Advice on Divorced Guys....?

Ok this guy has been divorced for 2years now. He hasnt spoken to his ex for over a year but they were married for 3-4 years. He hasnt started seeing anyone again until now. We just recently met and had like couple of conversations.





Why did he wait so long? Do you think he still thinks about her?


He said it was hard time so he didnt wanna be in another relationship until now, but its been like 2 years!!





Is that a good thing or a bad thing? Should I ditch him before it goes any further? I just dont want someone with a emotional baggage.





The reason for divorce was that they were fighting a lot.Advice on Divorced Guys....?
He was married for 4 years plus theres the time before when they were dating,its adds up to be a big chunk of anyones life..


As for dating some one with 'baggage', who doesn't have any baggage ??


Treat him the same as any other date,Advice on Divorced Guys....?
He sounds great to me. He obviously has deep feelings and was badly hurt. People need time to get over things. Not everyone wants to rush into another relationship when one goes wrong. Of course he will still think about her at times, it is only natural but it doesn't mean that he won't be able to build up a relationship with you.
It sounds to me like he was really hurt and took the time to try and heal and find out what he really wants in life. I don't think 2 years is too long. I am sure he is still going to be cautious and want to take things slow. I'd rather have someone do that then to rush into things, decide he was making a mistake and break my heart.
You have to wonder what happened with the first marriage....In my expeirience...SHE left him for a reason!


Try to take a step back and really evaluate HIM before you get into anything.
i think that its positive time has gone by? its a bonus for you no?? i think he did the right think letting himself be single and let his mind rest from the time that he had with her,good for him! he needed that to heal.he fought with her or they both did but that doesnt mean you two are the same?? each couple are different... Depending on your or his age,everyone has baggage (or alot of people) so in this little world of ours,we just have to accept it.... i dont see why you shouldnt date him and go on as normal, so long as you dont mind him being divorced id say enjoy it, its the summer :O) xx