Thursday, August 19, 2010

Advice needed - clingy guys?

theres this guy and he really likes me. i met him in late july and its now christmas day, same year. hes 3 years older then me and is sending me messages like...


';O so u must not like me da way i like u just as while i could never get wit someone dat looks like u u look like an angel and i dont deserve someone like u';


and


';how u r da most beautiful girl i kno and i kno dam well u deserve better then me and dont deserve u its as easy as dat and it dont matter cuz u dont like me like';


i mean hes a really nice guy.


he said that his sister will drive him to come see me and jank hes really sweet but what should i do!!Advice needed - clingy guys?
what should you do about what? i don't get your question.Advice needed - clingy guys?
Depends if you like him back or not.


If you don't like him you should meet up with him in person and tell him that. Its not fair on the poor guy if you keep on stringing him along because from the sounds of it he likes you a lot.


Its better if you just tell him you don't like him out front than have him thinking he has a chance.
I agree with the girl above me give him a chance cause youll never know what couldve been for you two.
aww thats cute. you should give him a chance. this kid liked me and i turned him down now i'm completely whipped and he doesnt want me back.. so dont miss this chance because he'll move on.. and you'll one day think back on how you missed out on him
He sounds needy, clingy and not good boyfriend material. Leave him alone because he will ne nearly impossible to get rid of if you are nice to him. Let him be some other girl's problem.
He sounds like he has low self esteem. He should probably work on that one. I personally find it annoying as hell, buy hey. Whatever floats your boat.
Give him a chance, or just cut off connections with him.
You should tell him to come over and then teach him how to spell.
give him a chance ,he is kissing ur *** i dnt think many guys will put themselves down for a gir.
i dont speak dat language
first of all, the fact that he's three years older than you should kinda make you a little alert. he's more mature than you, so he has more mature needs. by the looks of his texts, he's also pretty desperate to get with you and thinks you are very pretty. he's probably just a really horny sucker and wants to make you feel like you're in total control of him. he might seem like a nice friend but it really seems like he wants to be with you and by ';seeing you'; i think he has other plans in mind.





good luck, and dont do anything you're not comfortable with.
First of all, how old are the both of you? Second, are you already involved or did this guy just all of a sudden start talking to you like this? If you have never been on a date with this guy then either go for it if your interested and if not then tell him to stop beating himself up and make a move on you. The only thing that strikes be as odd is that he tells you things like that but he is beating himself up which shows a lack of confidence, he cares about you but obviously does not care enough to send messages with actual words..(i.e.';u,dat,da,wit';). If you have interest in this guy then for it, but keep an eye on him.

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