Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?

he has a nickname for me it's not a cute one. he says hi to me when he is with his friends. he can be mean to me sometimes so i kinda ignored him when he did that but he still tried to talk to me even though he knew that i was trying to ignore him cause he was being mean to me.are these signs that he likes me?Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?
It's only your lack of years of experience that would help you understand that the attention you get from a guy is his way of flirting. Sometimes it's serious flirting and sometimes it's just being nice flirting.


The problem is in your perception of what he says and does. He thinks you get the meaning as he intends it. You might rather him tell you in a nice sweet honest sincere way; that he is very attracted to you both physically and emotionally and would like the chance to convince you of his attraction and make you feel loved and cared for on every spiritual level of your truly elegant and special feminine being. That he's been writing reams of poetry about how special you are to him and how he would love the chance to read some to you in the solarium when you can find the time and are interested . . . .But . . . that's probably not going to happen, right?


It's more like the guy is just growing out of the stage where we hit girls or pushed them down steal their Barbie's or step on their sandcastle to prove our affections and will get better with time and experience.


Take even the ';mean'; stuff as an attempt to flirt. We guys have such a problem with risking rejection from the simple declaration of our affections such as, ';You are pretty and I'm attracted to you and would like to get to know you better.'; We expect you would run howling to your friends about the new school freak if we did that or in the least, laugh in our face. You can correct him even if you keep it very subtle (not like his mom). When he does the mean thing, you can say ';It seems your style needs a little more polish or do you really intend to hurt my feelings with that kind of thing?'; Now this gives him the chance to straighten the thing out with the proper words. After all, he thinks or expects you to understand that he likes you in his own language. The book ';Men Are From Mars %26amp; Women Are From Venus'; explains the difference in verbal styles and languages of men and women.Can you give me advice on this situation want a guys perspective(girls can answer too)?
This happens alot. Boys act all mean but then are sweet. If you two are close friends then have one of his friends ask him if he likes you. If he does then take a shot and ask him out. I get in this situation alot. But if he has a girl friend already, wait until he asks you out.
yeah he denenently likes u boys do that a sing that a boy likes u is they act mean to u to get ur attention. i beat if u ask he;ll say he likes u
just talk to him about it dont let it get to you to much

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