on. Drama should be a crime. Keep things simple.
Need some advice from the guys. I recently reconnect with one of my ex bf from the past. After a short time we?
ran off and got married. Currently we live 1800 miles apart but are working at me moving over to where he lives. I get to see him about every 2 weeks and usually we have a great time. Until lately. This time and the time before when we have sex he finishes before me. He says its because hes just really sensitive. One time he did everything he could to make it better but sometimes this can ruin the mood. This has even happened on the day he was leaving the last 2 times. So that's how he leaves me. Im just not sure if it is that really he is extremely sensitive or if he just doesn't really care and wants to get his. I would never want to think of him that way but where is the self control and why does this start after we are married. I test drove the car and it ran great now its puttering.
Please only advice no rude comments.Need some advice from the guys. I recently reconnect with one of my ex bf from the past. After a short time we?
Lots of guys suffer from premature ejaculation as i'm sure you know. One way to confront this is to get some viagra. Suggest it to him, not in a mean way, but in sort of an experimental way. Tell him your friends have tried it and told you it's great, and that you want to try it with him. He should have no problem with this and that way you would both be pleased! Hope i helped.
Please only advice no rude comments.Need some advice from the guys. I recently reconnect with one of my ex bf from the past. After a short time we?
Lots of guys suffer from premature ejaculation as i'm sure you know. One way to confront this is to get some viagra. Suggest it to him, not in a mean way, but in sort of an experimental way. Tell him your friends have tried it and told you it's great, and that you want to try it with him. He should have no problem with this and that way you would both be pleased! Hope i helped.
Hey guys I really need advice.?
So I'm getting invisalign but before that they have to remove my 3rd molars. I'm 15 so it still hasn't shown up yet it's still inside. I'm getting a surgery tom. And I know the surgery won't hurt that much. But I want to know what are the after effects. Like will my face be really swelling? What kinds of food would I be able to eat. By the way I'm getting all my 4 molars out so that's all sides.Hey guys I really need advice.?
There will be a little swelling a few days after the surgery, but that should go down fairly quickly. Also for the first few days you will be limited in what you can eat, but this should only be for a week or two. If you have any more questions then you should ask your dentist.lips
There will be a little swelling a few days after the surgery, but that should go down fairly quickly. Also for the first few days you will be limited in what you can eat, but this should only be for a week or two. If you have any more questions then you should ask your dentist.
I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
Okay I go to school in miami but Im from a different city. Back in November i met this awesome guy and we started talking for about 3 weeks and during that period of time we saw each other every other day. Well I had to leave n december and go back home for winter break. Which was 3 weeks. During that time the man called me twice and we would causually text each other. I just got back in miami yesterday so i figured would let him know i was back. Well i sent him a text dat said hey yesteday and he has yet to respond. He has two cellphones. So should I call him , send him another text saying that im in town, or should i just brush him off. I really dont wont to chase after him.I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
I think that you should try to call to see if he is using the number on which you sent the text. If it is off, try on the other cellphone. If not, then don't make any further step.. It's his turn now..I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
dont chase after him but maybe u could call him at a time that u two would normally chill.... if he answers just say hey, how was ur break, blah blah... maybe we could chill soon or now or whatever u feel comfortable saying. if u get his voicemail, leave a message. if u dont and he doesnt return ur call it will just drive u nuts. leave a message in u very chill voice just sayin that ur back in town, just wanted to see what he was up to, maybe grab a drink or somethin. tell him to hit u up when he gets a chance. after that, forget about him until he calls u back.
well if he's not replying then just let it go
call him once. if he does not respond move on
if u really like him then kall him and if he answers casually say that ur in town and wait and c if he gets tha hint that u want 2 meet up,it doesnt sound like he thinks u 2 r serious or anything and that he sees u as a friend for now,if he doesnt answer ur kall or kall bak den jus 4get about him
I think that you should try to call to see if he is using the number on which you sent the text. If it is off, try on the other cellphone. If not, then don't make any further step.. It's his turn now..I need advice from a guys and girl point of view asap?
dont chase after him but maybe u could call him at a time that u two would normally chill.... if he answers just say hey, how was ur break, blah blah... maybe we could chill soon or now or whatever u feel comfortable saying. if u get his voicemail, leave a message. if u dont and he doesnt return ur call it will just drive u nuts. leave a message in u very chill voice just sayin that ur back in town, just wanted to see what he was up to, maybe grab a drink or somethin. tell him to hit u up when he gets a chance. after that, forget about him until he calls u back.
well if he's not replying then just let it go
call him once. if he does not respond move on
if u really like him then kall him and if he answers casually say that ur in town and wait and c if he gets tha hint that u want 2 meet up,it doesnt sound like he thinks u 2 r serious or anything and that he sees u as a friend for now,if he doesnt answer ur kall or kall bak den jus 4get about him
I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
So there's this guy in one of my college classes, and I think he's kinda cute. He sits on the TOTAL opposite side of the classroom from me. But when his seat is taken, he'll come sit by me. We've made eye contact ALOT! I'll be looking at him, then he looks at me, or I turn to look at him, and he's already looking at me. We haven't said two words to each other yet. I said thank you once when he held the door open for me, and he said thank you once when i moved my stuff so he could sit in the seat behind me. But other than that, we've said nothing. I kinda wanna get to know him, but I don't know how to. He sits far from me, so i can't do small chit chat. And I can't talk to him after class, because I don't want to make it seem obvious that I'm kinda into him. And I don't even know if he knows i exist. He hasn't done anything to show interest in me besides looking at me and sitting by me when his seats not available, but that can all just be luck. He might not have any interest in me at all what so ever. How can I know? I'm not drop dead gorgeous and skinny. Im just average...and curvaceous. So I don't know what to do. Girls, how would you handle this situation without making it seem obvious. And guys, how would to want a girl to handle this without it seeming weird or anything like that? Any other comments or advice by anyone would be great! Thanks! =)I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
Just be nice, say hi more often, ask him if he will go to lunch with you or such. Again, talk to him more, he could be shy and thats probably why he avoids talking.I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
well from my perspective as being a guy my whole life, guys dont want to just go up to a girl unless theres some reason or if she hints that she wants to talk like if you did something that would strike up a conversation with him then he should take advantage of that then boom relationship right there for you
do you know his name???
next time he sits next to you, just ask a few simple questions, like 'Hi, i'm blah blah' or 'nice weather. eh?'. then get into the conversation. try to make him feel welcome to sit next to you regularly. then just ease into things. the key is to be friendly.
hope this helps. :)
Just say hi to him,talk abot class, make convo, tell him you think he is cute and offer to have a bite to eat with him.
ask him if you could borrow a pen or something..or after a test ask him how he tought it went...or ask him before a test if he studied and say good luck right before you write it..its not that tough...most guys don't like shy girls..so just try to make convo
Maybe when he sit's next to you ask him for some help with maths
Well, get to know him by communicating but remember that a lot of communication is through body language!! Look confident but not too confident so don't slouch keep your shoulders upright but make sure it is comfortable. Make sure you choose the right moment or there it could be very awkward. Do attempt not to blush and if you feel embarrassed then end the conversation subtly. Next time you get the chance simply tell him your name ie. when he says thank you for something.
Best of luck
LG x
there really isn't a weird way to handle this. you're just psyching yourself out thinking too much about it. if i was in his position, it would be best if she just said hey and introduced herself (best time would be when he comes back to sit by you) but either way, an introduction would be a great first step. it doesn't seem obvious that you're into him that way and he won't be weirded out bc you're only introducing yourself. anything could happen afterwords. maybe he'll end up asking you if you want to grab lunch or if not, you could always make the move (never a bad thing, some guys are just shy, i would know, it happens lol) i hope this helped
my suggestion would be to be yourself. maybe you can try starting up a conversation with him on those days he sits by you or try to just be around him more so you can strike up a conversation. just introduce yourself and make small talk about the class sometime before or after class. i wouldn't just go over to him to just start talking to him but maybe walk near him and start talking or ask for help with the homework or what the assignment was or something like that then you can start talking more and more. This is a hard situation many peole are in. Do you have any friends that know him or anyother way of getting closer to him. just don't seem to anxious or to scared. be yourself.
Just be nice, say hi more often, ask him if he will go to lunch with you or such. Again, talk to him more, he could be shy and thats probably why he avoids talking.I Need Advice! (Girls and Guys BOTH please answer)?
well from my perspective as being a guy my whole life, guys dont want to just go up to a girl unless theres some reason or if she hints that she wants to talk like if you did something that would strike up a conversation with him then he should take advantage of that then boom relationship right there for you
do you know his name???
next time he sits next to you, just ask a few simple questions, like 'Hi, i'm blah blah' or 'nice weather. eh?'. then get into the conversation. try to make him feel welcome to sit next to you regularly. then just ease into things. the key is to be friendly.
hope this helps. :)
Just say hi to him,talk abot class, make convo, tell him you think he is cute and offer to have a bite to eat with him.
ask him if you could borrow a pen or something..or after a test ask him how he tought it went...or ask him before a test if he studied and say good luck right before you write it..its not that tough...most guys don't like shy girls..so just try to make convo
Maybe when he sit's next to you ask him for some help with maths
Well, get to know him by communicating but remember that a lot of communication is through body language!! Look confident but not too confident so don't slouch keep your shoulders upright but make sure it is comfortable. Make sure you choose the right moment or there it could be very awkward. Do attempt not to blush and if you feel embarrassed then end the conversation subtly. Next time you get the chance simply tell him your name ie. when he says thank you for something.
Best of luck
LG x
there really isn't a weird way to handle this. you're just psyching yourself out thinking too much about it. if i was in his position, it would be best if she just said hey and introduced herself (best time would be when he comes back to sit by you) but either way, an introduction would be a great first step. it doesn't seem obvious that you're into him that way and he won't be weirded out bc you're only introducing yourself. anything could happen afterwords. maybe he'll end up asking you if you want to grab lunch or if not, you could always make the move (never a bad thing, some guys are just shy, i would know, it happens lol) i hope this helped
my suggestion would be to be yourself. maybe you can try starting up a conversation with him on those days he sits by you or try to just be around him more so you can strike up a conversation. just introduce yourself and make small talk about the class sometime before or after class. i wouldn't just go over to him to just start talking to him but maybe walk near him and start talking or ask for help with the homework or what the assignment was or something like that then you can start talking more and more. This is a hard situation many peole are in. Do you have any friends that know him or anyother way of getting closer to him. just don't seem to anxious or to scared. be yourself.
Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
so, I was searching , then I found one , is not very far from my place , so
what will you advice me about Tai CHi ???
can I get high jumps with it ???
please help
thx for everyone asnwring to me,,.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi under a good instructor is a great style,
it is not something you learn overnight, and takes time to understand and use it,
there are several styles of tai chi with out knowing which one it is difficult to say what to expect.
traditionally high jumps were only used to take people on horse back or on higher ground.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi isn't very fast nor jumpy art. matter in fact you'll notice that it's more of a meditation than your average martial art. and to make things worse if you find a wrong master you'll be only training for health. if you find a right person you'll learn a lot of complex ideas, but it'll be hard to understand most of it without fighting experience.
for high jumps and flashy attacks try other kung fu (shaolin) or TKD.
AVOID
what will you advice me about Tai CHi ???
can I get high jumps with it ???
please help
thx for everyone asnwring to me,,.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi under a good instructor is a great style,
it is not something you learn overnight, and takes time to understand and use it,
there are several styles of tai chi with out knowing which one it is difficult to say what to expect.
traditionally high jumps were only used to take people on horse back or on higher ground.Finlay I found martial arts Dojo, but is only Tai Chi ,, so guys what will you advice me ? ?
tai chi isn't very fast nor jumpy art. matter in fact you'll notice that it's more of a meditation than your average martial art. and to make things worse if you find a wrong master you'll be only training for health. if you find a right person you'll learn a lot of complex ideas, but it'll be hard to understand most of it without fighting experience.
for high jumps and flashy attacks try other kung fu (shaolin) or TKD.
AVOID
Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
Go up to a guy your interested in, start a conversation find out his interests. then say you enjoyed talking to him and ask for his number or you give him yours.Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
Be yourself, and don't think of it as ';picking up guys';. You'll attract the wrong type of guy.
The best thing to do before you start to date is sit down and make up a mental list of what it is your looking for.
Just be happy with yourself, be confident and healthy, and eventually a guy will come along that fits your list :)Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
I agree - just be yourself. Getting guys to like you can be really easy if you know what they're attracted to. There's a book called ';Catch Him and Keep Him'; about the psychology of what attracts men that you should check out. It's full off specific ways to communicate with a man that will instantly amplify the attraction he feels for you and help move things quickly and smoothly...
Here's the link: http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/453/CD2043/%26amp;dp=26226
Good luck with your pick up success!
James
Go to parties and dances, other things like that (clubs if you are old enough).
Make sure you talk to a lot of guys and dance with a lot of guys.
you should just be yourself,do not try to act like somebody else.just hang out with some guys and let them come to you.
Be yourself, and don't think of it as ';picking up guys';. You'll attract the wrong type of guy.
The best thing to do before you start to date is sit down and make up a mental list of what it is your looking for.
Just be happy with yourself, be confident and healthy, and eventually a guy will come along that fits your list :)Who has advice for me on picking up guys?
I agree - just be yourself. Getting guys to like you can be really easy if you know what they're attracted to. There's a book called ';Catch Him and Keep Him'; about the psychology of what attracts men that you should check out. It's full off specific ways to communicate with a man that will instantly amplify the attraction he feels for you and help move things quickly and smoothly...
Here's the link: http://affiliates.hottopicmedia.com/z/453/CD2043/%26amp;dp=26226
Good luck with your pick up success!
James
Go to parties and dances, other things like that (clubs if you are old enough).
Make sure you talk to a lot of guys and dance with a lot of guys.
you should just be yourself,do not try to act like somebody else.just hang out with some guys and let them come to you.
Helppp! Any advice from teen guys?
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been fighting about the more random sh*t on earth. The only thing I ask of him is to be there for me when I need someone. And everytime i need him he always says whatever. Like what the eff?I have gotten to the point to where it bugs me so much I can only be kinda a b*tch. Cause when he needs me, I am there for him. Like I go to his baseball games and get him late at night to be together and get him when he is in trouble. And when I just need someone to talk to he is never there... What do I do? I don't want to end it with him cause I love him more then anything in the world. Any ideas?
Thanks..Helppp! Any advice from teen guys?
im not a guy. but i think you should talk to him about itHelppp! Any advice from teen guys?
Poking small children with sticks solves every problem.
Thanks..Helppp! Any advice from teen guys?
im not a guy. but i think you should talk to him about itHelppp! Any advice from teen guys?
Poking small children with sticks solves every problem.
I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
Im 14 and havent had a real relationship, is that awkward/weird/a turnoff for guys who have been in many relationships and/or are older [for me a datable guy is between 14-16 maybe 17 idk my schools pretty laid back about ages]
[if it helps a lot of people are shocked when i tell them that ive never had a real boyfriend because of my personality/looks/etc.]
[i would also consider myself to be attractive...im not being vain here..just honest]I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
Hun that's not a turn-off at all!
I'm 18 and have never had a real relationship, yet I was asked out five times in the past few months. I turned them all down for various reasons (the guy I liked most turned out to be a player, another is the only guy in school who I can honestly say I hate for his over-confidence, and three others whom I just CAN'T think of as anything more than a friend).I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
No its not a turn off to all guys. Most guys older than you it will be a turn off simply b/c they dont want to be your ';first love'; and have you all clingy to them. others may not care and just want to take advantage of you. you need to be on the look out and not so trusting when it comes to dating older guys. Although, every once in awhile there will be someone who wont mind a girl inexperienced in relationships. and he wont want to take advantage of you either :) i hope you find him soon :)
dating is a pain, it is strenuous, and a lot of work. but dont rush things, take your time getting to know the person, you will date a lot of ppl, i know that you have heard it before, but it is true, i have dated numerous people, and looking back after all the heartbreak and all the pain i would have it no other way because i wouldnt be the person i am today, i am not that much older then you, but when you start dating people i have found only one thing that is a constant, ';dont date a person more then once'; because if it doesnt work the first time then it wont work the second time,
i will leave you with one saying that i think is very true
it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all
to some guys maybe but for most i doubt it is. and not too many 14 your old have relationships those usually start happening around the age of 16, but no its really not a turn off guys like girls that didnt go with the whole class...(just being honest) but i wouldnt rush a relationship becasue of your peers, a relationship will happen when it does, dont go looking for one just to ';fit in';.
I didn't get a boyfriend until I turned 15 [my current age] and he's turning 19 next week. So being inexperienced in relationships isn't really a factor. I don't think anyone would assume that someone without relationship experience would be a bad person to be in a relationship with. In fact, I'd think that most would agree that it's better that way. A clean slate, if you will.
I didn't get kissed until I was 14 and didn't have a relationship till I was about 15/16. My first bf I was a sophomore in high school. Not a turn off not anything bad or unusual. I think people that are younger think that a relationship at 14 is like cool or something just have one when you are more mature and have grown up you got plenty of time before drama starts to kick in and everything else.
omg 14 is not weird to have never had a real relationship. youre only young! dont worry about it, the right guy will come along when its time. you have plenty of time for that to happen. just take it easy and have fun. there are heaps of girls that havent had a relationship at 14 and a seriously doubt its a turn off. if anything, it will probably make guys want you more because they could see u as hard to get. and people dont know that if you dont tell them, so theres no need to think that guys know that about you when they see you. dont worry
Hey Audi.....the way i see it is, is that you are only 14 years old, you dont need to have a boyfriend.....and whoever is shocked is pretty stupid... you are still a young...wait some more....the time will come trust me i know.......didnt have a bf till i was 17.....and now im 18 and still going out with the F#!% Head. The point is....is that you have forever to get a bf....the key is to let them chase you....%26amp; keep them guessing! hope i helped if not sorry
I cannot understand why anyone would be shocked to learn that you've never had a real boyfriend, even tho you may be attractive and have personality. 14 yrs. old is still very young. Don't bring up the subject, and if someone ask, just shrug your pretty little shoulders 'n tell them that ';Prince Charmin' is searchin' for his boots.... or his horse. Whatever....';
It should be pretty normalfor a 14 year old to not have had a real relationship. It should'nt turn anyone off for anyone. A lot of guys would probably enjoy being the first person you get close to. but I'm only speaking for myself, I don't know how other guys would feel about it.
well... ive never had a bf either... T_T
but i think it has nothin o do with our looks or anything... sometimes i turn off guys when they start to confess to me, i laugh, i LAUGH... haha... then i run...
haha
uhm.. you can start if you have friends that are boys? ask them to introduce you?
im also 14 and never had a real relationship, and i think it wouldnt matter. if you like each other why would past experience matter? if your a nice person and people find you attractive you should'nt have any trouble getting into one
okayy im the same way
only im 15, but never had a real relationship or first kiss, all that
but when i tell people, they dont believe me
but idk i think some guys think its like cute? like that they get to be first. idk but they dont seem to care
being inexperienced isn't a turnoff, usually it's quite the opposite. boys your age only want one thing and they usually love a conquest. if i were you, i'd stay within my age range and only go after guys who are 14-15.
nah i don't think it would be awkward or anything and it definatly wouldn't be a turnoff.
give up on guys, you havent had a boyfriend and you wont.
they hate you.
to me it wouldn't really matter
i don't thnk its wierd or a turn off at all... if anything the oppositelips
[if it helps a lot of people are shocked when i tell them that ive never had a real boyfriend because of my personality/looks/etc.]
[i would also consider myself to be attractive...im not being vain here..just honest]I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
Hun that's not a turn-off at all!
I'm 18 and have never had a real relationship, yet I was asked out five times in the past few months. I turned them all down for various reasons (the guy I liked most turned out to be a player, another is the only guy in school who I can honestly say I hate for his over-confidence, and three others whom I just CAN'T think of as anything more than a friend).I need advice...preferably from guys but girls can help too! Is this a turn off?
No its not a turn off to all guys. Most guys older than you it will be a turn off simply b/c they dont want to be your ';first love'; and have you all clingy to them. others may not care and just want to take advantage of you. you need to be on the look out and not so trusting when it comes to dating older guys. Although, every once in awhile there will be someone who wont mind a girl inexperienced in relationships. and he wont want to take advantage of you either :) i hope you find him soon :)
dating is a pain, it is strenuous, and a lot of work. but dont rush things, take your time getting to know the person, you will date a lot of ppl, i know that you have heard it before, but it is true, i have dated numerous people, and looking back after all the heartbreak and all the pain i would have it no other way because i wouldnt be the person i am today, i am not that much older then you, but when you start dating people i have found only one thing that is a constant, ';dont date a person more then once'; because if it doesnt work the first time then it wont work the second time,
i will leave you with one saying that i think is very true
it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all
to some guys maybe but for most i doubt it is. and not too many 14 your old have relationships those usually start happening around the age of 16, but no its really not a turn off guys like girls that didnt go with the whole class...(just being honest) but i wouldnt rush a relationship becasue of your peers, a relationship will happen when it does, dont go looking for one just to ';fit in';.
I didn't get a boyfriend until I turned 15 [my current age] and he's turning 19 next week. So being inexperienced in relationships isn't really a factor. I don't think anyone would assume that someone without relationship experience would be a bad person to be in a relationship with. In fact, I'd think that most would agree that it's better that way. A clean slate, if you will.
I didn't get kissed until I was 14 and didn't have a relationship till I was about 15/16. My first bf I was a sophomore in high school. Not a turn off not anything bad or unusual. I think people that are younger think that a relationship at 14 is like cool or something just have one when you are more mature and have grown up you got plenty of time before drama starts to kick in and everything else.
omg 14 is not weird to have never had a real relationship. youre only young! dont worry about it, the right guy will come along when its time. you have plenty of time for that to happen. just take it easy and have fun. there are heaps of girls that havent had a relationship at 14 and a seriously doubt its a turn off. if anything, it will probably make guys want you more because they could see u as hard to get. and people dont know that if you dont tell them, so theres no need to think that guys know that about you when they see you. dont worry
Hey Audi.....the way i see it is, is that you are only 14 years old, you dont need to have a boyfriend.....and whoever is shocked is pretty stupid... you are still a young...wait some more....the time will come trust me i know.......didnt have a bf till i was 17.....and now im 18 and still going out with the F#!% Head. The point is....is that you have forever to get a bf....the key is to let them chase you....%26amp; keep them guessing! hope i helped if not sorry
I cannot understand why anyone would be shocked to learn that you've never had a real boyfriend, even tho you may be attractive and have personality. 14 yrs. old is still very young. Don't bring up the subject, and if someone ask, just shrug your pretty little shoulders 'n tell them that ';Prince Charmin' is searchin' for his boots.... or his horse. Whatever....';
It should be pretty normalfor a 14 year old to not have had a real relationship. It should'nt turn anyone off for anyone. A lot of guys would probably enjoy being the first person you get close to. but I'm only speaking for myself, I don't know how other guys would feel about it.
well... ive never had a bf either... T_T
but i think it has nothin o do with our looks or anything... sometimes i turn off guys when they start to confess to me, i laugh, i LAUGH... haha... then i run...
haha
uhm.. you can start if you have friends that are boys? ask them to introduce you?
im also 14 and never had a real relationship, and i think it wouldnt matter. if you like each other why would past experience matter? if your a nice person and people find you attractive you should'nt have any trouble getting into one
okayy im the same way
only im 15, but never had a real relationship or first kiss, all that
but when i tell people, they dont believe me
but idk i think some guys think its like cute? like that they get to be first. idk but they dont seem to care
being inexperienced isn't a turnoff, usually it's quite the opposite. boys your age only want one thing and they usually love a conquest. if i were you, i'd stay within my age range and only go after guys who are 14-15.
nah i don't think it would be awkward or anything and it definatly wouldn't be a turnoff.
give up on guys, you havent had a boyfriend and you wont.
they hate you.
to me it wouldn't really matter
i don't thnk its wierd or a turn off at all... if anything the opposite
I need advice! can u guys help me?
ok ummm... i have a friend call Andrea shes a 16 year old mexican girl,i like her but she doesnt know it, her lil sister told me boys get nervous around her too.but shes 2 years older than me. when im around her, i dont know what to talk about , can u guys give me advice.
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please no jokes !I need advice! can u guys help me?
.As she older than you.Then listen,concentrate and pay attention to what she says to you
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please no jokes !I need advice! can u guys help me?
.As she older than you.Then listen,concentrate and pay attention to what she says to you
Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
my ex boyfriend, who has had a history of cheating in the past, and i just went on a break because he is going out of state for half the summer and doesn't think it will ';work'; while hes gone. i told him i would never cheat on him, and i never have, but he still doesnt want to stay together... so i told him while hes gone im not going to wait for him, and that i dont know if i will still be single when he comes back. well, i just found out that hes talking to this one girl a lot that he has liked in the past and he knows im weird about her. i havent talked to him really since the breakup but i dont know if i should be mad about this... is this a bad sign since he has cheated in the past? or is this okay since we arent together and i told him i may not be single when he gets back? im not sure if we are just on a break or if we are finding other people.
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
Give him all the space he needs to keep cheating on you.
Dump him now!
He will never be loyal to you.
Move ahead with your life.
Without him in it.Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
time to move on sweety, and still if you have doubts and feel like you love him, then talk to him. playing thoughts in your mind won't help you in anything else than going crazy.
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
Give him all the space he needs to keep cheating on you.
Dump him now!
He will never be loyal to you.
Move ahead with your life.
Without him in it.Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
time to move on sweety, and still if you have doubts and feel like you love him, then talk to him. playing thoughts in your mind won't help you in anything else than going crazy.
I need good advice from both girls and guys?
do you think that iof a girl broke up with her bf and she is still having sex wit him do you think it is slutty?I need good advice from both girls and guys?
that depends if she is seeing some one else too. other wise no it just means she still cares for her ex and is confused about if she really wants him or not.so this girl better get her f'ckn sh%26amp;t straight.I need good advice from both girls and guys?
I believe sex is for married ppl.
Yes. 'She' is offending me as a girl! No girl shoudl give herself away to someone she doesn't even want to DATE! PLEASE! If he's not worth dating, he's not worth having sex with.
yes they should break it off it's over. If their still clinging it makes them look desperate
that depends if she is seeing some one else too. other wise no it just means she still cares for her ex and is confused about if she really wants him or not.so this girl better get her f'ckn sh%26amp;t straight.I need good advice from both girls and guys?
I believe sex is for married ppl.
Yes. 'She' is offending me as a girl! No girl shoudl give herself away to someone she doesn't even want to DATE! PLEASE! If he's not worth dating, he's not worth having sex with.
yes they should break it off it's over. If their still clinging it makes them look desperate
Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
Ok so everything started last year (as in school year 07-08) with this boy, I鈥檝e known him before that but I never really noticed him. We talked all of that year and I noticed we had a lot in common, we read each other鈥檚 minds, and I felt some chemistry. That鈥檚 when I started liking him more than a friend. At times, our conversations online would get heated but sometimes it would be awkward because I guess one person may or may not have liked the other. But the summer of 08, he went away and it was kinda on a bad note, so I stopped liking him. But when he came back, and the school year began, we talked again and then eventually I liked him all over again. We talk every now and then, like twice a week, I still like him. Problem is last month we had a long conversation, and he admit so much to me: that he really really really really really really liked me, and I admit I liked (not like) him, but then he also said he likeS this girl now, at the same time, he never said he stopped liking me. He said he was really confused, and he said he thought I was 鈥榯oo good鈥?for him. This convo was very important because he spoke the truth and I鈥檓 sure of it. Now, here I am still liking him, and I have no idea whether he likes me more than a friend or not. Girls, is it worth waiting because I think I almost love him and I know it could work it if we are in it together? And guys, how do you show a girl you like her, and what makes you determine which girl you like more than a friend and which one you don鈥檛? I鈥檝e been dreaming about him for the past few days, and now he鈥檚 on my mind a lot...please help :)Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
I would say if he might like another girl not to get wrapped up in him. It sounds like you are pretty good friends and that can be a really good thing. I would wait to see if he is just looking for a girlfriend or if he is looking to date you... make sure there is a difference. Plus if you stay open to new guys you might find someone better and not waste any more time waiting for him to decide. Basically my suggestion is to wait while looking.Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
im in the same boat right now actually,
except we went out for a couple months.
but im starting to notice other guys
because im getting tired of waiting.
I think that's what you need to do.
I would say if he might like another girl not to get wrapped up in him. It sounds like you are pretty good friends and that can be a really good thing. I would wait to see if he is just looking for a girlfriend or if he is looking to date you... make sure there is a difference. Plus if you stay open to new guys you might find someone better and not waste any more time waiting for him to decide. Basically my suggestion is to wait while looking.Guys and girls, i need your advice with a guy who i like..?
im in the same boat right now actually,
except we went out for a couple months.
but im starting to notice other guys
because im getting tired of waiting.
I think that's what you need to do.
***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
The guy I have been dating for the past 6 months is on dialysis. He is 32 and I am 19 (20 in Feb! whoo hoo!). I like him a lot, he is a good guy, but has been on dialysis for over 7 YEARS!! He is on disability, lives with his parents( although he has a house, he just doesnt have enough mony to pay for the heating bill he ran up LAST WINTER!)...and his car BARELY runs. I on the other had, am employeed fulltime and go to college at night. I do not what ho be his girlfriend any longer, but I dont want to hurt him, and he is on dialysis and I hear you dont live very long on it. He is a good guy, nice, but has NO ambition, no LIFE! (Oh, and he has a bad habit of gambling...VERY BAD%26gt;)....what do I do? Can I be his friend?...How did I tell him that I dont love him like b.f. and g.f.'s do?....HELP!!!***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
Don't call him.
Don't do Anything...
When he calls you on the phone, be polite.
If he asks you out on a date, make sure he knows you are not paying anymore.
If he bulks at that, say that it is not fair that you do ALL the work and he reaps all the benefits.
He is a freeloader and is USING you.
Gambling is MUCH more important than you are to him.
Why would ANYONE EVER want to Date anyone else that has NO LIFE.
That means that you would have NO Life too.
GO meet people. Go out and make new friends, both Girls and Boys.
Have fun, be responsible, pay your bills, Don't talk about your Ex Boyfriend AT ALL.
In Other words, Go Have a Life...
His parents will take care of him if you Stop.
If he cares enough to ask why you don't see him anymore, be honest with him. It sounds like he needs it.
No fall for his pitty party anymore.
He is not on Dialysis 24hours a day 7 days a week.
If he has time for gambling, he has time to run a web based business or sell stuff on Ebay or SOMETHING to earn cash to pay the Bills.
He could alwasy sell the house to earn money too. (BUT, I am sure he would just gamble it away).
If he is addicted to gambling, the best friend you can be is stop being an enabler..
Call Gamblers annonamous for him. You can learn some things how to quit helping him to gamble.
Good Luck.
P.S. Find someone your own age that you have something in common with.***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
well it is not a real relationship and does he use his condition to keep u around nice guy?u say sounds like a cretin to me sorry to say.but ur so wrong he has feelin's i know but u gotta look after urself loose him luv he is gonna live long time it wont kill him he has his heater.
well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
I agree with answerman, find someone your own age.
Dialysis is no picnic, but I'm pretty sure it isn't a death sentence. This guy sounds like he may just be looking for sympathy wherever he can find it.
You owe it to yourself and to him to let him know where he really stands with you. It totally sucks to have to lay it out to him, but it seems he has the kind of personality that could easily drag you down.
You seem to be an intelligent and thoughtful person. I know you will be able to handle this situation the right way. He may get upset with you, but that could be a good thing. It might wake him up to what's going on (or not going on) in his life.
Does he kiss you? Next time he tries kisses you, I would say ';Bob, we need to talk'; and then just be honest with him and tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that it just isn't going to work.
wow, thats a hard position ur in, just be honest with him, tell him that you feel like that at your age u may/or that u want to find someone who is closer to your age. be honest with him, listen to your heart, God works in mysterious ways, he might get better in the future and if u think u have a good thing going dont let his sickness scare you away. think of it this way, what if u got married to someone else and they got sick, would u leave him? remember better or for worse, i do understand your not married to him. tell him that your feelings have changed for him, but you want to be his friend and u will be there for him if he has kids he will or maybe will understand. tell him you gotta do whats best for you that its just not clickin anymore. the truth hurts but it must be spoken, put yourself in his shoes. if felt this way what would you want him to do.... seriously think about that, how would u want to be told... just a thought, good luck
Sounds to me like you are just sticking around out of pity. If he weren't on dialysis, would you be with a guy like that? You owe it to yourself to find someone you really want to be with. You also owe it to him to be honest.
You sound like you really care. Have the courage to talk to him. Let it be his decision if he wants to stay friends after you tell him that he's not a good match for your future. It's okay to let go when you know you are not a match.
u go tell him directly coz no one dies from love,trust me
Don't break it to him when he is about to kiss you, first mistake. Don't say stuff like, ';I want us to be close firends..'; or anything like that. That is way worse. You could do something completely wrong by cheating on him, and have him dump you. (use only as a very last result.) That is wrong I know, but he would then be more mad than angry. (which may give him a motive to live.) I would talk to him on the phone because then he won't keep calling you because of a letter, and not in person cause he may act tough, but he would be crushed. Better on the phone, so he can cry without being seen. So I say don't become friends for a long time, don't bring it up untill he finds someone else. (I'm a guy who has been dumped before, I know what would work really well.)
you should be honest, honesty is very important. you shouldn't let your true feelings cause feelings of guilt. He may know already he's dying and not make permanant attachments. You have enough valid points to warrant a breakup without his sickness coming into play. Don't make it an issue, don't let it become one. Be quick, and firm. Don't stay w/ someone out of a sense of guilt. peace
Wow...that's a tough situation you're in! First of all, if a guy is a slacker, he's NOT worth being with - dialysis or not. Second, if you don't have ';romantic'; feelings for him...there's no point in continuing the relationship! The best thing you can do is just be honest with him - tell him that you don't have feelings for him ';that'; way, but that you would like to remain friends. He may not like that, but at least you tried! Also, if he asks you why...tell him! Someone with no ambition in life needs to know that it is a turn-off to most people. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders...find someone like you! Good luck :)
Be honest and tell him that the last thing you want is to hurt him, but that you are not attracted to him and that you want to end it
Don't call him.
Don't do Anything...
When he calls you on the phone, be polite.
If he asks you out on a date, make sure he knows you are not paying anymore.
If he bulks at that, say that it is not fair that you do ALL the work and he reaps all the benefits.
He is a freeloader and is USING you.
Gambling is MUCH more important than you are to him.
Why would ANYONE EVER want to Date anyone else that has NO LIFE.
That means that you would have NO Life too.
GO meet people. Go out and make new friends, both Girls and Boys.
Have fun, be responsible, pay your bills, Don't talk about your Ex Boyfriend AT ALL.
In Other words, Go Have a Life...
His parents will take care of him if you Stop.
If he cares enough to ask why you don't see him anymore, be honest with him. It sounds like he needs it.
No fall for his pitty party anymore.
He is not on Dialysis 24hours a day 7 days a week.
If he has time for gambling, he has time to run a web based business or sell stuff on Ebay or SOMETHING to earn cash to pay the Bills.
He could alwasy sell the house to earn money too. (BUT, I am sure he would just gamble it away).
If he is addicted to gambling, the best friend you can be is stop being an enabler..
Call Gamblers annonamous for him. You can learn some things how to quit helping him to gamble.
Good Luck.
P.S. Find someone your own age that you have something in common with.***ANOTHER TRICKY QUESTION!!**** post-teenage advice**HELP PLEASE guys this one is hard!?
well it is not a real relationship and does he use his condition to keep u around nice guy?u say sounds like a cretin to me sorry to say.but ur so wrong he has feelin's i know but u gotta look after urself loose him luv he is gonna live long time it wont kill him he has his heater.
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well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
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well i hear it all the time and i would say it's just another sob story.
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I agree with answerman, find someone your own age.
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Dialysis is no picnic, but I'm pretty sure it isn't a death sentence. This guy sounds like he may just be looking for sympathy wherever he can find it.
You owe it to yourself and to him to let him know where he really stands with you. It totally sucks to have to lay it out to him, but it seems he has the kind of personality that could easily drag you down.
You seem to be an intelligent and thoughtful person. I know you will be able to handle this situation the right way. He may get upset with you, but that could be a good thing. It might wake him up to what's going on (or not going on) in his life.
Does he kiss you? Next time he tries kisses you, I would say ';Bob, we need to talk'; and then just be honest with him and tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but that it just isn't going to work.
wow, thats a hard position ur in, just be honest with him, tell him that you feel like that at your age u may/or that u want to find someone who is closer to your age. be honest with him, listen to your heart, God works in mysterious ways, he might get better in the future and if u think u have a good thing going dont let his sickness scare you away. think of it this way, what if u got married to someone else and they got sick, would u leave him? remember better or for worse, i do understand your not married to him. tell him that your feelings have changed for him, but you want to be his friend and u will be there for him if he has kids he will or maybe will understand. tell him you gotta do whats best for you that its just not clickin anymore. the truth hurts but it must be spoken, put yourself in his shoes. if felt this way what would you want him to do.... seriously think about that, how would u want to be told... just a thought, good luck
Sounds to me like you are just sticking around out of pity. If he weren't on dialysis, would you be with a guy like that? You owe it to yourself to find someone you really want to be with. You also owe it to him to be honest.
You sound like you really care. Have the courage to talk to him. Let it be his decision if he wants to stay friends after you tell him that he's not a good match for your future. It's okay to let go when you know you are not a match.
u go tell him directly coz no one dies from love,trust me
Don't break it to him when he is about to kiss you, first mistake. Don't say stuff like, ';I want us to be close firends..'; or anything like that. That is way worse. You could do something completely wrong by cheating on him, and have him dump you. (use only as a very last result.) That is wrong I know, but he would then be more mad than angry. (which may give him a motive to live.) I would talk to him on the phone because then he won't keep calling you because of a letter, and not in person cause he may act tough, but he would be crushed. Better on the phone, so he can cry without being seen. So I say don't become friends for a long time, don't bring it up untill he finds someone else. (I'm a guy who has been dumped before, I know what would work really well.)
you should be honest, honesty is very important. you shouldn't let your true feelings cause feelings of guilt. He may know already he's dying and not make permanant attachments. You have enough valid points to warrant a breakup without his sickness coming into play. Don't make it an issue, don't let it become one. Be quick, and firm. Don't stay w/ someone out of a sense of guilt. peace
Wow...that's a tough situation you're in! First of all, if a guy is a slacker, he's NOT worth being with - dialysis or not. Second, if you don't have ';romantic'; feelings for him...there's no point in continuing the relationship! The best thing you can do is just be honest with him - tell him that you don't have feelings for him ';that'; way, but that you would like to remain friends. He may not like that, but at least you tried! Also, if he asks you why...tell him! Someone with no ambition in life needs to know that it is a turn-off to most people. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders...find someone like you! Good luck :)
Be honest and tell him that the last thing you want is to hurt him, but that you are not attracted to him and that you want to end it
Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
my ex boyfriend, who has had a history of cheating in the past, and i just went on a break because he is going out of state for half the summer and doesn't think it will ';work'; while hes gone. i told him i would never cheat on him, and i never have, but he still doesnt want to stay together... so i told him while hes gone im not going to wait for him, and that i dont know if i will still be single when he comes back. well, i just found out that hes talking to this one girl a lot that he has liked in the past and he knows im weird about her. i havent talked to him really since the breakup but i dont know if i should be mad about this... is this a bad sign since he has cheated in the past? or is this okay since we arent together and i told him i may not be single when he gets back? im not sure if we are just on a break or if we are finding other people.
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
First off, if you aren't together then he's not cheating on you. Second off why don't you move on. It doesn't sound like theres any great qualities in this guy that should even keep you wanting a relationship with him.. Your young go out and find some other fish. A break is a break. I doubt he's gonna pass up any opportunites to hook up with other girls while he's gone.lips
someone PLEASE help me. im really confused..i dont know if i should forget about him or talk to him about it or just give him his space...Please help me. guys mostly. i need advice about a guy?
First off, if you aren't together then he's not cheating on you. Second off why don't you move on. It doesn't sound like theres any great qualities in this guy that should even keep you wanting a relationship with him.. Your young go out and find some other fish. A break is a break. I doubt he's gonna pass up any opportunites to hook up with other girls while he's gone.
GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
please your man. What are different ways that you know your guy can be more pleased. Any Advice please??GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
To be honest...help train your man to not only be pleased, but on how to truly please you.
Guide him to slow down...we as guys get caught up in the adrenaline of pleasure and thus tend to go to fast.
Now all guys have their own key turn ons.
One key pitfall, is changing your mind. If you start down the road of sexual pleasure with some mood setting of foreplay, don't change your mind and suddenly say no. This is frustrating and tends to truly harm a relationship.
If the mood from you is NO...then make it a no at the start...NO TEASING!!!
On another note, some guys like to watch!!! Be provacative, even to the point of pleasuring yourself while he watches!!!
Also while you are in your act of Sexual pleasure...feel free to use very naughty words...';F@#K ME!!!'; things of this nature...this is a major turn on!!!
Guys have low self esteem, so constantly praise him...even if he really sucks...no pun intended...teach him how to be better, but use positive feedback to get him there.
If you really want to do something wild...do something in public...you'ld be amazed at what hands can do under a table at a restaurant!!!GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
To me that's something specific to the individual and you'd probably know better than anyone what your husband or significant other regards as important. Some men are pleased by just being left alone. Others it's sex. Some want to escape being criticized for something. Some may wish for more compliments or recognition for what they do. Me? My wife pleases me when she's 'there' and looking happy, because then I feel that maybe I'm to some degree instrumental in her happiness. That's all I need.
try fun places, the bench in front of the police station is alot of fun good luck.
treat him speacial everyday.
Have to test drive first to see the rough points.
just be hot that is all you need.
Ice is always good !!!!!!
getting naked is always a good thing
Ask him what he likes, and if you agreed you can please him
Being there for the good times and bad times.
blow jobs work
To be honest...help train your man to not only be pleased, but on how to truly please you.
Guide him to slow down...we as guys get caught up in the adrenaline of pleasure and thus tend to go to fast.
Now all guys have their own key turn ons.
One key pitfall, is changing your mind. If you start down the road of sexual pleasure with some mood setting of foreplay, don't change your mind and suddenly say no. This is frustrating and tends to truly harm a relationship.
If the mood from you is NO...then make it a no at the start...NO TEASING!!!
On another note, some guys like to watch!!! Be provacative, even to the point of pleasuring yourself while he watches!!!
Also while you are in your act of Sexual pleasure...feel free to use very naughty words...';F@#K ME!!!'; things of this nature...this is a major turn on!!!
Guys have low self esteem, so constantly praise him...even if he really sucks...no pun intended...teach him how to be better, but use positive feedback to get him there.
If you really want to do something wild...do something in public...you'ld be amazed at what hands can do under a table at a restaurant!!!GUYS do you have any advice for better ways to...?
To me that's something specific to the individual and you'd probably know better than anyone what your husband or significant other regards as important. Some men are pleased by just being left alone. Others it's sex. Some want to escape being criticized for something. Some may wish for more compliments or recognition for what they do. Me? My wife pleases me when she's 'there' and looking happy, because then I feel that maybe I'm to some degree instrumental in her happiness. That's all I need.
try fun places, the bench in front of the police station is alot of fun good luck.
treat him speacial everyday.
Have to test drive first to see the rough points.
just be hot that is all you need.
Ice is always good !!!!!!
getting naked is always a good thing
Ask him what he likes, and if you agreed you can please him
Being there for the good times and bad times.
blow jobs work
Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
So I like this guy and we were - or still might be in a relationship. He's been telling me that he loves me and stuff and I think I love him too. I haven't talked to him in about maybe 3 days or more. I texted him the other day and I asked him why haven't we been talking much and he said he's been busy - but other than that we haven't talked at all. I'm thinking about just giving up on him or should I wait till he talks to me?Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
I'd just wait , three days is nothinnn .
hes probably just either tryin to make you jealous or seeing if you're still interested so just wait and see. Dont just give up on someone you love cause they havent talked to you in 3 days ...Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
3 days is nothing jst wait
If he doesn't call or text you within the next 3 days, then he met somebody else or just isn't interested anymore. Let him go. Most young men are not as loyal or devoted as young women. They are quick to go chasing another woman just for the hell of it. You deserve much better than this, love.
I'd just wait , three days is nothinnn .
hes probably just either tryin to make you jealous or seeing if you're still interested so just wait and see. Dont just give up on someone you love cause they havent talked to you in 3 days ...Boy Problems. Guys or Girls - I need some advice.?
3 days is nothing jst wait
If he doesn't call or text you within the next 3 days, then he met somebody else or just isn't interested anymore. Let him go. Most young men are not as loyal or devoted as young women. They are quick to go chasing another woman just for the hell of it. You deserve much better than this, love.
Cooking tips & advice for single guy?
My little brother who's been living on his own pretty much survive on take out %26amp; fast food. I'm trying to tell him to start saving money %26amp; eat healthier (he put on a little weight too) by eating in %26amp; cooking himself, but the only two things he can cook right now are fried eggs %26amp; heat up frozen pizza. I just need some hint %26amp; tips as to what suggestion or tips I can provide him as far as eating healthier %26amp; stop wasting money eating out. Thx...Cooking tips %26amp; advice for single guy?
I can understand where he's coming from. I remember when as an adult I thought I couldn't cook or just didn't know how, other than to heat up pizza or open a can of chili. What changed my life was getting a Better Homes %26amp; Gardens cookbook and my cousin getting me a subscription to Bon Appetit. I discovered I could cook!
I wouldn't recommend Bon Appetit anymore for a starter cook. Check out the Quick Cooking or Taste of Home magazines. They're simple and good and have nutritional information in them, and lots of tips and hints.
Another good series is the ';365'; series of cookbooks. I have 365 Great 20-Minute Recipes, 365 Ways To Cook Pasta, and 365 Easy One-Dish Meals.
Hopefully those will get him off to a great start in cooking!Cooking tips %26amp; advice for single guy?
Pasta is the easiet thing to make and not very expensive. noodles and a jar of sauce and it's good for you.
momof4
Well just remember anytime that you eat out it most likely isn't going to be to healthy. Salads, Taco Salad, Chicken, Turkey and stuff like that would be good. You might want to get him some cook books that might help as well. Or you can go to keyword on the computer and put in ';recipes'; and it will bring up alot of good stuff. I hope this helps. Have a great day!
here are a few quick easy recipes for someone whose NOT so kitchen friendly or tired/lazy
Steak( season it with wahtever he likes, and throw it on the oven on 400 degrees for 35 minutes)
linguinie %26amp; clam sauce (linguinie noodles, boil for 10 min- buy clam sause in the can red/white, heat in a pot for 8 minutes (until hot) and bam a nice pasta recipe. which will last for at least 2 days:;)
wing flings (tiny wingettes (about 30 in each bag) season, flour, throw them in a pot of oil, and you have friend chicken. or season and place them on a cookie sheet for 30 minutes and put them in the oven!
Buy him a crock pot. They are the best. He can make a big pot of chili, or stew with little or no effort. They even have some frozen crock pot meals in the stores - just add water.
Dump everything in before work, and when he gets home, dinner.
Also, get him some storage containers for the fridge or freezer. A pot of chili makes more than enough for 1 or 2 meals. But if he freezes it, then he can pull it out as needed. Saves money, and tastes better than any store bought chili!
I bought a little indoor grill and it really helped me out. They are quite affordable, too! I eat at home more now because it's just easier to cook, and the novelty of grilling is fun. The grill doesn't take skill either. You turn in on high (always) and put the food on it when it's hot. Turn the food over once. Done.
Here's a link to the one I got:
http://www.amazon.com/Zojirushi-EB-CC15-鈥?/a>
Once you have that fun little gadget, you can go grocery shopping!
The first thing you need is simple cajun seasoning (or seasoned salt). I just put it on everything I grill and it's easy.
Next, get meat:
From Costco/Sams I get bags of frozen chicken tenderloins. They defrost in 5 minutes (run cold water over them) and 2-3 is a good portion.
Besides that, any meat like Pork chops, steaks, etc, will work well. Just season the meat on both sides and toss it on the grill.
Canned Veggies and bread finish the healthy meal off.
This all takes 20-30 minutes.
Enjoy!
I'm a single man.Try Healthy choice dinner, Smart one, Lean cuisines. They are always on sale in super markets. They are microwavable. Try making sandwiches at home instead of fast food. I put together, turkey and cheese and romaine lettuce leaf with fat free salad dressing. I make instant Jello pudding for dessert after dinner. very easy to make.Bake a potato in the oven at 2 hours at 350 or 1 hour at 400. light sour cream chives, and smart balance. steam vegetable 15 - 25 minutes. Just get motivated once you get the hang of it he'll feel much better in his energy and moods.
I can understand where he's coming from. I remember when as an adult I thought I couldn't cook or just didn't know how, other than to heat up pizza or open a can of chili. What changed my life was getting a Better Homes %26amp; Gardens cookbook and my cousin getting me a subscription to Bon Appetit. I discovered I could cook!
I wouldn't recommend Bon Appetit anymore for a starter cook. Check out the Quick Cooking or Taste of Home magazines. They're simple and good and have nutritional information in them, and lots of tips and hints.
Another good series is the ';365'; series of cookbooks. I have 365 Great 20-Minute Recipes, 365 Ways To Cook Pasta, and 365 Easy One-Dish Meals.
Hopefully those will get him off to a great start in cooking!Cooking tips %26amp; advice for single guy?
Pasta is the easiet thing to make and not very expensive. noodles and a jar of sauce and it's good for you.
momof4
Well just remember anytime that you eat out it most likely isn't going to be to healthy. Salads, Taco Salad, Chicken, Turkey and stuff like that would be good. You might want to get him some cook books that might help as well. Or you can go to keyword on the computer and put in ';recipes'; and it will bring up alot of good stuff. I hope this helps. Have a great day!
here are a few quick easy recipes for someone whose NOT so kitchen friendly or tired/lazy
Steak( season it with wahtever he likes, and throw it on the oven on 400 degrees for 35 minutes)
linguinie %26amp; clam sauce (linguinie noodles, boil for 10 min- buy clam sause in the can red/white, heat in a pot for 8 minutes (until hot) and bam a nice pasta recipe. which will last for at least 2 days:;)
wing flings (tiny wingettes (about 30 in each bag) season, flour, throw them in a pot of oil, and you have friend chicken. or season and place them on a cookie sheet for 30 minutes and put them in the oven!
Buy him a crock pot. They are the best. He can make a big pot of chili, or stew with little or no effort. They even have some frozen crock pot meals in the stores - just add water.
Dump everything in before work, and when he gets home, dinner.
Also, get him some storage containers for the fridge or freezer. A pot of chili makes more than enough for 1 or 2 meals. But if he freezes it, then he can pull it out as needed. Saves money, and tastes better than any store bought chili!
I bought a little indoor grill and it really helped me out. They are quite affordable, too! I eat at home more now because it's just easier to cook, and the novelty of grilling is fun. The grill doesn't take skill either. You turn in on high (always) and put the food on it when it's hot. Turn the food over once. Done.
Here's a link to the one I got:
http://www.amazon.com/Zojirushi-EB-CC15-鈥?/a>
Once you have that fun little gadget, you can go grocery shopping!
The first thing you need is simple cajun seasoning (or seasoned salt). I just put it on everything I grill and it's easy.
Next, get meat:
From Costco/Sams I get bags of frozen chicken tenderloins. They defrost in 5 minutes (run cold water over them) and 2-3 is a good portion.
Besides that, any meat like Pork chops, steaks, etc, will work well. Just season the meat on both sides and toss it on the grill.
Canned Veggies and bread finish the healthy meal off.
This all takes 20-30 minutes.
Enjoy!
I'm a single man.Try Healthy choice dinner, Smart one, Lean cuisines. They are always on sale in super markets. They are microwavable. Try making sandwiches at home instead of fast food. I put together, turkey and cheese and romaine lettuce leaf with fat free salad dressing. I make instant Jello pudding for dessert after dinner. very easy to make.Bake a potato in the oven at 2 hours at 350 or 1 hour at 400. light sour cream chives, and smart balance. steam vegetable 15 - 25 minutes. Just get motivated once you get the hang of it he'll feel much better in his energy and moods.
Hey you guys i need some advice... which one should i get?
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2.http://www.c28.com/productimages/filigree%20key.jpg
the first one is a mustard seed in the middle, you know that verse with the faith as small as a mustard seed and stuff, and the second one is pretty too. please help you guysHey you guys i need some advice... which one should i get?
the second one is def. prettier but the first one has more meaning to it and is more of a conversational piece
happy shopping =]Hey you guys i need some advice... which one should i get?
i like the second one but the first one to
cuz the verse
if you have faith stronger than a mustard seed you can move mountans/ a mountain soooo
idk thats realy hard hmmm
i think the 2nd one
I like the first one....it's simple and makes a statement.....had to flip back and forth as they both are nice.....first one.
ooo! 2nd! wayyyyy cutee!
second one!!! i like the second one way better!
theye are both awsome, if you can, buy both.
I really like the 2nd one:)
i love the second one way better
#2 for sure..!
# 2 !
2.http://www.c28.com/productimages/filigree%20key.jpg
the first one is a mustard seed in the middle, you know that verse with the faith as small as a mustard seed and stuff, and the second one is pretty too. please help you guysHey you guys i need some advice... which one should i get?
the second one is def. prettier but the first one has more meaning to it and is more of a conversational piece
happy shopping =]Hey you guys i need some advice... which one should i get?
i like the second one but the first one to
cuz the verse
if you have faith stronger than a mustard seed you can move mountans/ a mountain soooo
idk thats realy hard hmmm
i think the 2nd one
I like the first one....it's simple and makes a statement.....had to flip back and forth as they both are nice.....first one.
ooo! 2nd! wayyyyy cutee!
second one!!! i like the second one way better!
theye are both awsome, if you can, buy both.
I really like the 2nd one:)
i love the second one way better
#2 for sure..!
# 2 !
I NEED BETTER ADVICE COME on guyS!!!!!!?
I don't know what to think. You?
I met this guy while I was away in college and i fell head over heels. I really didn't want him to know but One of my friends told him I had something to tell him and he went searching for me. lol i told him he was attractive and he said thanks to me and patted me on my shoulder so i was like ??? Then I went up to him again that night and told him I was scared to tell him what I really had to say lol i finally told him right then.. he looked shocked when i told him i liked him.. i saw his eyes glister in shock n disbelief. he said ';thats what u was scared to say?'; and i was like yeah... then we ended up play fighting after i told him. I was crushed that night because he didn't tell me anything. Everytime he saw me after that he spoke and played with me. den he missed my b-day party n he told people he was comin and didnt go.. i got mad at him n ignored him wen he spoke to me or tried to play with me. Im wondering did he ever have something 4 me? i still think about him sometimes. =[I NEED BETTER ADVICE COME on guyS!!!!!!?
i don't think soI NEED BETTER ADVICE COME on guyS!!!!!!?
my advice is...go shopping ,i bet your a good shopper
Sorry but i don't think he feels the same way. If he did he probably woulda admitted it when you did, i mean if he knew you werent gonna reject him then there would be no reason not to. and the reason why he keeps talking to you, %26amp; maybe even flirting with you, is either because he wants you to still be friends %26amp; doesn't want you to feel bad, OR that he's keeping you around ';just in case.';
no, i think he looks at you as a friend. you were very upfront and honest, no way he misunderstood, so if he didn't act on your disclosure then he really isn't interested in a romantic relationship.
be patient, there will be others and a few of them will return your feelings. you deserve someone that feels towards you as you feel towards them. good luck
Nope. He probably was attracted to you but didn't like you ';like that.'; So he was probably tempted to have sex but decided not to. Be thankful.
sounds like he missed an opportunity for an interesting relationship....
move along now people.. nothing more to see here...
obviously the guy just does not want to hurt your feelings... and the best way he knows how is make you feel he really is not that important to you, like when he missed your birthday party. he doesn't quite really know how to deal with it.
he did not respond to when you told him you like him because he may not really feel the same. you can't expect someone to just say, 'i like you back';.
it's time to move on. he's not worth your while... because if he is, he might already have told you he has feelings for you too, and you may already be a couple by now.
yeah! buddy we gurlzavenue group like to help you..!
see as according what you wrote to us we like to suggest you to go to that guy and ask him with a sweet voice that why for what reson he missed your birthday party.(he may had some problem or else at that point of your birthday he had shortage of money to gift you...if you like him by heart... then you must ask this to him..
reply us what about next
he might like you due to the fact that u like him, but, i think his reaction of shock, is not to ur favour.
guys back away from girls that are that front first and full on. its scary..
if ur wondering if he loves you or shares feelings of the same nature, then i dont think he does.....play fighting, as much fun as it seems, isnt that great of an inlet, he prpbably,most likely likes you phisically due to (play fighhting) but no emotional connection has been established that more deep feelings stem from
if he truly liked u or had deep enough feelings he would of come to ur b'day. if he told pple/u that he would,and didnt then it shows that he dosnt really respect you or plans...its bes not to get involved wit pple like that
as much as this hurts to say this, he's not worth ur time and he IS jerking you around.
sorry that i had to giv such a pessimistic point of veiw
:(
I really think, he does not have much feelings for you.. He is just trying to be a brother
he is acting like a child... dont worry get over him!!! see my yahoo 360 if intrested e-mail me
I met this guy while I was away in college and i fell head over heels. I really didn't want him to know but One of my friends told him I had something to tell him and he went searching for me. lol i told him he was attractive and he said thanks to me and patted me on my shoulder so i was like ??? Then I went up to him again that night and told him I was scared to tell him what I really had to say lol i finally told him right then.. he looked shocked when i told him i liked him.. i saw his eyes glister in shock n disbelief. he said ';thats what u was scared to say?'; and i was like yeah... then we ended up play fighting after i told him. I was crushed that night because he didn't tell me anything. Everytime he saw me after that he spoke and played with me. den he missed my b-day party n he told people he was comin and didnt go.. i got mad at him n ignored him wen he spoke to me or tried to play with me. Im wondering did he ever have something 4 me? i still think about him sometimes. =[I NEED BETTER ADVICE COME on guyS!!!!!!?
i don't think soI NEED BETTER ADVICE COME on guyS!!!!!!?
my advice is...go shopping ,i bet your a good shopper
Sorry but i don't think he feels the same way. If he did he probably woulda admitted it when you did, i mean if he knew you werent gonna reject him then there would be no reason not to. and the reason why he keeps talking to you, %26amp; maybe even flirting with you, is either because he wants you to still be friends %26amp; doesn't want you to feel bad, OR that he's keeping you around ';just in case.';
no, i think he looks at you as a friend. you were very upfront and honest, no way he misunderstood, so if he didn't act on your disclosure then he really isn't interested in a romantic relationship.
be patient, there will be others and a few of them will return your feelings. you deserve someone that feels towards you as you feel towards them. good luck
Nope. He probably was attracted to you but didn't like you ';like that.'; So he was probably tempted to have sex but decided not to. Be thankful.
sounds like he missed an opportunity for an interesting relationship....
move along now people.. nothing more to see here...
obviously the guy just does not want to hurt your feelings... and the best way he knows how is make you feel he really is not that important to you, like when he missed your birthday party. he doesn't quite really know how to deal with it.
he did not respond to when you told him you like him because he may not really feel the same. you can't expect someone to just say, 'i like you back';.
it's time to move on. he's not worth your while... because if he is, he might already have told you he has feelings for you too, and you may already be a couple by now.
yeah! buddy we gurlzavenue group like to help you..!
see as according what you wrote to us we like to suggest you to go to that guy and ask him with a sweet voice that why for what reson he missed your birthday party.(he may had some problem or else at that point of your birthday he had shortage of money to gift you...if you like him by heart... then you must ask this to him..
reply us what about next
he might like you due to the fact that u like him, but, i think his reaction of shock, is not to ur favour.
guys back away from girls that are that front first and full on. its scary..
if ur wondering if he loves you or shares feelings of the same nature, then i dont think he does.....play fighting, as much fun as it seems, isnt that great of an inlet, he prpbably,most likely likes you phisically due to (play fighhting) but no emotional connection has been established that more deep feelings stem from
if he truly liked u or had deep enough feelings he would of come to ur b'day. if he told pple/u that he would,and didnt then it shows that he dosnt really respect you or plans...its bes not to get involved wit pple like that
as much as this hurts to say this, he's not worth ur time and he IS jerking you around.
sorry that i had to giv such a pessimistic point of veiw
:(
I really think, he does not have much feelings for you.. He is just trying to be a brother
he is acting like a child... dont worry get over him!!! see my yahoo 360 if intrested e-mail me
Advice about a guys behaviour please?
Basically I was laying on my best friends bed with him and another female friend when a little drunk, talking etc, and myself and my male friend were playing with each others feet with our own, like a game of footsie i guess, haha.
I know that I like him, quite a bit, so my behaviour was flirting with him. But because my male friend (who i reckon doesn't like me, because he does know i like him but has never said he likes me in that way) was drunk, what does this suggest about how he feels about me? was it likely just to be the alcohol or anything deeper? we spent the whole night cuddling before he fell asleep.Advice about a guys behaviour please?
prob likes youAdvice about a guys behaviour please?
its kind of hard to tell. but alcohol or not cuddling is cudddling!
and maybe the fact that you both were a little drunk is good because they say that when people are drunk their true feelings and attitude come out! =)
That could just be a reaction to the alcohol...most people get pretty cuddly when drunk. I wouldn't think too much of it. Just kinda act normal...no flirting or anything like that. If he already knows you like him and IF he is starting to feel the same way you might want to keep him guessing just for a little while and see how he is acting.
ask him out for coffee instead of drinks, and see how it goes! ;)
answer mine?
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if alcohol had to be the thing to get you two togethe, then it's not worth it. wait and see if things happen WITHOUT THE ALCOHOL.
alcohol, its does amazing things to people. most likely it was the alcohol. but hey, mention it to him and see what his reaction, if its good, maybe he does like you.
Sometimes the alcohol brings out your true emotions and feelings towards a person so could be both! Maybe you should ask him about it so you know where you stand!?
when im drunk or high i cant control my true feelings
i want to tell this girl what i feel, and just kiss her
so i think it was his true feelings
I hate to break it to you, but it was most likely the alchohol =//
Try asking him how he feels about you (when he's sober)
i dont know but i need boy advice
I think it was the alcohol :(
Talk to him about it...
Not alcohol, well, maybe. 2 pts for me.lips
I know that I like him, quite a bit, so my behaviour was flirting with him. But because my male friend (who i reckon doesn't like me, because he does know i like him but has never said he likes me in that way) was drunk, what does this suggest about how he feels about me? was it likely just to be the alcohol or anything deeper? we spent the whole night cuddling before he fell asleep.Advice about a guys behaviour please?
prob likes youAdvice about a guys behaviour please?
its kind of hard to tell. but alcohol or not cuddling is cudddling!
and maybe the fact that you both were a little drunk is good because they say that when people are drunk their true feelings and attitude come out! =)
That could just be a reaction to the alcohol...most people get pretty cuddly when drunk. I wouldn't think too much of it. Just kinda act normal...no flirting or anything like that. If he already knows you like him and IF he is starting to feel the same way you might want to keep him guessing just for a little while and see how he is acting.
ask him out for coffee instead of drinks, and see how it goes! ;)
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if alcohol had to be the thing to get you two togethe, then it's not worth it. wait and see if things happen WITHOUT THE ALCOHOL.
alcohol, its does amazing things to people. most likely it was the alcohol. but hey, mention it to him and see what his reaction, if its good, maybe he does like you.
Sometimes the alcohol brings out your true emotions and feelings towards a person so could be both! Maybe you should ask him about it so you know where you stand!?
when im drunk or high i cant control my true feelings
i want to tell this girl what i feel, and just kiss her
so i think it was his true feelings
I hate to break it to you, but it was most likely the alchohol =//
Try asking him how he feels about you (when he's sober)
i dont know but i need boy advice
I think it was the alcohol :(
Talk to him about it...
Not alcohol, well, maybe. 2 pts for me.
Advice needed...help! Guys and Girls?
I'm so sad and mad...i saw the guy i liked today at school and he was always shy and nervous with me, and he was today too. Today i saw him at the food court and texted him becuz i saw him walk outside i wrote ';hey i saw you where are you going now?'; becuz we had break at the same time. he never answered me i was so dissapointed. he tells me he misses me and all that crap.
I wanted to tell him that i liked him weeks in to school but im too mad too. Hes one of those shy guys, never had a gf etc. So i dont know what to do. I want him to want me and i dont know how to do that (maybe he already does i dont know) Any tips?
I told him to text me when he was on break and he never did. I dont get this guy.
Guys...what should i do? move on, or tell him i like him? or anything else i can do? please help
Should i stop texting him? (and i dont even do it often) and when i do he usaully answers
and thanks!Advice needed...help! Guys and Girls?
Tell him you like him, but don't be too obsessed with this. If he doesn't like you, move on. You're young, and chances are you'll probably find someone better for you later anyway.
I wanted to tell him that i liked him weeks in to school but im too mad too. Hes one of those shy guys, never had a gf etc. So i dont know what to do. I want him to want me and i dont know how to do that (maybe he already does i dont know) Any tips?
I told him to text me when he was on break and he never did. I dont get this guy.
Guys...what should i do? move on, or tell him i like him? or anything else i can do? please help
Should i stop texting him? (and i dont even do it often) and when i do he usaully answers
and thanks!Advice needed...help! Guys and Girls?
Tell him you like him, but don't be too obsessed with this. If he doesn't like you, move on. You're young, and chances are you'll probably find someone better for you later anyway.
Advice plZ!!!!???10points (guys and girls answers)?
okay I 've liked this guy from the begining of the year and today i asked him to sign my yearbook and he wrote Thanks for everything this year and being my buddy then he left his phone number and then walked with me and put his arm around me.today was the last full day of school and he kept coming over at lunch.im pretty sure he likes me becaise if the signs he's given mewe're both in highschool.why would he wait till the last day of school for him to give me his phone number?should I call him and if I do what should I say I definetly want to do something with him this summer?i'm thinking of giving my friend my number to give to him because she sees him for a final?Advice plZ!!!!???10points (guys and girls answers)?
oh now he has understood that this is the last time u two would be seeing each other....giving number means ';plz keep in touch or i will miss u';. get it girl. call him and ask him whether he would like to hang out with u just for fun. he definitely has feelings for u. dont make the mistake i did by relying on friends. do it all by yourself.
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GIRLFRIEND just call him! i mean he left the number for a reason but dont expect much he may just be up for a hookup but i mean you never know so just give him a call talk to him flirt i mean what can youu lose its summer!
phone him yourself and go straight to the point ,he has already giving you his phone number .what have you got to loose?
call him
u r right!
ask him the truth call him and say ';y did u put ur # in my book?';
yeah it definitly seems like he likes you..the only question is do you want him to text/call you or do you want to take that role? because i think your note thing with your number for the final is a really casual way of giving him ur number..just have your friend be like ';oh by the way she wanted me to give u this...'; and if he uses it then woohoo. but if he doesnt, dont be afraid to text/call him..and its the summer, if you guys hang out and then it doesnt work, you'll totally forget about it. but it does then hope everything will go the way you want it.
but if it turns out you dont want to do the cell thing..theres always facebook, myspace.
good luckk :]]
oh now he has understood that this is the last time u two would be seeing each other....giving number means ';plz keep in touch or i will miss u';. get it girl. call him and ask him whether he would like to hang out with u just for fun. he definitely has feelings for u. dont make the mistake i did by relying on friends. do it all by yourself.
can u answer mine now:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Advice plZ!!!!???10points (guys and girls answers)?
GIRLFRIEND just call him! i mean he left the number for a reason but dont expect much he may just be up for a hookup but i mean you never know so just give him a call talk to him flirt i mean what can youu lose its summer!
phone him yourself and go straight to the point ,he has already giving you his phone number .what have you got to loose?
call him
u r right!
ask him the truth call him and say ';y did u put ur # in my book?';
yeah it definitly seems like he likes you..the only question is do you want him to text/call you or do you want to take that role? because i think your note thing with your number for the final is a really casual way of giving him ur number..just have your friend be like ';oh by the way she wanted me to give u this...'; and if he uses it then woohoo. but if he doesnt, dont be afraid to text/call him..and its the summer, if you guys hang out and then it doesnt work, you'll totally forget about it. but it does then hope everything will go the way you want it.
but if it turns out you dont want to do the cell thing..theres always facebook, myspace.
good luckk :]]
Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?
he has a nickname for me it's not a cute one. he says hi to me when he is with his friends. he can be mean to me sometimes so i kinda ignored him when he did that but he still tried to talk to me even though he knew that i was trying to ignore him cause he was being mean to me.are these signs that he likes me?Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?
It's only your lack of years of experience that would help you understand that the attention you get from a guy is his way of flirting. Sometimes it's serious flirting and sometimes it's just being nice flirting.
The problem is in your perception of what he says and does. He thinks you get the meaning as he intends it. You might rather him tell you in a nice sweet honest sincere way; that he is very attracted to you both physically and emotionally and would like the chance to convince you of his attraction and make you feel loved and cared for on every spiritual level of your truly elegant and special feminine being. That he's been writing reams of poetry about how special you are to him and how he would love the chance to read some to you in the solarium when you can find the time and are interested . . . .But . . . that's probably not going to happen, right?
It's more like the guy is just growing out of the stage where we hit girls or pushed them down steal their Barbie's or step on their sandcastle to prove our affections and will get better with time and experience.
Take even the ';mean'; stuff as an attempt to flirt. We guys have such a problem with risking rejection from the simple declaration of our affections such as, ';You are pretty and I'm attracted to you and would like to get to know you better.'; We expect you would run howling to your friends about the new school freak if we did that or in the least, laugh in our face. You can correct him even if you keep it very subtle (not like his mom). When he does the mean thing, you can say ';It seems your style needs a little more polish or do you really intend to hurt my feelings with that kind of thing?'; Now this gives him the chance to straighten the thing out with the proper words. After all, he thinks or expects you to understand that he likes you in his own language. The book ';Men Are From Mars %26amp; Women Are From Venus'; explains the difference in verbal styles and languages of men and women.Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?
This happens alot. Boys act all mean but then are sweet. If you two are close friends then have one of his friends ask him if he likes you. If he does then take a shot and ask him out. I get in this situation alot. But if he has a girl friend already, wait until he asks you out.
yeah he denenently likes u boys do that a sing that a boy likes u is they act mean to u to get ur attention. i beat if u ask he;ll say he likes u
just talk to him about it dont let it get to you to much
It's only your lack of years of experience that would help you understand that the attention you get from a guy is his way of flirting. Sometimes it's serious flirting and sometimes it's just being nice flirting.
The problem is in your perception of what he says and does. He thinks you get the meaning as he intends it. You might rather him tell you in a nice sweet honest sincere way; that he is very attracted to you both physically and emotionally and would like the chance to convince you of his attraction and make you feel loved and cared for on every spiritual level of your truly elegant and special feminine being. That he's been writing reams of poetry about how special you are to him and how he would love the chance to read some to you in the solarium when you can find the time and are interested . . . .But . . . that's probably not going to happen, right?
It's more like the guy is just growing out of the stage where we hit girls or pushed them down steal their Barbie's or step on their sandcastle to prove our affections and will get better with time and experience.
Take even the ';mean'; stuff as an attempt to flirt. We guys have such a problem with risking rejection from the simple declaration of our affections such as, ';You are pretty and I'm attracted to you and would like to get to know you better.'; We expect you would run howling to your friends about the new school freak if we did that or in the least, laugh in our face. You can correct him even if you keep it very subtle (not like his mom). When he does the mean thing, you can say ';It seems your style needs a little more polish or do you really intend to hurt my feelings with that kind of thing?'; Now this gives him the chance to straighten the thing out with the proper words. After all, he thinks or expects you to understand that he likes you in his own language. The book ';Men Are From Mars %26amp; Women Are From Venus'; explains the difference in verbal styles and languages of men and women.Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?
This happens alot. Boys act all mean but then are sweet. If you two are close friends then have one of his friends ask him if he likes you. If he does then take a shot and ask him out. I get in this situation alot. But if he has a girl friend already, wait until he asks you out.
yeah he denenently likes u boys do that a sing that a boy likes u is they act mean to u to get ur attention. i beat if u ask he;ll say he likes u
just talk to him about it dont let it get to you to much
Advice on Busy Guys and Relationship?
So i recently met this guy.Its been almost two weeks,we've been talking we hung out this Weekend and everything going great we both agreed to take things slow and that friends is a great way to start things off n that if there are feelings they'll probably be presented soon enough.This guy is a year older than me and very active he has sports practice everyday for about two-three hours and has games three or four times a week.Hes a good student and makes the right grades.
Now normally when im getting to know a guy i either get feeling A or B.
A The popular quote ';He's just not that into me';
or
B Wow,just wow wow everythings going awesome
Well right now im very confused i completely understand and respect that he has a very busy life.Im fine with that consideringg im in three sports and is just as busy.
I havent gotten any bad signs like and believe me i know(or am pretty sure i do) the signs when a guy is losing interest or doesnt share the same feelings for you.Can anyone help me??
I pick up when guys change texting habits.
He''ll always use the ';!'; or ';:)';
He's very optimistic
ANyone with advice please respond
By the way I am 13 He is 15
I know how the stereotypical 15 year old and 13 year old would act but i think i can say were share an alot more mature relationship and value system compared to others our age
Thank youAdvice on Busy Guys and Relationship?
I think at that age you should just be friends and as you get older if something happens it just happens...I think he is right take it extra slow.....It seems like school is the most imporant thing on his mind and if so let that be it school is very important I dont think he wants a girlfriend I think he just wants a friend
Now normally when im getting to know a guy i either get feeling A or B.
A The popular quote ';He's just not that into me';
or
B Wow,just wow wow everythings going awesome
Well right now im very confused i completely understand and respect that he has a very busy life.Im fine with that consideringg im in three sports and is just as busy.
I havent gotten any bad signs like and believe me i know(or am pretty sure i do) the signs when a guy is losing interest or doesnt share the same feelings for you.Can anyone help me??
I pick up when guys change texting habits.
He''ll always use the ';!'; or ';:)';
He's very optimistic
ANyone with advice please respond
By the way I am 13 He is 15
I know how the stereotypical 15 year old and 13 year old would act but i think i can say were share an alot more mature relationship and value system compared to others our age
Thank youAdvice on Busy Guys and Relationship?
I think at that age you should just be friends and as you get older if something happens it just happens...I think he is right take it extra slow.....It seems like school is the most imporant thing on his mind and if so let that be it school is very important I dont think he wants a girlfriend I think he just wants a friend
Advice please seriously guys suck?
we dated for about a year and have been broken up for about three months. We do not see each other very often maybe like once or twice a month but when we do hangout we still act like we are together. He's told me that I was the best relationship he's ever been in, he says if he wanted anything or to be with anyone it's be me but he just doesn't want a relationship. He also has told me that when he's with me it's hard because he likes it and wants to be with me but when ever we're apart he knows he doesn't want to be in a relationship so it's sort of out of sight out of mind. I've told him that he makes me want to do things like motivates me to be better but he replies with saying the motivation he gives me takes away from him he spends too much time worrying about me and us rather than him alone and doesn't get done the things he needs too. I really don't think I ask or expect much from him and I was wondering and wanting advice on how I could maybe convince him that being in a committed relationship would be a good thing rather than bad?Advice please seriously guys suck?
Move out, find a house in a small town, buy 12 cats, and die alone. You said guys suck, right?
Just kidding.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. All you can do is present yourself the best you can. I know that's a crappy situation but it's all you can give. You can try talking to him again but don't go in thinking ';I WILL CHANGE HIS MIND';
And if you've been broken up for three months, its about time to move on. Try to give yourself some time.Advice please seriously guys suck?
He sounds immature. Let him be for a while at least. If he really loves you, he will agree to commit. If he doesnt he ll not wait and find another girl.
Now he doesnt know what he wants.
To keep you.. at the same time to be free.. Guess why?
You can't make him want something that he's said he doesn't want. It sounds like your just convient to him. He wants you when you're there, forgets about you when you're not? Hmmm...guys do suck haha.
He wants to have you when he wants and on his terms, but doesn't want you to be with anyone else.
Is it really that tough to figure it out?
its just like a hills episode!
Move out, find a house in a small town, buy 12 cats, and die alone. You said guys suck, right?
Just kidding.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. All you can do is present yourself the best you can. I know that's a crappy situation but it's all you can give. You can try talking to him again but don't go in thinking ';I WILL CHANGE HIS MIND';
And if you've been broken up for three months, its about time to move on. Try to give yourself some time.Advice please seriously guys suck?
He sounds immature. Let him be for a while at least. If he really loves you, he will agree to commit. If he doesnt he ll not wait and find another girl.
Now he doesnt know what he wants.
To keep you.. at the same time to be free.. Guess why?
You can't make him want something that he's said he doesn't want. It sounds like your just convient to him. He wants you when you're there, forgets about you when you're not? Hmmm...guys do suck haha.
He wants to have you when he wants and on his terms, but doesn't want you to be with anyone else.
Is it really that tough to figure it out?
its just like a hills episode!
Advice on pregnancy... guys help?
I am nineteen. My boyfriend and I met about two years ago, and he moved away a few months ago to college, but I stayed in my hometown (hes only about a hour away). I have had one miscarriage already and at that time we had decided on abortion, but did not go through with it because I lost the baby. I just found out I am 3 weeks pregnant. I havn't told him yet, because my heart is set on keeping the baby. I know he will want an abortion, but I know he won't leave me if I want to keep the baby. I am a little nervous, and am not sure how to tell him I have changed my mind on this one. Any advice from a guy maybe? Or a girl. Thank you.Advice on pregnancy... guys help?
If your boyfriend didn't want a child he should have used birth control when having sex with you. It seems like the two of you were not on the same page when it came to wanting a child in the first place.
You should confirm your pregnancy before telling him and then be honest about the fact that you are going to keep the baby.
Also, you should understand that raising a child at 19 is a big task - especially if you don't have support. You have yet to live your life and may want to do that after your child is here; remember that once a child is here, it's no longer about you - it's about that baby and the sacrifices you must make for him/her.
Confirm pregnancy and tell the father - it shouldn't be a surprise if you guys were having unprotected sex. All the best to you.Advice on pregnancy... guys help?
Don't tell him until you are a little further along. That may seem sneaky but if you are to far along for an abortion then that will keep that option off the table for sure. I would wait until about 12 wks along then tell him and explain that you want to keep the baby and you hope that he will still be there for you and the baby but you understand if he isn't ready.
It's his kid too, so he deserves to know immediately. If you decide to keep it, he deserves the option of helping to raise it. If he wants you to abort and you refuse, don't expect him to stick around just because he loves you. It's hard enough to be a parent when you want to be when, but when you don't, you eventually leave. So don't have this kid unless you're okay with being a single mom, because that's your probable future. Don't think you're any better than all the other nineteen-year-olds who got themselves into the same situation.
tell him. well i just dont think abortion should be a form of birth control but anyway if my girlfriend said that then id be like OK. i might not really want a baby at this point but i wouldn't be all crazy if she decided to keep it. just tell him and explain how you feel. you are kinda young though. i hope everything works out alright.
I had a friend who went through something similar.
Just tell him, in person though. Tell him your true feelings, whatever comes out from the heart and go from there. There's no way around it.
It worked out for my friend and I'm sure it will for you.
Good luck!
It's all good. You have made your choice and he can not change that. You guys just need to talk about it. If he does not want the baby, then that sucks for him because if he walks out then you get to go to the child support office and go after his *** when the baby comes. He has to realize that with having sex, there is the possibility of pregnancy and the possibility that the woman he had sex with keeping the baby. He made his bed so make him lay in it lol.
I'm proud of you for making the decision to keep this blessing. I can only pray that he will stay with you and help you raise him/her.
Good luck.
You should just tell him. I mean, he IS the father and it's something that needs to be said between you guys. First of all, this guy needs to grow up and man up to his responsibilities (so he HAS to support you) and your decision on the baby. It's your body and you decide on what you want (not him). SO it's best to tell him, but if he wants you to abort make sure you ignore him and follow your own heart. Remember that if you want to keep the baby and he won't support you, then he's not worth it and you always have support from your friends %26amp; family. god bless you and the health of you and your baby.
You will find that when you have a child, nothing in the world matters except your baby.
If your boyfriend is that mean as to make you have an abortion, WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL STUCK IN THE MIDDLE?
This guy is NOT RIGHT.
You will find the right guy, and he will accept the fact that there is a living baby inside you that certainly DOES NOT deserve to be literally crushed up in the most inhumane way.
Abortions are absolutely disgusting. They literally crush up a baby inside you. Thats like putting a baby in a blender, and cinsidering it legal. I dont understand why people can have an abortion like 2 weeks before delivery, but the second the baby comes out, crushing it up is considered murder.
JUst think about that.
This guy needs a good slap in the face (or a kick in the balls, whichever makes him wake up to himself).
He is immature, and obviously cant handle caring for a child.
If he cant handle a child now, do you still see a future for you and him with children?
I just thought i would let you know, that if you do have children together, wake up to yourself and have a good look at your child - this guy wouldnt have cared less if this bundle of joy was CRUSHED UP before birth. Do you still think that he actually appreciates him/her?
There are millions of women who cant have babies, so appreciate the fact that you are fertile.
What would you do if you had an abortion now, and in the future when you tried for a baby, you realised that you had lost your fertility due to the abortion? That can seriously happen, you know.
My advice is to tell this guy that there is a living being in you, and if he is so careless as to not give a sh!t if you get this baby terminated, you'll leave him. Its going to be hard, im not going to lie. But for the sake of the baby and its future, you are doing this for the better.
Move in with mum or a friend for the pregnancy, and dont less this situation stress you out - it could affect the baby.
Good luck and God bless xx
Next time use a condom or oral contraceptives. for 19 you seem very stupid.lips
If your boyfriend didn't want a child he should have used birth control when having sex with you. It seems like the two of you were not on the same page when it came to wanting a child in the first place.
You should confirm your pregnancy before telling him and then be honest about the fact that you are going to keep the baby.
Also, you should understand that raising a child at 19 is a big task - especially if you don't have support. You have yet to live your life and may want to do that after your child is here; remember that once a child is here, it's no longer about you - it's about that baby and the sacrifices you must make for him/her.
Confirm pregnancy and tell the father - it shouldn't be a surprise if you guys were having unprotected sex. All the best to you.Advice on pregnancy... guys help?
Don't tell him until you are a little further along. That may seem sneaky but if you are to far along for an abortion then that will keep that option off the table for sure. I would wait until about 12 wks along then tell him and explain that you want to keep the baby and you hope that he will still be there for you and the baby but you understand if he isn't ready.
It's his kid too, so he deserves to know immediately. If you decide to keep it, he deserves the option of helping to raise it. If he wants you to abort and you refuse, don't expect him to stick around just because he loves you. It's hard enough to be a parent when you want to be when, but when you don't, you eventually leave. So don't have this kid unless you're okay with being a single mom, because that's your probable future. Don't think you're any better than all the other nineteen-year-olds who got themselves into the same situation.
tell him. well i just dont think abortion should be a form of birth control but anyway if my girlfriend said that then id be like OK. i might not really want a baby at this point but i wouldn't be all crazy if she decided to keep it. just tell him and explain how you feel. you are kinda young though. i hope everything works out alright.
I had a friend who went through something similar.
Just tell him, in person though. Tell him your true feelings, whatever comes out from the heart and go from there. There's no way around it.
It worked out for my friend and I'm sure it will for you.
Good luck!
It's all good. You have made your choice and he can not change that. You guys just need to talk about it. If he does not want the baby, then that sucks for him because if he walks out then you get to go to the child support office and go after his *** when the baby comes. He has to realize that with having sex, there is the possibility of pregnancy and the possibility that the woman he had sex with keeping the baby. He made his bed so make him lay in it lol.
I'm proud of you for making the decision to keep this blessing. I can only pray that he will stay with you and help you raise him/her.
Good luck.
You should just tell him. I mean, he IS the father and it's something that needs to be said between you guys. First of all, this guy needs to grow up and man up to his responsibilities (so he HAS to support you) and your decision on the baby. It's your body and you decide on what you want (not him). SO it's best to tell him, but if he wants you to abort make sure you ignore him and follow your own heart. Remember that if you want to keep the baby and he won't support you, then he's not worth it and you always have support from your friends %26amp; family. god bless you and the health of you and your baby.
You will find that when you have a child, nothing in the world matters except your baby.
If your boyfriend is that mean as to make you have an abortion, WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL STUCK IN THE MIDDLE?
This guy is NOT RIGHT.
You will find the right guy, and he will accept the fact that there is a living baby inside you that certainly DOES NOT deserve to be literally crushed up in the most inhumane way.
Abortions are absolutely disgusting. They literally crush up a baby inside you. Thats like putting a baby in a blender, and cinsidering it legal. I dont understand why people can have an abortion like 2 weeks before delivery, but the second the baby comes out, crushing it up is considered murder.
JUst think about that.
This guy needs a good slap in the face (or a kick in the balls, whichever makes him wake up to himself).
He is immature, and obviously cant handle caring for a child.
If he cant handle a child now, do you still see a future for you and him with children?
I just thought i would let you know, that if you do have children together, wake up to yourself and have a good look at your child - this guy wouldnt have cared less if this bundle of joy was CRUSHED UP before birth. Do you still think that he actually appreciates him/her?
There are millions of women who cant have babies, so appreciate the fact that you are fertile.
What would you do if you had an abortion now, and in the future when you tried for a baby, you realised that you had lost your fertility due to the abortion? That can seriously happen, you know.
My advice is to tell this guy that there is a living being in you, and if he is so careless as to not give a sh!t if you get this baby terminated, you'll leave him. Its going to be hard, im not going to lie. But for the sake of the baby and its future, you are doing this for the better.
Move in with mum or a friend for the pregnancy, and dont less this situation stress you out - it could affect the baby.
Good luck and God bless xx
Next time use a condom or oral contraceptives. for 19 you seem very stupid.
This guy situation is strange need advice on two guys :) please help?
so...this guy and I have been talking....we both like each other but its confusing...we both broke up with our ex's about 1 1/2 months ago...and we want to just be friends for now until we get pass out ex's...we im/text/message each other all the time and we hang out. We flirt with each other the whole time...we just hang out and have fun...our night always ends with just a hug...we are haning out again tonight for the second day in a row....but we both still talk to our ex's is that bad?? and his ex message me the one day...and said stay away from him he's mine she's only 16 and immature (on her myspace she is in her underwear and bra= very unclassy) she is 3 years younger then him....but i still talk to me ex too...is that unhealthy and can me and the new guy work then?? For both of us in was a long relationship..and they both were our best friends. what do you guys think about thisThis guy situation is strange need advice on two guys :) please help?
u and him need to quit talkin 2 your ex's
u and him need to quit talkin 2 your ex's
ADVICE FROM A GUYS PERSPECTIVE?
i need advice. theres a guy and he has a gf. however, i know he finds me attractive. Last night was our last school dance. he was there and it was totally obvious that he kept looking for me. His gf is a year older so she doesnt go to our school. (We're Seniors in high school.) He came purposely near my group and wanted to try and get a dance with me. i didnt wanna throw myself at him so i kept my cool. Then he finally got closer and we ended up dancing together. he left for a bit, then all of a sudden showed up again outta nowhere. We danced with each other again. I am attracted to him but i know he has a gf. I'm not sure if he still wants to stay with her tho. So from a GUYS PERSPECTIVE or girls view, what does this mean??? Any advice would be very much appreciated. thanks! :)ADVICE FROM A GUYS PERSPECTIVE?
hello ashley!! from my perspective it means he likes you. the fact that he was at a dance and she was not there looks like it is on the rocks. another point in case, if he came over to your group and you believe he was trying to get a dance with you means he is interested enough in you to not worry about his relationship with her. one thing i would be careful of depending on the type of guy he is, if he thought you liked him enough to have sex with him regardless of his gf. i would seek him out or call him on the phone and tell him you were glad that you had a dance with him and ask him about his gf and the status of their relationship at this junction. perhaps they already broke up and he hasn't the nerve to tell other people that fact. be nice and kind, however i would not have a physical relationship with him at least until you know for sure the status of his prior relationship. good luck ashley.ADVICE FROM A GUYS PERSPECTIVE?
Never let anyone get in the way of what you want.
hello ashley!! from my perspective it means he likes you. the fact that he was at a dance and she was not there looks like it is on the rocks. another point in case, if he came over to your group and you believe he was trying to get a dance with you means he is interested enough in you to not worry about his relationship with her. one thing i would be careful of depending on the type of guy he is, if he thought you liked him enough to have sex with him regardless of his gf. i would seek him out or call him on the phone and tell him you were glad that you had a dance with him and ask him about his gf and the status of their relationship at this junction. perhaps they already broke up and he hasn't the nerve to tell other people that fact. be nice and kind, however i would not have a physical relationship with him at least until you know for sure the status of his prior relationship. good luck ashley.ADVICE FROM A GUYS PERSPECTIVE?
Never let anyone get in the way of what you want.
I'll be going to school in New York City this spring and would like any advice that you guys may have. Thanks!
make sure no 1 trys 2 hurt you (it happened to a friend of mine) but other than that go explore and have a great time!!I'll be going to school in New York City this spring and would like any advice that you guys may have. Thanks!
Go to a Broadway show, especially Phantom of the Opera. It's totally worth it!!I'll be going to school in New York City this spring and would like any advice that you guys may have. Thanks!
I went to school in NYC at age 17.
Hmmm.
1.The subway is not as scary as you may think. Get a metrocard for the month.
2. There are a lot of Jewish people in NYC %26amp; they like to ask you if you are Jewish also (I didn't know this).
3. You are going to eat a lot of bagels (I hadn't ever had that before either) and if you are living in a dorm, apples. bagels and apples, bagels and apples.
4. Say ';hi'; and ';thank you'; to the NYpd %26amp; fd. when you see them, they appreciate it.
5. spend as much time as you can walking the streets, there is nothing like walking, free, down a street in NY in summer, winter, any season is great. fall is great season for museums. .
What school? High school or college?
Anyway seriously, be yourself.
Everyone always say that, but in NYC you can actually do it.
I go to high school here and I have all my life and its great. Don't be scared about the subway, being alone at night. I've never had a problem with it at all. Anyway, if your coming in the spring, you must be a foreign exchange student. If you have any specfic questions, feel free to ask.
New YOrk City is great. I've lived here all my life. As long as you mind your own business and don't butt into anyone elses business no one will bother you and antoher thing, don't act up, that brews trouble. I'm in high school and through out all my years going to school in n.y.c, I haven't had any problems.
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Hi!
You would visit the Washington square in New York, It's really cool and the best of all there is situated the New York university.
carry mace
do not get pregnant, or get anyone pregnant.
Go on Broadway and see everything....my favorite Phantom of the Opera....I have seen it like 5 times there....4 times front row center....Oh also Les Mes, oh Beauty and Beast is good too! I liked Cats, but they are not there anymore. Visit everything....there is so much for you to do!
Make a budget for yourself. NYC can be expensive, and as a new student here it is very easy and tempting to burn through all your parents' money in a week.
Go to a Broadway show, especially Phantom of the Opera. It's totally worth it!!I'll be going to school in New York City this spring and would like any advice that you guys may have. Thanks!
I went to school in NYC at age 17.
Hmmm.
1.The subway is not as scary as you may think. Get a metrocard for the month.
2. There are a lot of Jewish people in NYC %26amp; they like to ask you if you are Jewish also (I didn't know this).
3. You are going to eat a lot of bagels (I hadn't ever had that before either) and if you are living in a dorm, apples. bagels and apples, bagels and apples.
4. Say ';hi'; and ';thank you'; to the NYpd %26amp; fd. when you see them, they appreciate it.
5. spend as much time as you can walking the streets, there is nothing like walking, free, down a street in NY in summer, winter, any season is great. fall is great season for museums. .
What school? High school or college?
Anyway seriously, be yourself.
Everyone always say that, but in NYC you can actually do it.
I go to high school here and I have all my life and its great. Don't be scared about the subway, being alone at night. I've never had a problem with it at all. Anyway, if your coming in the spring, you must be a foreign exchange student. If you have any specfic questions, feel free to ask.
New YOrk City is great. I've lived here all my life. As long as you mind your own business and don't butt into anyone elses business no one will bother you and antoher thing, don't act up, that brews trouble. I'm in high school and through out all my years going to school in n.y.c, I haven't had any problems.
learn ebonics
Hi!
You would visit the Washington square in New York, It's really cool and the best of all there is situated the New York university.
carry mace
do not get pregnant, or get anyone pregnant.
Go on Broadway and see everything....my favorite Phantom of the Opera....I have seen it like 5 times there....4 times front row center....Oh also Les Mes, oh Beauty and Beast is good too! I liked Cats, but they are not there anymore. Visit everything....there is so much for you to do!
Make a budget for yourself. NYC can be expensive, and as a new student here it is very easy and tempting to burn through all your parents' money in a week.
Need advice!!mostly from guys if possible but girls are welcome to.?
Me and my ex boyfriend dated for 2 years and 8 months. We broke up on New Years Eve and have been good friends ever since.But usually more then friends. He got to the point where he started to like another girl and it crushed me because he knew i still loved him but he said he didnt know if he felt the same way. Long story short now that he is starting to really get to know her he went from saying he thinks he might love her but she dosent feel the same to saying he dosent like her cause she is like blowing him off and acting like a *****. Now he is saying he is falling for me again but it dosent feel like he is being serious. I feel like he is just going for second best. Which sucks cause I already have problems with trusting guys. So I dont know if I should go back out with him because I still love him but I dont want him to treat me like a second medal and when he finds another gold medal he will dump me and move up.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? PLEASE HELP:(Need advice!!mostly from guys if possible but girls are welcome to.?
You given yourself an answer, you feel like a ';second meal'; a ';fifth wheel on a car'; right. Out of the relationship and only kept in as if all else fails.
How about doing the right thing cut lose the ties, and leave him. I am sure a bit of alone time might teach him something about life. I know this hurts you to but in the end it is better to find someone where you are first violin then fifth wheelNeed advice!!mostly from guys if possible but girls are welcome to.?
you can't fight it.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? PLEASE HELP:(Need advice!!mostly from guys if possible but girls are welcome to.?
You given yourself an answer, you feel like a ';second meal'; a ';fifth wheel on a car'; right. Out of the relationship and only kept in as if all else fails.
How about doing the right thing cut lose the ties, and leave him. I am sure a bit of alone time might teach him something about life. I know this hurts you to but in the end it is better to find someone where you are first violin then fifth wheelNeed advice!!mostly from guys if possible but girls are welcome to.?
you can't fight it.
MALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
I have a really bad temper and it seems like it gets worse and worse every time I get angry. I never get mad though and handle pretty much every situation by sitting down and talking about it to get straight to the matter then resolve it. I'm always laid back and very chill. It would take a lot to really piss me off. Friends have told me I don't even look like the same person anymore when I get mad and that I look dangerous and violent. I don't know what to do. This has effected relationships in my life and I don't want it to mess something up for me in the future.
I have completely broken a door off the hinges and still to this day am not sure how I did it. I've thrown a chair up against the wall and left a mark that looks like someone took an axe to the wall. All kind of cuss words and insults come flying out of my mouth. I can feel the veins popping out of my head and neck. I even have a sister who doesn't talk to me because to make a long story short we got into an argument and I busted her lip. She had to get stitches and four years later she still has a scar on her mouth. I feel terribly guilty about that. I do weight lifting for track and I'm getting really strong which doesn't help the situation. I punch punching bags to let out my anger and one of my guy friends (I went with him to the gym) was telling me I hit really hard and fast. I'm worried what I might do to someone if I ever fought them. I KNOW FOR A FACT I would NEVER kill anyone, but honestly I think I could really mess someone up. I don't know what to do.
Would this turn you off of a girl you liked?
What would you do if your girlfriend was like this? How would you handle it?
keep in mind I don't usually ever get madMALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
As long as you don't act tough and all sassy and like madea from those movies, it's not too big of a deal. My cousins BF is bipolar, and she says they do fine.
I have completely broken a door off the hinges and still to this day am not sure how I did it. I've thrown a chair up against the wall and left a mark that looks like someone took an axe to the wall. All kind of cuss words and insults come flying out of my mouth. I can feel the veins popping out of my head and neck. I even have a sister who doesn't talk to me because to make a long story short we got into an argument and I busted her lip. She had to get stitches and four years later she still has a scar on her mouth. I feel terribly guilty about that. I do weight lifting for track and I'm getting really strong which doesn't help the situation. I punch punching bags to let out my anger and one of my guy friends (I went with him to the gym) was telling me I hit really hard and fast. I'm worried what I might do to someone if I ever fought them. I KNOW FOR A FACT I would NEVER kill anyone, but honestly I think I could really mess someone up. I don't know what to do.
Would this turn you off of a girl you liked?
What would you do if your girlfriend was like this? How would you handle it?
keep in mind I don't usually ever get madMALE ADVICE: What do guys think about dating a girl with a serious anger management problem?
As long as you don't act tough and all sassy and like madea from those movies, it's not too big of a deal. My cousins BF is bipolar, and she says they do fine.
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why or why not should i forgive himNeed advice from both guys and girls (easy 10 points for best answer)?
That guy is a such a jerk. Why did you get in trouble, too? Seems like you didn't deserve to be at all.
Letter form is not as sincere as if he did it face to face. He probably did it to cover himself.
I wouldn't forgive a guy for doing that. He did it intentionally and he pushed by swearing and being so mean. He didn't gain anything from it, he acted like an immature idiot.
Don't forgive him. Ignore him,.
Best of luck.
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No, I would never ever forgive him, he's a jerk. He probably only gave you the apology letter because the principal said to, and he also did it in public even more reason to not forgive him. If I was you I wouldn't even talk to him anymore, he didn't do that becasue he liked you cause when a boy teases sometimes they don't do it that harsh. I hope you didn't get in trouble you didn't do anything wrong. He also probably did that so he could give a excuse to the principal or make you feel bad. He's crazy you must be a beautiful young lady, if I was a boy I would had never said that I would have been a gentlemen.
First of all, this guy is a hater. He somehow finds joy in other people's misery or lack of self confidence. I think he doesn't need an apology, nor does he deserve one. If anything, he deserves to be kicked in the nuts.
Second, I would never tell a girl that, although I have said some stupid things to some girls, and the consequences where painful. So at this point i would be too afraid to tell a girl something like that. I do know that girls like to know that they're pretty, so in a guy's case, it would be smarter to lie anyway.
Ok, here is my opinion...
What that guy said to you was immature and just plain STUPID! Guys who bully girls probably have major confidence issues of their own. And kudos for your answer, that was brilliant!
How you handle this is completely up to you, but it all depends on what you want to accomplish. I have to say I probably agree with the previous answer, and most likely he only apologized because he got in trouble.
Think about it - you can be the better person, that you know you are, and forgive him and let it go...
or, you can hold on to your anger and let him have it. But does that really resolve your issue?
The choice is yours, but based on your response to him, you know how to take care of yourself and you don't seem to be the kind of girl that would let an idiot like that intimidate you!
Good luck!
ok first this guy sounds like a fag second no don't forgive him he was a jerk for what he said to you and he needs more then a letter to make up for what he said and sweety you sound a little bit conceded sorry but just the way you put the whole *he said i was ugly and im not* thing just sounded like you were kinda full of yourself but whatever i don't know you so i cant judge!
I would never say that to a lady. End of story.
The guy probably has a crush on you but, he has to learn to be cool about the way he shows it.
Finally, he got you into the principals office, he should apologize in front of the principal. Otherwise, forget the apology.
No, I wouldn't forgive him. The apology letter isn't really because he's sorry for what he said, but because he got in trouble for it and he could say to the principal ';I tried to apologize';. It's not sincere. That was a ****** up thing to say.
What an idiot.. Geez. I wouldnt forgive him. Why should i? You didnt do anything to provoke him. He just chose to be a jerk. Forget him. He's not worth your time sweety.
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He sounds like a d-ck. No don't forgive him, why would you? And if he said that for no reason at all, then who knows why he said it. Maybe he's just trying to be a d-ck, like I said.
No, I'd never say that to a girl. What kind of jerk would do that? Don't forgive him.lips
That guy is a such a jerk. Why did you get in trouble, too? Seems like you didn't deserve to be at all.
Letter form is not as sincere as if he did it face to face. He probably did it to cover himself.
I wouldn't forgive a guy for doing that. He did it intentionally and he pushed by swearing and being so mean. He didn't gain anything from it, he acted like an immature idiot.
Don't forgive him. Ignore him,.
Best of luck.
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No, I would never ever forgive him, he's a jerk. He probably only gave you the apology letter because the principal said to, and he also did it in public even more reason to not forgive him. If I was you I wouldn't even talk to him anymore, he didn't do that becasue he liked you cause when a boy teases sometimes they don't do it that harsh. I hope you didn't get in trouble you didn't do anything wrong. He also probably did that so he could give a excuse to the principal or make you feel bad. He's crazy you must be a beautiful young lady, if I was a boy I would had never said that I would have been a gentlemen.
First of all, this guy is a hater. He somehow finds joy in other people's misery or lack of self confidence. I think he doesn't need an apology, nor does he deserve one. If anything, he deserves to be kicked in the nuts.
Second, I would never tell a girl that, although I have said some stupid things to some girls, and the consequences where painful. So at this point i would be too afraid to tell a girl something like that. I do know that girls like to know that they're pretty, so in a guy's case, it would be smarter to lie anyway.
Ok, here is my opinion...
What that guy said to you was immature and just plain STUPID! Guys who bully girls probably have major confidence issues of their own. And kudos for your answer, that was brilliant!
How you handle this is completely up to you, but it all depends on what you want to accomplish. I have to say I probably agree with the previous answer, and most likely he only apologized because he got in trouble.
Think about it - you can be the better person, that you know you are, and forgive him and let it go...
or, you can hold on to your anger and let him have it. But does that really resolve your issue?
The choice is yours, but based on your response to him, you know how to take care of yourself and you don't seem to be the kind of girl that would let an idiot like that intimidate you!
Good luck!
ok first this guy sounds like a fag second no don't forgive him he was a jerk for what he said to you and he needs more then a letter to make up for what he said and sweety you sound a little bit conceded sorry but just the way you put the whole *he said i was ugly and im not* thing just sounded like you were kinda full of yourself but whatever i don't know you so i cant judge!
I would never say that to a lady. End of story.
The guy probably has a crush on you but, he has to learn to be cool about the way he shows it.
Finally, he got you into the principals office, he should apologize in front of the principal. Otherwise, forget the apology.
No, I wouldn't forgive him. The apology letter isn't really because he's sorry for what he said, but because he got in trouble for it and he could say to the principal ';I tried to apologize';. It's not sincere. That was a ****** up thing to say.
What an idiot.. Geez. I wouldnt forgive him. Why should i? You didnt do anything to provoke him. He just chose to be a jerk. Forget him. He's not worth your time sweety.
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He sounds like a d-ck. No don't forgive him, why would you? And if he said that for no reason at all, then who knows why he said it. Maybe he's just trying to be a d-ck, like I said.
No, I'd never say that to a girl. What kind of jerk would do that? Don't forgive him.
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This problem I have is about my girlfriend. We are both 18 years old in our last year of high school, been together for about 5 months and she still hasn't told her parents about me. In fact, she hasn't told anyone in her family about me and the only times I get to go to her house is when we sneak over there when her parents are out and brothers are not home. She tells me that her father ';may'; freak out because she has somewhat protective parents. Her mother is okay with the whole dating thing, but she is mainly scared that her dad will make her stop seeing me and stop letting her go out in fear that she will be going out with a guy. I personally think this is weird because my parents and family know all about her, she has actually met them too and they are quite fond of her. She always has to make excuses to go out to see me such as ';I'm going out with some friends to dinner'; or something, and I just feel that there are just so many excuses you can make. Should I feel weird abt dis?Need advice from you guys about this GF trouble?
I'm in my late 20's , just from my experience just let her move at her own pace. When I was with my recent ex, she introduced me to her friends and her oldest brother out of nowhere. I mean litterally I was invited by her to go with some friends for dinner and all of a sudden a whole lot of her friends were coming into this cafe, many more than she told me about. no joke hahaha. And I had noone there that I knew. Now she never introduced me to her parents ,she only told them about me and showed pictures of me. And now I see why, because we're not together now lol. It's just the way it is, girls are going to be funny about that. I had no prob introducing her to my family after a couple months. Everyone just goes at there own speed for various factors. The smart thing to do is to just let her be the one that decides when it's okay that the parents meet you. Just an additional piece of info. I did take a little bit of offense after a few months not meeting the parents, but what can you do? I didn't make too big of a deal with it, but you just have to understand how she feels. Don't get too offended, could cause some problems.Need advice from you guys about this GF trouble?
its def weird especially since she's 18. she really needs to talk to her dad about this. she is an adult now. Its time for her to step up and talk to her parents about dating they cant possibly beleive she hasn't had a bf her whole highschool years. talk to her about it.
well yeah u should feel wierd. i would feel wierd too but i think that shes too woried about her dad. i think that her dad might understand if she just told him. if she really liked you she would just tell her dad.
I'm in my late 20's , just from my experience just let her move at her own pace. When I was with my recent ex, she introduced me to her friends and her oldest brother out of nowhere. I mean litterally I was invited by her to go with some friends for dinner and all of a sudden a whole lot of her friends were coming into this cafe, many more than she told me about. no joke hahaha. And I had noone there that I knew. Now she never introduced me to her parents ,she only told them about me and showed pictures of me. And now I see why, because we're not together now lol. It's just the way it is, girls are going to be funny about that. I had no prob introducing her to my family after a couple months. Everyone just goes at there own speed for various factors. The smart thing to do is to just let her be the one that decides when it's okay that the parents meet you. Just an additional piece of info. I did take a little bit of offense after a few months not meeting the parents, but what can you do? I didn't make too big of a deal with it, but you just have to understand how she feels. Don't get too offended, could cause some problems.Need advice from you guys about this GF trouble?
its def weird especially since she's 18. she really needs to talk to her dad about this. she is an adult now. Its time for her to step up and talk to her parents about dating they cant possibly beleive she hasn't had a bf her whole highschool years. talk to her about it.
well yeah u should feel wierd. i would feel wierd too but i think that shes too woried about her dad. i think that her dad might understand if she just told him. if she really liked you she would just tell her dad.
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Hello everyone,
I'm 16 and have had a girlfriend until around 8 months ago, where I had to move to another town temporarily. We decided it would be best to break up.
When I moved back, she had a new boyfriend who currently does not take any interest in what she does. I feel like he's taking her for granted, and using her as some sort of status symbol. (She stayed up until 3:30AM helping him type up a project report around a week ago.)
Last time I visited her place with my friends, she hugged me; I was rather taken aback. When I didn't hug her, she said, ';fine, don't hug me back you bastard.'; (In a joking voice, of course.) So I ended up hugging her. We also IM each other almost everyday (sometimes I start it, sometimes she does.) Actually, just yesterday, she was telling me about how her current boyfriend was trying to make her feel guilty about changing bits of her personality for him. Her bf claims that their relationship is getting closer, whereby she thinks that they are drifting apart.
Could this mean that she still likes me? Or do friends normally do this?
She also told one of my friends that she's ';afraid to like'; me, due the the fact I may move away again.
I'm completely confused by this whole situation.
I still like her, but have no clue what to do.
Here's a bit of an IM conversation we had earlier:
Ex: wanna know something?
Me: um.. sure
Ex: yeah.. i still got a thing for you...
Ex: how does that make you feel?
Me: the feeling is kind of indescribable really
Me: how about you?
Ex: well are you smiling?
Me: of course I am
Ex: i'm just glad that i can make you smile.
Aaand yeah, I'm not going to disclose everything.
But yeah, I need to know what to do with this..Need advice from both guys and girls?
What to do you this? Sounds like they might break up soon... but that doesn't matter you have to assure her that you will not move again ... she need to trust you ... I don't know how you will do it though.
Bringing up how much you have missed her and that you still like/love her may help you out.Need advice from both guys and girls?
just let her figure out her problems with the new guy herself. theyll prolly breakup and then you can just be there for her and what happens will happen.
1.) If she has a boyfriend, she should be off-limits; ex or not.
2.) If she likes you and doesn't want to be with her current boyfriend, then she needs to make some changes in her life.
3.) If you still like her, let her know. It might be the final push to get her to dump the new guy and go back to you.
Bottom line, though, is that you moved away and she found someone else. She just doesn't want that to happen again. I understand that. The biggest bright spot for you is that the reason you broke up was because of a move, not something that someone did, per-say.
Well, she obviously likes you but is afraid to since you might just leave her hanging like before.
If you're sure that you both would be able to make this work again, then just talk to her one-on-one and let her know how you feel. If you want her, then tell her. But bare in mind that she's not even being fair towards her boyfriend. She shouldn't be flirting with you like that while she belongs to another. Does she want you? Why is she putting up with his **** when she feels as though they're drifting apart? Ask her that. Know what she wants.
If you know what you want, then be firm with her and tell her. She doesn't seem so happy with that other guy, so chances are she might be moving towards you now.
She obv. likes you, and I think it would be easier for you to get her back but don't rush into it just yet. Try and catch up on what you've missed as well.
Sounds like your breakup might have been peaceful, which means that there is a very good chance feelings are left over, or still there. Just be there for her, keep her happy, be the nice guy, it eventually she will leave this other guy, give her a grief period, but be there for support, ease her into the possibility of you getting together again, if she wants to, she will pick up quickly and the grief period may be unneeded if she cuts it off for you.
Stick with it, just be the good guy, she will see who cares more.
I don't know you or your ex, obviously, but i think she likes to know she has your attention.
Let her go on her own with her new guy.
As harsh as this is, who cares how he treats her? If she's really blinded by what goals he might have by being with her, shes not too bright. and if she isn't, why would you want a girl who would put up with that ****?
Well obviously she still likes you and she probably misses you. i mean you could see where your friendship goes or you can talk to her seriously about what happened. tell her you still like her and discus rather it would be good to stay just friends or what. her currently boyfriend doesnt seem like a very good boyfriend and she might want better. let her know how you feel. you could always stay friends, but its hard to stay friends if your both not over eachother.
Well she obviously still likes you but basically it's up to you whether you want to start things up. Make sure you don't expect her to just break up with her boyfriend and be sensitive about how she is feeling. She must be feeling guilty about liking you still when she is dating someone else. Make sure that if you decide that your relationship before was great and you want to start it again that you wont go away and break her heart again (even if you both agreed that it was something you had to do she isn't exactly going to be perfectly fine about someone she loves going away and ending a relationship. Remember to think how she is feeling all the time and be empathetic because I'm sure you don't want to mess it up.
You are the boring ';nice'; guy who got dumped for the more exciting ';bad boy';.
Give up on this loser, and find someone who can actually appreciate you.
You Should Go For It.. Tell Her How You Feel..
That You Think Her Boyfriend Is Taking Advantage Of Her And That You Miss Her.. Im Sure She Will Be Glad To Hear That
she still likes you shes just scareed to start something with you because u might move again
try to talk to her and work something out
and hopefully you wont move so you can get bk togather
I'm 16 and have had a girlfriend until around 8 months ago, where I had to move to another town temporarily. We decided it would be best to break up.
When I moved back, she had a new boyfriend who currently does not take any interest in what she does. I feel like he's taking her for granted, and using her as some sort of status symbol. (She stayed up until 3:30AM helping him type up a project report around a week ago.)
Last time I visited her place with my friends, she hugged me; I was rather taken aback. When I didn't hug her, she said, ';fine, don't hug me back you bastard.'; (In a joking voice, of course.) So I ended up hugging her. We also IM each other almost everyday (sometimes I start it, sometimes she does.) Actually, just yesterday, she was telling me about how her current boyfriend was trying to make her feel guilty about changing bits of her personality for him. Her bf claims that their relationship is getting closer, whereby she thinks that they are drifting apart.
Could this mean that she still likes me? Or do friends normally do this?
She also told one of my friends that she's ';afraid to like'; me, due the the fact I may move away again.
I'm completely confused by this whole situation.
I still like her, but have no clue what to do.
Here's a bit of an IM conversation we had earlier:
Ex: wanna know something?
Me: um.. sure
Ex: yeah.. i still got a thing for you...
Ex: how does that make you feel?
Me: the feeling is kind of indescribable really
Me: how about you?
Ex: well are you smiling?
Me: of course I am
Ex: i'm just glad that i can make you smile.
Aaand yeah, I'm not going to disclose everything.
But yeah, I need to know what to do with this..Need advice from both guys and girls?
What to do you this? Sounds like they might break up soon... but that doesn't matter you have to assure her that you will not move again ... she need to trust you ... I don't know how you will do it though.
Bringing up how much you have missed her and that you still like/love her may help you out.Need advice from both guys and girls?
just let her figure out her problems with the new guy herself. theyll prolly breakup and then you can just be there for her and what happens will happen.
1.) If she has a boyfriend, she should be off-limits; ex or not.
2.) If she likes you and doesn't want to be with her current boyfriend, then she needs to make some changes in her life.
3.) If you still like her, let her know. It might be the final push to get her to dump the new guy and go back to you.
Bottom line, though, is that you moved away and she found someone else. She just doesn't want that to happen again. I understand that. The biggest bright spot for you is that the reason you broke up was because of a move, not something that someone did, per-say.
Well, she obviously likes you but is afraid to since you might just leave her hanging like before.
If you're sure that you both would be able to make this work again, then just talk to her one-on-one and let her know how you feel. If you want her, then tell her. But bare in mind that she's not even being fair towards her boyfriend. She shouldn't be flirting with you like that while she belongs to another. Does she want you? Why is she putting up with his **** when she feels as though they're drifting apart? Ask her that. Know what she wants.
If you know what you want, then be firm with her and tell her. She doesn't seem so happy with that other guy, so chances are she might be moving towards you now.
She obv. likes you, and I think it would be easier for you to get her back but don't rush into it just yet. Try and catch up on what you've missed as well.
Sounds like your breakup might have been peaceful, which means that there is a very good chance feelings are left over, or still there. Just be there for her, keep her happy, be the nice guy, it eventually she will leave this other guy, give her a grief period, but be there for support, ease her into the possibility of you getting together again, if she wants to, she will pick up quickly and the grief period may be unneeded if she cuts it off for you.
Stick with it, just be the good guy, she will see who cares more.
I don't know you or your ex, obviously, but i think she likes to know she has your attention.
Let her go on her own with her new guy.
As harsh as this is, who cares how he treats her? If she's really blinded by what goals he might have by being with her, shes not too bright. and if she isn't, why would you want a girl who would put up with that ****?
Well obviously she still likes you and she probably misses you. i mean you could see where your friendship goes or you can talk to her seriously about what happened. tell her you still like her and discus rather it would be good to stay just friends or what. her currently boyfriend doesnt seem like a very good boyfriend and she might want better. let her know how you feel. you could always stay friends, but its hard to stay friends if your both not over eachother.
Well she obviously still likes you but basically it's up to you whether you want to start things up. Make sure you don't expect her to just break up with her boyfriend and be sensitive about how she is feeling. She must be feeling guilty about liking you still when she is dating someone else. Make sure that if you decide that your relationship before was great and you want to start it again that you wont go away and break her heart again (even if you both agreed that it was something you had to do she isn't exactly going to be perfectly fine about someone she loves going away and ending a relationship. Remember to think how she is feeling all the time and be empathetic because I'm sure you don't want to mess it up.
You are the boring ';nice'; guy who got dumped for the more exciting ';bad boy';.
Give up on this loser, and find someone who can actually appreciate you.
You Should Go For It.. Tell Her How You Feel..
That You Think Her Boyfriend Is Taking Advantage Of Her And That You Miss Her.. Im Sure She Will Be Glad To Hear That
she still likes you shes just scareed to start something with you because u might move again
try to talk to her and work something out
and hopefully you wont move so you can get bk togather
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