Need advice from both guys and girls?

Hello everyone,





I'm 16 and have had a girlfriend until around 8 months ago, where I had to move to another town temporarily. We decided it would be best to break up.





When I moved back, she had a new boyfriend who currently does not take any interest in what she does. I feel like he's taking her for granted, and using her as some sort of status symbol. (She stayed up until 3:30AM helping him type up a project report around a week ago.)





Last time I visited her place with my friends, she hugged me; I was rather taken aback. When I didn't hug her, she said, ';fine, don't hug me back you bastard.'; (In a joking voice, of course.) So I ended up hugging her. We also IM each other almost everyday (sometimes I start it, sometimes she does.) Actually, just yesterday, she was telling me about how her current boyfriend was trying to make her feel guilty about changing bits of her personality for him. Her bf claims that their relationship is getting closer, whereby she thinks that they are drifting apart.





Could this mean that she still likes me? Or do friends normally do this?





She also told one of my friends that she's ';afraid to like'; me, due the the fact I may move away again.





I'm completely confused by this whole situation.





I still like her, but have no clue what to do.





Here's a bit of an IM conversation we had earlier:





Ex: wanna know something?


Me: um.. sure


Ex: yeah.. i still got a thing for you...


Ex: how does that make you feel?


Me: the feeling is kind of indescribable really


Me: how about you?


Ex: well are you smiling?


Me: of course I am


Ex: i'm just glad that i can make you smile.





Aaand yeah, I'm not going to disclose everything.





But yeah, I need to know what to do with this..Need advice from both guys and girls?
What to do you this? Sounds like they might break up soon... but that doesn't matter you have to assure her that you will not move again ... she need to trust you ... I don't know how you will do it though.





Bringing up how much you have missed her and that you still like/love her may help you out.Need advice from both guys and girls?
just let her figure out her problems with the new guy herself. theyll prolly breakup and then you can just be there for her and what happens will happen.
1.) If she has a boyfriend, she should be off-limits; ex or not.





2.) If she likes you and doesn't want to be with her current boyfriend, then she needs to make some changes in her life.





3.) If you still like her, let her know. It might be the final push to get her to dump the new guy and go back to you.





Bottom line, though, is that you moved away and she found someone else. She just doesn't want that to happen again. I understand that. The biggest bright spot for you is that the reason you broke up was because of a move, not something that someone did, per-say.
Well, she obviously likes you but is afraid to since you might just leave her hanging like before.





If you're sure that you both would be able to make this work again, then just talk to her one-on-one and let her know how you feel. If you want her, then tell her. But bare in mind that she's not even being fair towards her boyfriend. She shouldn't be flirting with you like that while she belongs to another. Does she want you? Why is she putting up with his **** when she feels as though they're drifting apart? Ask her that. Know what she wants.





If you know what you want, then be firm with her and tell her. She doesn't seem so happy with that other guy, so chances are she might be moving towards you now.





She obv. likes you, and I think it would be easier for you to get her back but don't rush into it just yet. Try and catch up on what you've missed as well.
Sounds like your breakup might have been peaceful, which means that there is a very good chance feelings are left over, or still there. Just be there for her, keep her happy, be the nice guy, it eventually she will leave this other guy, give her a grief period, but be there for support, ease her into the possibility of you getting together again, if she wants to, she will pick up quickly and the grief period may be unneeded if she cuts it off for you.





Stick with it, just be the good guy, she will see who cares more.
I don't know you or your ex, obviously, but i think she likes to know she has your attention.





Let her go on her own with her new guy.





As harsh as this is, who cares how he treats her? If she's really blinded by what goals he might have by being with her, shes not too bright. and if she isn't, why would you want a girl who would put up with that ****?
Well obviously she still likes you and she probably misses you. i mean you could see where your friendship goes or you can talk to her seriously about what happened. tell her you still like her and discus rather it would be good to stay just friends or what. her currently boyfriend doesnt seem like a very good boyfriend and she might want better. let her know how you feel. you could always stay friends, but its hard to stay friends if your both not over eachother.
Well she obviously still likes you but basically it's up to you whether you want to start things up. Make sure you don't expect her to just break up with her boyfriend and be sensitive about how she is feeling. She must be feeling guilty about liking you still when she is dating someone else. Make sure that if you decide that your relationship before was great and you want to start it again that you wont go away and break her heart again (even if you both agreed that it was something you had to do she isn't exactly going to be perfectly fine about someone she loves going away and ending a relationship. Remember to think how she is feeling all the time and be empathetic because I'm sure you don't want to mess it up.
You are the boring ';nice'; guy who got dumped for the more exciting ';bad boy';.





Give up on this loser, and find someone who can actually appreciate you.
You Should Go For It.. Tell Her How You Feel..


That You Think Her Boyfriend Is Taking Advantage Of Her And That You Miss Her.. Im Sure She Will Be Glad To Hear That
she still likes you shes just scareed to start something with you because u might move again


try to talk to her and work something out


and hopefully you wont move so you can get bk togather